Tian Yang's mother smiled and said to the teacher very clearly: "Teacher, you are too polite. This is the principle of being a human being. If you do something wrong, you must be responsible. If you fail to teach your child well, then I will be responsible."
It’s the mother’s responsibility. Children’s words and deeds are first influenced by their parents, and parents cannot escape the blame.”
The child that Xiao Xu is referring to makes irresponsible remarks about their parents' treasure. How does a mother educate her child?
The head teacher felt that the parents were very reasonable, and what they said made sense. No wonder they could teach a child like Tian Yang. In fact, Tian Yang, apart from his puppy love and this fight with his classmates, his usual behavior in school is really good.
Excellent in both character and academics.
I get along well with my classmates, and I heard that I am very good at organizing among my classmates.
Class teacher: "I did not do a good job and did not take good care of these children. It is you who understand and support our work. Don't blame yourself too much."
Xiao Xu was a little embarrassed. The teacher was such a good person: "Where, where."
After saying that, they arrived at the classmate's house. The three of them were standing outside the door of the classmate's house.
Naturally, Tian Yang couldn't let his mother, teacher, and Chang Bao spend these hours together, so he knocked on the door: "Is classmate Zhang Da at home?"
The head teacher nodded, this child is really generous and dares to speak. He is very good.
A woman's voice came through the room: "Who is it? Who are you looking for?"
Tian Yang continued to shout to the door: "Auntie, I am Zhang Da's classmate. I came to see Zhang Da. Can we come in?"
Class teacher: "Zhang Da's mother, I am Zhang Da's class teacher, come here to see how Zhang Da is doing."
The door to the room opened, and classmate Zhang Da stood at the door with his head lowered: "Hello, teacher." Then he glared at Tian Yang, and he actually dared to come home.
Zhang Da’s classmate’s mother followed Zhang Da in a rather unkind tone: “Teacher, you are here.”
The head teacher looked at the bruise at the corner of Zhang Da's mouth, which was not very obvious, and felt relieved: "Zhang Da, are you feeling better? Zhang Da's mother, I'm very sorry. It's because I didn't take good care of the child and the child was injured."
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Zhang Da's face turned red when the teacher said this. This has nothing to do with the teacher: "Teacher, I'm fine. Really, I'm fine at all."
Classmate Zhang Da’s mother: “Teacher, our child went to school without recruiting or provoking anyone. Why was he beaten like this? This child is too barbaric. Teacher, I can’t blame you for this. After all, the child is not
You hit me. But you can't ignore it? You can't let a child like this harm other children in the school. Is it our Zhang Da this time? Who will he bully next time? It's too overbearing."
How eloquent is this parent? In an instant, the scope of the incident has been expanded. The problem has been raised to a higher level.
Xiao Xu didn't want his son to be said like this: "Ahem? My sister-in-law and my two children have a conflict? Just talk about it? It's not about bullying."
Zhang Da’s classmate’s mother: “Huh? Isn’t it your child who is so brutal and overbearing? Just beat my Zhang Da. How do you teach your child?”
How does Tian Yang think his mother educated him? It's time to let this aunt get to know him, so as not to embarrass his parents? He introduced himself politely: "Hello, aunt? My name is Tian Yang. I am the one who has a conflict with your Zhang Da.
There was a little dispute, is this my mother? She came here specially to see classmate Zhang Da."
The head teacher thought that this child was very face-saving. How well-spoken was he? He was also polite. The education from his parents was really good.
In comparison, the parents of my classmates are much inferior. This is really not good-looking.
However, the teacher is proud that the children he has taught have done well. At least they have done better than the parents they have never taught.
Zhang Da's mother said reluctantly: "You're just going to apologize for it. Would you like my Zhang Da to give you a good beating? You look like a pretty good kid, but why are you so cruel? Our Zhang Da
If I patted the windows of your house, I still smashed the door of your house."
Tian Yang waited for the aunt to pause for breath and speak: "Auntie, your Zhang Da made slanderous remarks about my pure classmate friendship with Changbao. His words were filthy and extremely unpleasant. I think this is wrong, and I don't think Auntie can
Educating children in this way, I accidentally taught it for my aunt."
Zhang Da's mother said with a black face: "This is your excuse for beating people. My child is like me, I use education to learn something, and you come here to show off your words. How big of a face do you have? This is how you were taught at home."
Your teacher taught you this."
The head teacher's face turned dark. What he said was so unpleasant. How could they, as teachers, teach their children this?
Tian Yang: "Auntie, you can't throw this dirty water on the heads of the teachers. Just like the teacher won't teach Zhang Da to be kind to his classmates, the teacher won't teach me to show off, but the teacher has taught us how to protect ourselves.
How can you argue for things that are right for you?"
You say that what Tian Yang said slowly and slowly is reasonable and well-founded: "I think you are very beautiful and reasonable. I think the children you bring up are not people who talk dirty. Auntie, you and classmate Zhang Da
Let’s talk about it carefully, after all, being polite when going out represents family education. Auntie, you can’t let people criticize you behind your back because of your child Zhang Da, because you don’t know how to teach your children.”
Zhang Dama was so angry that she couldn't speak after hearing this: "As an adult, I am using you to scold me. I don't know how to teach my children. Why are you kids so bad-mouthed? Are you here to apologize?"
You guys came here to find a place."
Classmate Zhang Da can't even say a few words to his biological mother. He doesn't have Tian Yang's good eloquence.
The head teacher looked at the students and their parents speaking jargon, which was not bad. The head teacher said: "Tian Yang, why are you talking? You haven't apologized to auntie. I came here today just to ask you two children to tell me in front of the parents.
Why are we fighting? We are all classmates in the same class and have been together for more than a year. How can we start fighting over a trivial matter?"
Zhang Da's mother also followed: "Yes, let's talk about this today. Why does your kid hit people? Who taught you this?"
Xiao Xu was right next to her, and Zhang Da's mother made her look very beautiful and reasonable without saying a word.
Zhang Da: "Teacher, I have nothing to say to Tian Yang. He hit me." Please do more.
Tian Yang was also unambiguous: "Teacher, he made a report and slandered my friendship with classmate Changbao. I asked him to make it clear to you that classmate Changbao and I were just talking about childhood. It's not as messy as what he said.
He didn't want to have any relationship with me and even said some unpleasant things."