Tian Jiazhi helped Tian Tian finish smearing his face. He pulled his wife onto the heated kang, turned around and rubbed Tian Tian's shoulders: "It's the Chinese New Year, and the children are a little jumpy. At that time, we
You don’t have such good conditions to do such a wild thing. You don’t have parents to pamper you. I have parents, so they won’t pamper me. Tell me how good the conditions are for our children. How dare you do such a wild thing?
, isn’t that because we, as parents, have given them good conditions?”
Tian Tian felt quite comfortable being pressed by Tian Jiazhi. This man knew what was going on at home, and he felt sorry for himself when he was not idle. He felt very happy, but he really didn't want to listen: "Tian Jiazhi, you can
Come on, the child is so naughty, and I punish her lightly. Pengpeng is so squeamish at home. Look at your daughter leading her. She dared to roll down the mountain with her face covered. How can you, my daughter,
No matter what you think it will become if you continue to get used to it."
Thinking about what the unlucky child did, Tian Tian felt very depressed. It was so insignificant, why was he so naughty?
Tian Jiazhi looked at Tian Tian's serious tone and immediately changed his tone. The enemy is strong and we are weak. The enemy retreats while we advance. This is a trick that others can use freely: "Look, why are you so short-tempered? I didn't say you have to take care of your wife."
There's something wrong with the child. Didn't I say that you worked hard? There are a lot of people at home during the Chinese New Year. It's hard enough that my wife is busy all day long and can't take any time off. It's not right for the child to add to the chaos."
Tian Tian snorted coldly, who are you coaxing? Do you think she is stupid? "Don't do this, Tian Jiazhi, even if you blink, I know what is going on in your mind. Let me tell you, if you think I can't take care of the child, you
Come on, I can ignore it and leave the child to you."
Then he said: "It turns out that when the child was farther away from you, I had to work harder and was unwilling to please you. I am willing. Now that the child is by your side, there is no reason why I should always be a strict mother and let you do this to your child all day long."
, that good, good person is all yours."
Tian Jiazhi feels that this problem has escalated. If it is not handled well, the relationship between husband and wife, father and son, and father and daughter will be affected.
He quickly expressed his position: "No, no, my wife is in charge of the children. In my heart, my wife has always worked hard. The children are sensible and know the mother's hard work. I feel sorry for the mother in my heart. It's not unflattering. If you say that, I don't
If you are willing to listen, but the children are not willing to listen, my children and I are willing to let my wife lead. It’s not that I don’t want to be a strict father, you know, I can’t be strict. Just our parents, you say, I
Are you willing to say a harsh word to him?"
Tian Jiazhi analyzed his role affectionately and found that he was not suitable to be a strict father. Moreover, he said that it was not to shirk responsibility, but because he was really afraid of delaying his children. He was not as knowledgeable as Tian Ye, so he was afraid of delaying him.
Come on, kids. That’s a nice thing to say.
All in all, it’s just a sentence: the children still need to be taken care of by the field, and he should go to the one who coaxes the children.
Tian Tian snorted, and Tian Jiazhi said: "Besides, our parents are obedient. I think the children are much better than when I was a child. What else do I need to say? I just want to let the children live a good life, pamper them a little, and let the children not be so...
It’s enough to be sensible.”
How can I still take care of my children like this? From what I heard, I know that this man cannot be a strict father.
In this case, it is true that there is no way to take care of the child, but Tian Ye also knows that Tian Jiazhi said this deliberately. Only when someone takes care of the child for him can he pretend like this. Don't you want to be a loving father? He is too lazy to pay attention to him.
But there is still something to say: "The child is also mine, and it is right for me to take care of the child, but this matter must be made clear. I am in charge of the child, and I have the final say how to manage it. You can stand with the child
Come on, you can do homework with your child, you can cry with your child, but you can't withdraw from me behind my back and plead for mercy. Just make sarcastic remarks in a roundabout way like that. After all, good people have let you do it."
Tian Tian is not a fool, and a couple can't be ruined by one person. It's too much, isn't it?
Tian Jiazhi didn't dare to gibber any more, and pressed his wife's shoulders even harder: "I listen to my wife."
Then I covered my wife with a quilt tightly and went to sleep. I didn’t even dare to say a word of extra mercy to the child.
To be honest, I am not very courageous as a father, and I can't stand the trust of my children.
The problem is, despite his best efforts, he really has no say in dealing with the children's affairs in front of his wife.
My daughter-in-law has been taking care of my children since they were little. How well she takes care of them can only be seen by how others look at their children.
To be honest, as a father, he feels guilty and ashamed when he talks about this issue. Let alone the children, the family has never taken care of them. The wife is right, if you don’t ask for help, at least you can’t delay it.
Legs. Tian Jiazhi has always been proud of his two children. But his wife helped him bring them out. Tian Jiazhi still knows that children are not born to be so sensible and make people proud.
I heard that the child of some family in the group was whipped with a belt, but it was useless. The child was tossing and tossing as much as he could. Isn't that the result of the adults at home being busy and not taking care of the children and allowing the children to develop freely? The children have little potential now.
Can we all blame the children? What did the adults do when the children were young?
But do you think we can all blame adults? We are all wronged. The couple complained over and over again, and their relationship was almost gone. Because of this kind of thing, the couple here got angry and filed for divorce.
You said that Tian Jiazhi's wife takes care of the children so well, so what's wrong with him as a man?
Tian Jiazhi doesn't have any worries about others. Who doesn't have some troubles in his family, but Tian Tian has never let these things come to him. Of course, their Zhu family's weird parents don't count. That's professionalism.
Create obstacles in Tian Jiazhi's life.
It is said that he was able to reach where he is today at such a young age because of his hard work. Tian Jiazhi knew it in his heart. How could he get results after working so hard? Others worked the same as him. But it was Tian Jiazhi who had such hard work.
A daughter-in-law can just do her own thing without any distractions.
When other people are worried about insufficient salary, pension, housing, children's schooling, and wife's job, Tian Jiazhi's salary is basically used to coax his daughter and son.
All he has to do is to explain clearly to his wife the whereabouts of the money. His family has given him such conditions, so why should he be worse off than others?
When Tian Jiazhi thought of this, he hugged his wife's thick quilt and said muffledly: "Daughter-in-law, thank you."