Everyone knows about the child of Lin Laosan's family, but no matter what happened to the child, is it really as weird as the Li family's wife said? Moreover, Lin Laosan's body was tied up with a red rope. This is a big deal for these women.
As far as others are concerned, it's just something to talk about after dinner.
After today, if no one mentions this matter again, or if Lin Laosan's doll goes out to play around again, this matter will be over.
Now they are concerned about another thing. At that time, the people in the village were very united. Of course, there were some who were not united. After all, the forest was so big that there were all kinds of birds. For example, if there were hundreds of households in Linjia Village, then
It is a relatively large village, and with so many people there is no guarantee that everyone is of the same mind as the people in the village.
Moreover, the human heart is inherently complex, and everyone has different interests and demands. Naturally, there is no such thing as one-minded and two-minded.
However, people at this time have just calmed down, and they just want to live their lives well. Their free time does not prevent them from seeking some benefits for their juniors. Of course, this benefit this time is not delicious, and
is a person.
Although when Xu Guodong first came to Linjia Village, he was as weak and skinny as after recovering from a serious illness, but after more than half a year of conditioning, he has shown the physique of a young man in his thirties.
Moreover, after doing a lot of work, this person became a lot darker, but he also became a lot more energetic.
If nothing else, those who knew Xu Guodong in Maple City in the past would be shocked if they saw Xu Guodong like this, and would not recognize him at all.
Among the educated youths who came to Linjia Village, there were four men and two women. Among them, one man and one woman were already in love. Although the other woman was also quite good-looking, she had dressed up all day and looked gorgeous in the eyes of the old people in the village.
That's called being unruly.
In 1980, it took a lot of courage for young people to wear jeans and go out on the street, let alone Xu Guodong and others at that time. When the little girl came to Linjia Village, she was wearing relatively fashionable clothes, but in the eyes of these old people
, that means not learning well.
Moreover, this girl seems to have some kind of family background, and she has no intention of staying in this village. In fact, after all, these young people who come here are used to living in the city, how many of them are willing to stay here?
Inside the ravine?
It’s not that the old people don’t know this, but Xu Guodong is obviously an exception. From the beginning, when he was very sick, he was always taken care of by the people in the village. Later, he became a teacher, giving lessons to the children in the village, and occasionally
If adults want to learn to write or something, Xu Guodong would also mind.
Everyone teaches attentively. As for whether they learn or not, that is their own business. The most important thing is that this
Xu Guodong never mentioned anything about tuition fees from beginning to end.
As for Xu Guodong's own food rations, he relied on donations from the village chief's family.
In ancient times, when students went to private schools, they had to give money to their husbands. In the eyes of people at that time, imparting knowledge was a great favor. It was said that a teacher for one day would be a father for life. The teachers in the past were not just
It's just a profession.
Cultivate oneself, manage one's family, govern the country, and bring peace to the world.
How to get fit?
If you don’t cultivate yourself, how can you manage your family?
If one's body is not cultivated enough, how can one talk about governing the country and bringing peace to the world?
In ancient times, the teacher was not only a guide, but also the best role model for the student. He taught by words and deeds, and explained the principles of life. What the student learned from the teacher was not only knowledge, but also a kind of character in dealing with others.
It is true that in ancient times there were people with bad conduct and people who learned without using anything, but this situation is still going on now, and it is not a big deal.
There is good and bad, yin and yang. Things in the world cannot be said to be light and without shadow. Everything is always maintaining a balance.
Talking about Xu Guodong, the people in the village wanted to give Xu Guodong teaching fees, but Xu Guodong refused in every possible way, and the matter ended up being nothing in the end. Otherwise, this scholar has a lot of experience, and Xu Guodong has experienced so much.
I also know how to be able to talk to people.
If you want to get along better in this village, building a good relationship with the people in the village is naturally the best way.
How to talk to people?
It's hard to say, but it's easy to say, it's just to change your heart with your heart. No one is a fool. Even if you are clever and have deceived once or twice, as long as you reveal your secret once, the way others look at you will essentially change.
It's a change, and no matter what you do, it's hard to change this outlook.
If you do a good thing for half your life and do one bad thing, then that's it. Others will always remember that you did a wrong thing for the rest of your life.
Xu Guodong really likes the atmosphere in this village. In addition, after his family fell into decline, his spirit has also been wiped out a lot after several changes. He was also in despair in Maple City before, but now in this small village, he did not expect that
You can also experience the warmth of a family.
He was sincerely talking to each other. The villagers were simple, but definitely not stupid. Moreover, the old people in the village had gone through many hardships and had an accurate eye for people.
The younger generation may not have paid much attention to Xu Guodong's performance, thinking that he was a good old man with a soft personality. However, the old people in the village could see that Xu Guodong had developed a sense of belonging to Linjia Village.
He does not regard people in the village as outsiders, and the young and old in the village will not regard Xu Guodong as an outsider.
Although the time is not long, it can also explain a lot of problems.
Although the villagers didn't give Xu Guodong any tuition, Xu Guodong's food was much better. Every old and young person in the village counted him. If there was something delicious at home, they always wanted to bring Xu Guodong into their home. It would be nice to have one more person.
Just add an extra pair of chopsticks.
And the children in the village have a good relationship with Xu Guodong. They come here every day to listen to Xu Guodong telling stories. When someone who has been a teacher tells his story, the effect is different. Anyway, the same story is placed in the
The taste here in Xu Guodong's mouth is completely different from that in the mouths of the other people.
In this way, after going back and forth for another half a year, Xu Guodong has almost integrated into the Linjia Village, and those who came with him are still looking forward to when they can return to Maple City and return to their original ways.
life.
Xu Guodong's comfort is somewhat famous in this village. Everyone knows that there is an educated person in this village who can not only tell stories, but also explain books that are incomprehensible in a simple and easy-to-understand manner.
Linjia Village is not the Linjia Village of a few decades ago. Nowadays, more than half of the people in Linjia Village have foreign surnames. There are only one Xu Guodong more and one less Xu Guodong. It really seems like something is missing.
This Xu Guodong did not have a family. The elders saw that this boy had reached the age of marriage, but they had never seen Xu Guodong say that he had a wife. Although they did not say it explicitly, they kept it in their hearts.
It is of course the best choice for an outsider to fully integrate into the village, get married, start a family, and live in Linjia Village from now on.
And the most important thing is that Xu Guodong's conditions are not bad. Although his family is poor, he is still a city man and a cultural person. As for his family's lack of money, that is not a problem in Linjiacun.
In fact, the situation of everyone in the village is similar. Except for the village chief's family, which is slightly richer, the situation of everyone else is actually similar. After all, they all came from the war, so there is nothing wrong with saying that everyone is on an equal footing.
As long as this person is willing and willing to work, he can still live a good life.
Not to mention that Xu Guodong is also cultured and knowledgeable, and he might be able to become another top player in the village.
Of course, this is all for later, but these old people really cared about Xu Guodong's matter. They were looking for someone to discuss for three days and two, when to find a wife for Mr. Xu, and this wife also
You have to find a suitable one, otherwise you will end up complaining, which is not a good thing.
No, after getting the exact news from the dog, everyone felt relieved. After some searching, they really found a good little girl for Xu Guodong.