Nan Zhiyin knew that the relationship between Chu Huan and her fiancé was normal and they were still far apart, so she asked with concern, "Teacher Chu, have you and your fiancé met recently?"
"No," Chu Huan shook his head and continued, "He is busy with work in other places, and I have not left Beicheng. We haven't met recently, and we only communicate by phone."
After saying this, Chu Huan thought for a moment and added calmly, "We don't call often, so we'll contact you if you have any questions."
When Nan Zhiyin heard this situation, she nodded, and then thought about it for a moment, still caring about Chu Huan, so she asked more, "Then you usually have so little contact and don't see each other very often, when... are you going to do this?
marry?"
"I don't know," Chu Huan shook his head and said, "He and I have never talked about this matter, and the two families haven't pushed it recently, so we'll see about it later."
Chu Huan said it simply and naturally, without any thoughts or burdens in his heart.
After finishing speaking, Chu Huan realized that his attitude was very relaxed, and he was immediately worried that Nan Zhiyin would be surprised. Then he planned to tell her in detail his thoughts, as well as some of his inner thoughts and privacy.
Nan Zhiyin has long been regarded as a good friend and sister. Chu Huan was not defensive at this moment and said truthfully, "Zhiyin, I am not looking forward to marriage."
"My fiancé and I are together because we are suitable, not because of love. In fact... I have someone I love in my heart, so it doesn't matter when we get married," Chu Huan said.
Hearing this, Nan Zhiyin was surprised.
Although she now understood Chu Huan's thoughts and situation, Nan Zhiyin still asked because of surprise and confusion, "Then why don't you be with the one you love? Why don't you marry him?"
When Chu Huan heard this question, he was not surprised at all. He shook his head and answered Nan Zhiyin's doubts, "We can't be together anymore, and we won't get married."
Nan Zhiyin had never expected this situation, and was once again surprised.
Chu Huan noticed Nan Zhiyin's surprised expression, and then talked about the past between himself and the person in his heart.
"He and I were in a campus romance, and we broke up. Later, we each had our own lives. We haven't contacted each other for so many years, and there is no news about each other, so... he may be married and have children." The last sentence was Chu.
Huan's guess.
Nan Zhiyin understood, and immediately understood a little bit, but...
"So you have been in love with him all these years?" Nan Zhiyin asked.
"Yes, I love him." Chu Huan replied almost immediately without any hesitation.
Nan Zhiyin knew better and just nodded lightly without saying anything else.
Now everything about Chu Huan's relationship was clear. Nan Zhiyin was silent for a while, thought about it, and then gave her advice to Chu Huan.
"Teacher Chu, there are many trivial things in life, and marriage is the union of two people or even two families, so based on the advice of experienced people, I still hope that you can get together with the person you like and then get married, and the person you like will be better than just you.
The right person is more suitable." Nan Zhiyin said.
After finishing speaking, Nan Zhiyin thought of Chu Huan's situation again, and then said, "If you can't be with the person you love now, then you can consider letting go of this relationship slowly, and then look for new people and relationships.
In this case, you may be happier in the future."
After saying what she wanted to suggest, Nan Zhiyin continued to explain and clarify, "Of course, these are just my thoughts and suggestions. You can consider it or ignore it."