So, in desperation, Sheng Qingfeng had no choice but to smile, nodded and replied: "Baihe, as you said, the word 'fine steel' that appears in this poem is indeed the same as what I said about 'King Kong'."
The pronunciation of the two characters ' is the same.
The example you gave is good. You don’t need to say anything more, just let the facts speak for you. It seems that you are really not simple!
I accidentally misheard the words you said and misunderstood your meaning. We have been struggling with this for a while, which is really embarrassing.
Bai He, to be honest, I know that sometimes I have a very stubborn temper, and I feel a bit resigned to death, so don’t blame me!"
Hearing what Sheng Qingfeng said, Shang Baifeng didn't know what to say, so he naturally smiled and nodded and said: "Qingniu, you who are so obedient will inevitably misunderstand the words due to the speaker's dialect tone or pronunciation habits.
What you say will miss the meaning of your words.
Of course, sometimes the pronunciation of words may be incorrect due to the ignorance and unawareness of the speaker, as was the case for me.
Regarding this, please be patient and don’t take it to your heart!”
Unexpectedly, Shang Baifeng would be so bold to make a fool of himself. After hearing this, Sheng Qingfeng was a little overjoyed.
This was not an expression of Sheng Qingfeng's gloating after seeing Shang Baifeng do this.
Instead, Sheng Qingfeng felt that Shang Baifeng's emotional intelligence was very high, and his way of dealing with problems seemed mature and steady, and he couldn't help but feel sincerely happy for him.
After he took the initiative and sincerely expressed his apology, Shang Baifeng immediately set up another "step" for himself verbally, and he did not hesitate to shame himself for it. He was really witty and considerate.
This situation shows that Shang Baifeng is a very smart young man.
When colleagues who are older than you have ambiguities in understanding because of your carelessness in speaking, being able to communicate patiently and remain calm and not in a hurry is a good performance in itself.
And when he deliberately struggled with him on the issue of the same pronunciation and different words, Shang Baifeng saw that the situation was getting more and more confusing, so he did not just go around in circles, leaving the problem unresolved for a long time, and even fell into
deadlock.
Under such circumstances, Shang Baifeng was able to find another way to solve the crux of the problem by starting from the word "gold", which was not a dispute between the two parties. In fact, it was a misunderstanding caused by the homophone.
But I didn't expect that Shang Baifeng would have such a train of thought, so Shang Baifeng seized the opportunity in one fell swoop, so that I couldn't make any reaction. I could only do it according to the problem he said and according to his idea.
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He was originally good at psychological research and analysis, but now Shang Baifeng, a young boy, had taken advantage of him. He opened a hole in the verbal trap he had deliberately set and rushed out.
Shang Baifeng's move not only broke the communication dilemma that originally surrounded him, but also disrupted the rhythm and layout of his own words.
Sheng Qingfeng was a little upset about this, and blamed himself very much for being careless.
However, after seeing Shang Baifeng express his thoughts on the theme of self-defeat, Sheng Qingfeng did not expect it for the second time, but he was very happy in his heart.
What this person wants when getting along with others is face.
The respect that everyone gets is actually a true reflection of your respect for others and has nothing to do with personal ability.
No matter how capable a person is, but he doesn't know how to respect others, he will definitely not get respect from people.
Even if you are a high-ranking person, getting sincere respect from the bottom of your heart is a luxury and difficult to achieve.
The best way for people to get along is to tolerate each other's shortcomings and think about problems from another person's perspective. If you can do this, you will naturally be able to live in harmony.
Sheng Qingfeng spoke highly of Shang Baifeng's performance just now and thought it was a textbook approach.
Even though he clearly occupied the high point of the debate and took the initiative, Shang Baifeng took the initiative to take the issues that caused controversy and ambiguity upon himself. This move fully released his goodwill, and naturally
You will get a good response.
To know the truth and know the appropriateness, to know the truth and respect others, to know the kindness and kindness when the reason is right, and to ask for advice when the reason is unreasonable is actually the way to be a human being and the foundation of dealing with the world.
If this fundamental truth is reflected in real life, it means that after clarifying the problem, we will not get to the bottom of the controversy caused by the problem, but will deal with it in a very appropriate way.
It dissolves into nothingness.
But this kind of thing is easy to say, but not easy to do.
Without a broad mind and a broad vision, it is absolutely impossible to do such a thing.
And Shang Baifeng not only did it, but he did it very skillfully.
He very wisely chose to look for problems within himself. He was looking for faults on his own and was not looking at anyone with colored glasses. No one would say anything about this, right?
This is equivalent to terminating and solving the current problems in a timely manner, and no longer allows them to continue to evolve, causing them to get out of control and eventually become uncontrollable.
Sheng Qingfeng knew very well that if he were to deal with the situation faced by Shang Baifeng, he would probably choose Shang Baifeng's method and use this self-destructive method to resolve the embarrassing situation he faced.
As the person involved, Sheng Qingfeng actually didn't notice that Shang Baifeng's mood and state were not always so calm.
When he first discovered that Sheng Qingfeng misheard the words he spoke, Shang Baifeng was also quite anxious.
In fact, Shang Baifeng was at a loss as to how to explain to Sheng Qingfeng that he misheard the words he said.
This situation did not change until Shang Baifeng discovered the subtle changes in a person's expression.
Shang Baifeng also began to gradually calm down, and looked for a breakthrough in his words that would allow him to explain clearly the issues he had been struggling with.
After calming down, Shang Baifeng realized that the whole story was not complicated. It was just because the two words he said had the same pronunciation.
Although the two words Sheng Qingfeng said have the same pronunciation and different shapes as the two words he said, and their meanings are also very different, by coincidence, the two words Sheng Qingfeng said are also the same.
It has a very good meaning.
As a result, the situation at the scene has become very complicated. I wonder who is right between Sheng Qingfeng and Shang Baifeng.