Although this old lady is in very good health, as an elder, she has a purpose in visiting a junior's home, but she cannot go directly to the child's house to check. After all, she is here to be a guest.
Just wanted to see if I could be of any help.
However, as an elder, of course he also knew the priorities of things. Although he was concerned about Lin Juan and Xu Guodong's affairs, the old man originally wanted to come to Lin Laosan's house to see the little baby with a strange disease.
It is said that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors. At that time, rural people, except for some unsociable people or people who belonged to different circles, could not integrate together at all. The relationship between other people was very good. When something happened to the boss,
If the Xi family is in trouble, many people will rush to help if they say hello.
The old man has a clear purpose. When they come to visit like this, there is no need to play around with false politeness.
"Lao San's family, how is your doll?"
At this time, Lin Laosan's wife walked into the house and put a glass of water next to the old lady. As soon as she put the water glass next to the old lady, she heard the old lady ask this question.
When his hand shook, he almost spilled the water in the cup on the ground. Although he stabilized himself in time and placed the cup on the table, a lot of water still spilled out.
"Old aunt, why do you think of asking this?"
The woman looked a little unnatural and a little nervous. Obviously she didn't expect that the old aunt would directly mention her child's matter as soon as she walked in. Their family kept the child's matter very secret, except for those who were talking to Lin that day.
Except for the few people who went with the third child to find the child, no one else knew anything about it.
Moreover, after Lin Laosan returned home, he never mentioned to anyone that there was something wrong with his child. Even the few people who went to look for the child with Lin Laosan probably didn’t know much about what was going on with the child.
The problem.
Yes, there is indeed a problem with their child, and it is still a serious problem, but how could this news be known to outsiders?
The woman's expression was very stiff, and the corners of her mouth were twitching, which was very unnatural.
Judging from the old aunt's tone and expression, this old aunt didn't seem to have gotten some gossip from hearsay. It was clear that she came here specifically for the sake of their children.
what to do?
The woman forced herself to be calm, but her heart was extremely flustered. She never thought that such a thing would happen.
How else to say that people become mature with age?
The old man's news was clearly heard from the Li family's wife. There is nothing wrong in saying that it was hearsay, but the old lady's calm expression and interrogation-like tone
, seems to have a very thorough understanding of this matter.
Those somewhat cloudy eyes seemed to be blooming with endless brilliance at this moment in the woman's eyes.
It was a feeling of being seen through. It was a secret that had been hidden for a long time and was suddenly exposed to the sun. All the darkness that had been covered by it disappeared in an instant, just like the dew that appeared in the morning. The moment the sun came out,
Disappeared completely.
"Where is the baby? Take me to see her."
The old lady did not drink the hot water brought by the woman. She tapped her crutch on the ground twice, stood up, and wanted to walk towards the back room.
Rural houses do not have many complicated structures, and they are not divided into front and back yards like Suzhou buildings. Turn left after entering the door, and you will find the main house. There is a big Kang in the house. Walk straight in from the door.
There is a stove inside the house, and on the right is another small room, which is usually used to store some things.
In this courtyard, there is another small house, which is commonly known as a side house.
The old lady looked around the house and determined that even if the child was not in the small room on the right side of the main house, he was definitely in the side room.
Moreover, the wife of the Li family previously said that Widow Lu saw the child at Lin Laosan's house. When guests came to the house, she must not take the guests to the side room. Then there was only one explanation. The child was placed on the right side of the main house, which was originally used to store things.
inside the room.
"Auntie, what are you..."
Lin Laosan's daughter-in-law subconsciously stood in front of the old lady. She raised and put her hands up and down. She was very embarrassed and didn't know what to say to stop the old lady's actions.
As a junior, it is indeed a bit rude to directly reject the kindness of the elderly, but sometimes the kindness of the elderly can also bring troubles to oneself.
Just like we often hear some elders, using a tone of special concern for you, give you various opinions and ideas, asking you to do this or do that.
It's completely like I'm doing it for you.
Are they good for you?
Of course, there is nothing wrong with this, because from their consciousness, they believe that doing this is for your own good and will make you better.
They use the things they have experienced, the age of their lives, and various social experiences and human relationships that you have never experienced to convince themselves and forcefully define this matter as something good for you.
But what about actually?
Most of what they do will not make you grateful, because such things will cause you a lot of trouble, and your original ideas and plans will be infinitely affected, and they will even directly deny your ideas.
Plan, your life, work, actions and efforts.
when you refuse
When the time comes, I will start to persuade endlessly, saying that I have eaten more salt than you have eaten rice, and the bridge I have walked is longer than the road you have walked.
Let them use their behavior and their social experience to tell you what is right, what is wrong, and what is suitable for you. They will never consider what you need or your mood.
Because not everyone needs to worry about this kind of thing.
When many people look at something, they rarely consider what kind of efforts others have made and how much effort they have put into the matter. Most of them only focus on the outcome of the matter.
You do it, then try hard, and finally fail. At this time, those who did not support you will jump out, accuse you, and say arrogantly: "Hey, how about it? I just said this can't work.
, If you don’t listen to the old man’s words, you will suffer the consequences.”
Then when you are depressed and hit by failure, they will start to make you follow their ideas and do things that they think are very good.
They don't care whether you are wrong or right, they only care whether you follow their ideas or not.
You listen and do it, but if it doesn't succeed as you imagined, they will jump out to comfort you and tell you that this world is like this, and this life is the life you can have.
When they encounter difficulties, setbacks, or things that cannot be solved, they will use their own experiences to tell you that this is life, and we must accept it.
Many people have lost their ideals and lost their dreams in this process. They are like stones full of edges and corners, which have become smooth and rounded through repeated polishing and soothing. Just like the pebbles on the river beach, they lie quietly.
There, no one will know which piece was once on the cliff overlooking the sea of clouds, and which piece was buried underground for thousands of years.
All ideals are worn away, and we eventually become ordinary. Like everyone around us, we live and work, repeating the same life day after day, swiping our phones in boredom, and clicking on an even more boring one.
video, and then laughed happily.
Life has wiped out many people’s outstanding features and made many people become gregarious. This is a good thing and a bad thing. We have no ability to change, so we choose to obey.
Gradually, we adapted to life. Apart from being busy, we became like a salted fish the rest of the time, lying in the sun, quietly accepting the sun's scorching heat. We were tired, tired, and didn't want to move. Then someone turned us over.
After having a new body, even if a huge change has taken place in your life, it won't take long for your life to become the same as before, with not much difference visible.
The difference may be that in the process of turning over, we have lost some things that we cherished before.