Seeing that although Xie Liuyun didn't quite understand his behavior, he still maintained his situation.
Shang Baifeng thought in his heart that Xie Liuyun was worthy of being his brother and elder, so he naturally had a majestic aura.
Even if he doesn't understand your intentions, you won't look down on him because of it.
Seeing Xie Liuyun looking at him seriously, Shang Baifeng knew that he could no longer act so mysteriously in front of Xie Liuyun.
Therefore, Shang Baifeng immediately put away his original playful mood and said seriously: "Liuquan, I don't want to talk about the fourth point of doubt about Luo Hongshan. The reason is that this doubt is not shown by Luo Hongshan, but by Luo Hongshan.
A feeling I have."
"Bai He, you mean that the last doubt you have about Luo Hongshan is a feeling of yourself, rather than being detected in Luo Hongshan's performance today, right?"
Xie Liuyun emphasized Shang Baifeng's words again.
"Yes, that's what I think. I think it's a bit too mysterious, so I don't want to say it anymore."
Shang Baifeng nodded.
"Bai He, if you think this way, you are a bit conservative about some things.
Many times, there is something in our "sixth sense" that we cannot explain or understand.
Regarding the things around you, the feeling of self that arises in your heart is often proven correct by the final facts.
However, if you want me to explain the truth contained in this in detail, I can responsibly tell you that I cannot explain it.
What does this situation tell us?
That is, don't deny yourself easily, and don't be blindly confident.
Everyone has a 'sixth sense'.
If this 'sixth sense' is generated based on your full observation and combined with the actual situation or environment.
I think this kind of 'sixth sense' should be very reliable.
Otherwise, it is an unfounded conjecture.
In my opinion, such a 'sixth sense' is not necessary.
A 'sixth sense' based entirely on self-understanding, without the aid of objective conditions, is no different from random guessing.
Judgments based on such a 'sixth sense' can lead to mistakes.
Some people are unaware of this and often confidently believe that their 'sixth sense' is correct.
How can such blind arrogance not cause problems?
Bai He, do you think there is anything wrong with your idea?"
After Xie Liuyun affirmed Shang Baifeng's "sixth sense", he also told him a rule of thumb that should be used to predict things, which was regarded as a reminder to Shang Baifeng.
Xie Liuyun's words inspired Shang Baifeng. Before he appreciated Yong Ming's wisdom and felt the intelligence of Xie Liuyun, Sheng Qingfeng and Huang Hanhan, he was actually a very confident person.
However, in the subsequent daily interactions and learning together, Shang Baifeng became more and more aware of his own shortcomings.
Such a sense of gap between himself and his team members made Shang Baifeng feel disappointed and also significantly weakened his self-confidence.
Over time, Shang Baifeng became a little less confident.
Now, he doesn't want to continue to say that the performance of "sixth sense" is a standard reaction of insufficient self-confidence.
Xie Liuyun noticed this situation of Shang Baifeng very much, so he pointed it out in time.
For this reason, Xie Liuyun did not hesitate to waste more words to resolve this knot for Shang Baifeng.
However, Xie Liuyun also knows that regaining self-confidence cannot be accomplished overnight.
On the one hand, it requires Shang Baifeng's own efforts to actively adjust his mentality.
On the one hand, I also need myself, Sheng Qingfeng and Huang Hanhan to help him so that he can feel more recognized.
However, Xie Liuyun also had some confusion about Shang Baifeng's situation.
He didn't understand. Shang Baifeng seemed to have a carefree personality and seemed to take everything very seriously. How could he gradually become less confident?
Who knows, this is the advantage of Shang Baifeng's character, but it is also a disadvantage.
He seems to be a person with a bold personality and doesn't care about anything. Such people are often very strong.
The more indifferent they appear to be towards the people and things around them, the more they care about what others think of them.
Driven by such a mentality, people with a careless personality will worry that they will do something bad or say something inappropriate, and will be criticized by others.
This strong contrast between external performance and inner state will cause psychological burden.
Under the psychological burden, inherent psychological problems will arise.
If psychological problems are not properly sorted out and resolved, they will cause serious psychological disorders.
Repeatedly like this, a person who seems to be healthy and strong will eventually be crushed.
Such situations are not uncommon in real life.
Xie Liuyun is not an expert in psychological issues, nor has he learned any relevant knowledge, so he cannot compare to Sheng Qingfeng.
But Xie Liuyun has a very simple idea. At this time, he needs to communicate more and relieve the burden on his heart through heart-to-heart conversations.
When this burden is reduced, the whole person's mentality will become relaxed.
When you are mentally relaxed, your outlook on problems will become positive and sunny.
Under the guidance of such a trend, the psychological problems that once existed will be resolved.
Xie Liuyun understood Shang Baifeng's inner problems from Shang Baifeng's pretending to be relaxed on the outside, but in fact he deliberately avoided it in his words.
This is probably a situation that Shang Baifeng has already realized, but has never thought of how to solve.
Since Shang Baifeng, as the person involved, doesn't know how to adjust his condition, then as a teammate, a comrade-in-arms, and an elder brother, I have the responsibility to help him.
Shang Baifeng is a smart man. From what Xie Liuyun said to him just now, he immediately understood the meaning of giving him a hint.
He was aware of the situation that he was becoming less and less confident, but he didn't know how to make adjustments, so he acquiesced to this status quo and was helpless.
Now, after his ideas have been affirmed by Xie Liuyun and his opinions have been fully recognized, Shang Baifeng suddenly feels that his self-confidence has recovered a lot.
It turns out that the best way to restore self-confidence is to actively use your brain, speak your thoughts boldly, and communicate bravely and openly.
In this process of fully expressing yourself, even if what you say is wrong or your perspective on the problem is biased, you don’t need to worry too much about it.
In short, it means having the courage to face up to your own shortcomings and the courage to make improvements.
After doing this, your state will soon return to the same confident, positive and optimistic state as before.