"Liuquan, regarding the four doubts I mentioned about Luo Hongshan, which of them are the same as your thoughts?"
Shang Baifeng finally dared to ask Xie Liuyun for confirmation of his opinions.
"As for the second and third points you mentioned, my understanding is that they can be combined into one. Well... we both have the same idea on this point."
Xie Liuyun expressed his opinion.
"So, do you think that the first reason why you came to inquire about Zhang Taijiang's situation after a few days is not something suspicious about Luo Hongshan?"
Shang Baifeng did not expect that his first opinion about doubting Luo Hongshan would not be recognized by Xie Liuyun.
"Bai He, you can say it that way. However, from what I hear, it seems that you don't agree with my opinion. Have you not thought through it?"
Xie Liuyun looked at Shang Baifeng and asked calmly.
Shang Baifeng nodded and said seriously: "Liuquan, I really haven't figured this out.
Can you tell me more specifically how you considered the first opinion I just mentioned?"
"Bai He, I agree to your request. Moreover, regarding the points you just mentioned, I might as well give you my specific thoughts in a systematic way."
Xie Liuyun readily accepted Shang Baifeng's request to explain his thoughts in detail, and elaborated on his opinions in a comprehensive manner.
This situation certainly made Shang Baifeng very happy.
Therefore, Shang Baifeng looked at Xie Liuyun with some surprise and said: "Liuquan, I didn't expect that you could explain your thoughts like this.
I welcome this with both hands. Please speak quickly, I can't wait to listen."
Xie Liuyun was a little surprised by Shang Baifeng's performance.
But then I thought about it, and it became clear to me how he reacted like this.
Shang Baifeng wants to pursue progress. Naturally, he wants to make himself more comprehensive when thinking about problems.
Xie Liuyun expressed his understanding of this.
"Okay! Then let me start with your first point and tell you what I think.
I think that the channels through which each person obtains information are different, and it may also be that he is limited by his own scope of activities, causing him to miss the opportunity to know the progress of things.
These are all possible objective factors. When we analyze the problems existing in Luo Hongshan, we cannot ignore this factor.
Therefore, it was not something special in itself that Luo Hongshan went to inquire about Zhang Taijiang's situation a few days after his accident.
From my understanding point of view, I think Luo Hongshan's behavior in this matter is normal.
Bai He, after listening to my opinions on this point, what do you think?"
After Xie Liuyun finished speaking his thoughts briefly and concisely, he looked at Shang Baifeng and asked.
Shang Baifeng nodded. After thinking about it, he felt that he had nothing to add or elaborate on.
Moreover, what Xie Liuyun said was very reasonable and he was convinced.
From the perspective of Xie Liuyun's analysis, Luo Hongshan's performance in this aspect is indeed doubtful.
"Liuquan, I have nothing to add.
I think I can reconsider the doubts I mentioned about Luo Hongshan.
Upon closer inspection, it appears that it does not stand up to scrutiny.
How about I take back my opinion on this point?"
Shang Baifeng did not feel frustrated because his opinion was rejected by Xie Liuyun. Instead, he said it sincerely.
At the end, he said that he wanted to take back his opinion, but he didn't necessarily mean that he really wanted to do so. It was somewhat of a temptation.
Xie Liuyun could see that Shang Baifeng's mentality was much more stable than when he avoided talking about his thoughts just now.
But his problems still exist, and he still lacks self-confidence overall.
But no matter how you put it, there has been some improvement, which is always a good thing.
Although the process of getting better will be slower, the situation has been developing in a good direction, so the final result must be good.
"Bai He, since you agree with what I said, it proves that we think about the problem from the same perspective.
However, agreeing with what I said does not mean that your view is wrong, and you don’t have to take back what you just said.”
Xie Liuyun affirmed Shang Baifeng's attitude, but also enlightened him.
"I felt that there was something wrong with my views, so I wanted to take back what I said. By doing this, I was not denying myself."
Shang Baifeng was worried that Xie Liuyun had misunderstood what he meant, so he hurriedly explained to him.
"Bai He, remember this.
In the process of discussion and analysis, we must get rid of the "black or white" idea of whose views are correct and whose ideas are wrong.
Whether the point of view is correct or not is not an issue that will arise at this stage of discussion and analysis.
Everyone can speak freely and express their ideas without any restraint, which is the core meaning of discussion.
Only in such an atmosphere can we open our minds, analyze the situation clearly, and understand the essence of the matter easily.
If we impose strict restrictions during the discussion and analysis process, it will inevitably constrain our ideas and create a disharmonious situation during the analysis process."
After emphasizing the principles of discussion and analysis, Xie Liuyun expressed his views on Shang Baifeng's attempt to withdraw his opinions.
“It is a very bad situation to self-denial when you discover that your own opinions are flawed without thorough consideration.
This kind of situation must be absolutely avoided in the future. If we don't pay attention to correction, it will be detrimental to our communication and communication if this situation continues to occur.
Regarding this issue, I think it is necessary to explain it to you, and you must take it as a warning and deal with it properly."
Xie Liuyun knew what Shang Baifeng was thinking, and after listening to his explanation, he understood that he was self-aware.
But Xie Liuyun still felt that he needed to emphasize it to him again to prevent him from having knots in his mind and creating new pressure on himself.
"Liuquan, I understand what you mean, I will definitely relax and adjust my state.
Regarding this, please rest assured and please supervise me to prevent the same problem from happening again.
Next, I would also like to hear your opinions on several other points of mine.
It also helps me know how I should consider and analyze problems in the future.
Don't delay, please continue talking quickly."
In order not to worry Xie Liuyun, Shang Baifeng expressed his attitude and opinions with a smile, and urged Xie Liuyun to continue talking.