Li Hongqi: "You hang around your children all day long and finally get them out. Why are you still thinking about them?"
Zhu Xiaosi said: "Yes, parents, please let Xiaobao follow them." It is really not easy to raise children.
It was rare that Zhu Xiaosi threw the child out and really wasn't worried at all. It was a rare opportunity to calm down for a while.
Hongqi's mother: "We are different from you. When I look at my granddaughter, I can't bear to let go and can't bear to look away. Xiao Si usually takes care of the children and never relaxes. Your father and I are older, and the old and the young are young.
Xiao Si usually brings the baby to us, and he sleeps with one eye open."
Zhu Xiaosi was embarrassed. What he said was really quite right. It was a bit embarrassing for her mother-in-law to see it.
Li Hongqi's mother continued: "As a father, let alone you, the child is for you to take care of, and we don't have to worry about Xiaosi. So, since Tianye left with Dazhi, our Xiaosi
I have never relaxed. Finally, the child is taken care of by Tianye, and Xiaosi is really relaxed. Why are you teasing me? What's the matter with you?"
Li Hongqi really didn't know that his daughter-in-law was such a nervous little girl that she didn't even trust him as a father.
He turned to look at Zhu Xiaosi and asked as if he was seeking confirmation: "Are you serious?" He felt distressed and a little sad, not being trusted.
Li Hongqi's father: "How do you become the father of your child and your husband? Do you still need someone to remind you about this kind of thing? You still have the nerve to ask."
My wife ran away and I don’t know how she lost it. I really hate that iron cannot become steel.
Li Hongqi reflected on herself and found that she really didn’t feel that she didn’t care about her children. Why was she not trusted by her daughter-in-law? “Am I so unreliable?”
Zhu Xiaosi: "The main reason is that you are too busy. I am afraid that if something urgent happens while you are taking care of the child, then you can take care of it."
Li Hongqi then carefully thought about it, and it seemed that there was really no chance to take his daughter alone. To be honest, this distrust hurt Li Hongqi a little bit.
The biggest thing is that Li Hongqi thought about it for a while and actually admitted it: "Even if I am busy, I can still take care of my children with safe and reliable people first."
Zhu Xiaosi: "I believe from the bottom of my heart that there is no safe and reliable person except under the noses of our family members. The children are still young and do not have the ability to distinguish between good and evil. We are their first line of protection."
I may have been a little too nervous."
Therefore, everyone has fundamentally different standards for reliability.
Li Hongqi's mother: "I don't think what Xiaosi said is wrong. When you have a child, you have to be responsible for the child. Before the child has the ability to protect himself, parents are the first layer of protection for them. How many families and how many children may be
If you were careless for a little bit, you would be lost. How can you regret it? You don’t say you should reflect on yourself, but you still feel that you have done a good job.”
Li Hongqi looked at Zhu Xiaosi and asked them to say this. He was really arrogant. Think about those children running around in the street. It really doesn't need to be like this.
Li Hongqi faced Zhu Xiaosi seriously: "Next time, please tell me clearly that you are busy and I will let you rest for half a day. I will take care of the child and there will still be time for me to not let go. Don't you believe me?" Since it is everyone.
The standards for reliability are different and can be adjusted.
Zhu Xiaosi: "I must believe it. I will make it clear to you next time." He said in his heart, I'm afraid you don't take this seriously.
God knows how worried Ye Ye was when Zhu Xiaosi was still alone in the provincial capital. Zhu Xiaosi was taking the child with him. He was afraid that the mother would be careless and lose the child or something. Those lost stories
, I told Zhu Xiaosi a lot. No wonder Zhu Xiaosi was so nervous.
It really scares Ye Ye. Isn’t this because people have a relatively good understanding of this matter?
Li Hongqi’s mother: “You are quite careless as a father. Didn’t you see that your children’s clothes and shoes have their home addresses written on them, as well as your names? There’s more.
, you didn’t talk to your daughter until you saw her, and your daughter-in-law taught your daughter to tell her where she lives."
Li Hongqi blinked. There were names on clothes and shoes. Isn't that new? Isn't that how every child is taught? I really don't know that my wife specially teaches her children. How afraid is she of losing her child?
Li Hongqi felt that his daughter-in-law had gone too far on this issue, and said implicitly: "Actually, the security in the provincial capital is still very good, really."
Zhu Xiaosi: "Of course I know. Brother Tian San is so busy every day. He is not just busy."
Okay, then are you being too cautious by being so cautious? Li Hongqi looked at his wife eagerly, and his eyes conveyed the meaning well.
Zhu Xiaosi: "The children are young. They should be fine when they grow up. You see, when Changbao Changshun is as big as Changshun, they won't have to worry about where they go."
That is Changbao Changshun's fighting power. When they go out, they should always worry about others.
Li Hongqi suddenly envied her two children. What her daughter-in-law said made sense. If their little baby had such strength, wouldn't they have to worry about getting angry? The children could do whatever they wanted, and they wouldn't do it.
worried.
It is true that some unsighted people abducted their children, and the unlucky ones were also abductors, and they were so unlucky that they were completely destroyed by eating the two children.
Zhu Xiaosi thought of his daughter Xiaobao. She seemed to be uneasy when the child was older. After all, Xiaobao did not have the strength to grow up.
She looked at Li Hongqi and said, forget it for now. Just pay more attention later. The father of the child doesn't know enough about this.
Li Hongqi: "I am the child's father. If you don't believe anyone, you should believe me. My sister-in-law is a good person. I also admit that she is the closest person to us. But you trust your sister-in-law more than me. I am very sad about this."
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Zhu Xiaosi also knows this. Her sister-in-law has long taught her that men want face. No matter what happens, as a husband and wife, the couple should have the most trusting relationship. Everything must be discussed with Hongqi as a matter of business.
Yes. I didn’t do this well.
But when it comes to her children, she can't regress. Looking at Li Hongqi, she feels a little guilty and a little aggrieved.
Li Hongqi was given such a look, and the resentment disappeared: "It's okay, I also know that I didn't do it well enough and didn't give you enough chance to trust me. In the future, when I take Xiaosi with me,
I will definitely not let him leave my sight. Even if I am busy, I will take her with me. Can you give me a little trust?"
Zhu Xiaosi said dryly: "The main reason is that I feel sorry for you because you are too busy. Really, there is no other meaning."