Chapter 610 Good governance of others but not good governance of oneself
Sheng Qingfeng is good at and willing to guide others. He likes to focus on grasping the details of other people's psychological activities and does not like to express his thoughts to others in too direct a way.
This is a professional habit he has developed over many years of diagnosis and treatment of psychological problems.
It was also for this reason that after he was ordered to return to build the "Yongwang Guard", he would always feel a little unaccustomed to the new work style and communication habits during the following period.
Because of such practical problems, Sheng Qingfeng has been unable to fully integrate into the group, which has led to his serious lack of self-confidence.
If he hadn't received timely encouragement and help from Xie Liuyun, Shang Baifeng, Huang Hanhan and others in his daily life, he would have been enveloped in pessimism.
This is really in line with the saying, "A doctor is good at treating people but not himself; a farmer is good at management but not good at economics."
However, under Yong Ming's sudden "forced questioning", Sheng Qingfeng felt that his brain seemed to have "opened up" in an instant.
He felt that using Yong Ming's questions to explain the situation himself was a very good direct opportunity to guide everyone to establish a harmonious team consciousness.
At the same time, he also realized that this should be the purpose of regulating the team that Yong Ming wanted to achieve through his own words and actual performance.
So, after simply organizing his thoughts in his mind, Sheng Qingfeng began to report to Yong Ming.
At the same time, he was also using this process of reporting the situation to inform Xie Liuyun and others about the specific situation.
Sheng Qingfeng told candidly that he took the initiative to name the code name of the operation to annihilate the "Twelve Disciples" based on the precautions proposed by Huang Hanhan, which triggered the rise of exchanges.
During the whole process of listening to Sheng Qingfeng's story, Xie Liuyun, Shang Baifeng and Huang Hanhan, who had generally understood the truth of the matter, were able to maintain a calm mind and listen without any fluctuations in their emotions.
Their performance also made Sheng Qingfeng, who had some understanding of this during the exchange just now, not at all surprised.
Seeing the situation in front of him, Yong Ming couldn't help but smile.
This shows that although Xie Liuyun and the four of them did not tell each other explicitly in the exchange just now, they were tacit about most things.
Xie Liuyun, Sheng Qingfeng, Shang Baifeng and Huang Hanhan are all very thoughtful people, which is particularly reassuring to Yong Ming.
Now, as Sheng Qingfeng starts from the beginning and tells the story from the beginning, Xie Liuyun, Shang Baifeng and Huang Hanhan are no longer unclear about everything.
The more things they know, the better Xie Liuyun and others can appreciate Sheng Qingfeng's hard work.
For Xie Liuyun and Huang Hanhan, Sheng Qingfeng's story only verified their guesses. After being confirmed, they felt a little emotional.
If this team wants to maintain unity and combat effectiveness for a long time, the team members must be close to each other, just like brothers, brothers and sisters.
As the eldest brother of several people, Sheng Qingfeng's actions are in line with his own identity and responsibilities.
As the other party involved in the main exchange, Shang Baifeng's emotions were much more complicated than those of Xie Liuyun and Huang Hanhan. He had such deep and deliberate feelings towards Sheng Qingfeng.
As for Sheng Qingfeng's insistence on initiating communication, to be honest, Shang Baifeng had some misconceptions during the communication just now.
However, this is no wonder, but it is also no wonder for Shang Baifeng.
After all, before this, Shang Baifeng didn't think deeply about the problems existing in the team, so naturally he didn't think about it in this aspect.
If there is nothing to think about, there will be nothing to think about, and if there is no thought, there will naturally be no action.
However, Shang Baifeng is still a little proud that he became Sheng Qingfeng's partner in activating the team atmosphere during the exchange, and feels that he has contributed to the mature development of the team.
Although Shang Baifeng did not figure out Sheng Qingfeng's intentions in time and did not fully cooperate with Sheng Qingfeng, he asked himself that his performance was not satisfactory.
As Sheng Qingfeng recounted the ins and outs of the exchange, as he looked back, he finally understood the purpose of the question that Yong Ming had just asked him.
After understanding what Yong Ming gained from Huang Hanhan's performance, Sheng Qingfeng gave a dedicated answer to Yong Ming's question in the last part of his speech.
"Ming Gong, when you asked me just now if I knew what you gained from Han Yan's excited performance, I really didn't know what the answer was.
After you asked, I was still a little anxious, fearing that I might not be able to answer, or that I would be forced to answer and the answer would be wrong.
However, when I recounted the relevant details of my organization of this exchange, in some reflections, I understood what kind of gains you gained from Han Yan's performance.
I think what you get from Han Yan's performance is a natural expression of emotion and a very relaxed feeling of getting along with each other.
In the process of communicating with you, Hanyan did not show any pretense or self-restraint. It was a true expression of what he was thinking.
You value this very much, and it is a real atmosphere of getting along that you want to achieve in your team.
That's all I can think of, and I don't know if what I said is right or not, so please give us some advice."
After Sheng Qingfeng said these words with some emotion, he felt that he must have spoken what Yong Ming was thinking.
However, when thinking about the deep friendship contained in it, even Sheng Qingfeng, who is engaged in research on psychological issues, got a little excited when he said it at the end.
His feeling quickly infected Shang Baifeng, making Shang Baifeng excited.
"Qingniu, even if what you said is not the result Minggong thought, I think that in the future team life, I must be as sincere as you just said and never hide the truth.
I will correct my words and deeds according to the "four principles" of "mind, body, words and deeds" that we talked about today, and cleanse my body and mind.
Of course, I would also like to ask you to supervise and help me in the days to come so that I can cultivate my moral character well."
Shang Baifeng spoke his mind very introspectively.
"Bai He, as Ming Gong's staff, you and I must shoulder this burden.
Let's encourage each other.
However, I also have a lot of things that I need to reflect on and correct, but I dare not ask you to supervise me.
When it comes to asking me to help you, I am somewhat confident that I can do it with difficulty by relying on my advantage of being a few years older than you.
In this regard, I will not use the polite and modest words, and I agree with you."