Xu Guodong did not know, and had never thought that after leaving his original life as a wealthy young man, there would be a day when someone would be busy with his marriage, and this was without his knowledge at all.
Things always change very quickly, especially when everyone has already arranged everything.
Many people have watched The Love Master, and there are various TV dramas that help with dating, help make dates, and get to know girls. This kind of help helps with dates, and creates chat opportunities for the protagonists on corresponding occasions, and even helps prepare lines and various other things.
Props.
In reality, it should be called a wingman, just like on a date, a stranger suddenly comes to strike up a conversation. If the first impression is not very good, and the person who does not fully understand the girl's various reactions will be very confused during the first conversation.
Easy to fail.
This situation is normal. After all, it is like playing a game. No one comes up to reach the maximum level.
They all need to gain experience step by step, and in this case, there are roughly three solutions: First, by continuously improving one's skills, social skills, image, knowledge, and strengthening the ability to control topics, slowly
Summarize experience from failure after failure.
Of course, it would be difficult for one person to upgrade quickly under such circumstances.
In this case, there is a simple way, which is to find a wingman. The wingman is not just one person or two people, it depends on the situation.
This junior wingman is like a teammate playing a game. One person's skills are not up to par, and he cannot pass the game alone. He often thinks that it is just a one-person game, but when you take a closer look, you will find that this game can actually be played by a team.
Team, and the so-called wingmen are your teammates.
Just like many people play some mobile games, where they team up with each other to PK. A good wingman can save you at the right time.
Of course, since the analogy is to playing a game, everyone should understand what's going on with a wingman who doesn't pass the test.
And there is another kind, which is the third kind. This third kind is considered deception. If you tell a white lie, it is okay.
From the TV series, we have seen some love masters who help to plan the scene, help investigate the girl’s background, help understand all aspects of the girl’s information, and then summarize it to give you a suitable opportunity to meet the girl by chance, and then again and again
From chance encounter, to acquaintance, to familiarity.
Then create ambiguity and confess. Many of them are common routines. The key depends on how you use them. Different people will see different things when they see the same personal information.
And how much can be seen is a matter of level.
If you give them a metaphor, it should be called power training. You pay and bear all the costs, and then they
Various rules are formulated for you. In this process, you don't have to express any of your own character, personality, or some of your own characteristics.
Just follow the plot they have prepared for you, wear a Bluetooth headset, and follow all the commands. You can see how fast and efficient it is to play a large account with a small account.
When you catch the girl so easily without understanding the reason behind these actions, they have already collected the money and retired without leaving their name or body.
Then you can hug the girl you dream about and enjoy a wonderful time in love.
Yes, they help you get the girl you like, but they don’t provide any after-sales service. This is true for both the girl and you. The better ones may get along with each other for a while.
I slowly adapted to it.
It would be fun if the person is a bit bad. After getting along for a while, you will find out that she or he is not what you see.
That's right, everyone living in this society, leaving home, leaving their own small space, small world, he or she will put on a mask for themselves, either gentleness, cuteness, or sunshine,
Or thoughtfulness, it's just a mask.
Each person will show the side he or she wants to show to different people. If you understand deeply, you will find that everyone, including yourself, has many different faces.
Then some people start to quarrel, and the originally hidden conflicts break out here. Conflicts, the unhappiness of being deceived, everything will slowly ferment.
In the end, many people will break up unhappy. This is the consequence of insufficient level. It's like you don't understand a game at all, and then directly buy a full-level account. As a result, the game account is only full-level, without equipment or skill points.
, even if you have skills, you don’t know how to use them.
Even if you originally knew a little bit about the operation of the warrior profession, but after buying an account, you found that the game character turned out to be a mage profession.
Then you use the staff as a mace and smash it down with one stick, wow~
The situation is appalling.
Life is meant to be experienced, so it is not recommended to skip the necessary process and pursue the result. In this world, how many people fall in love at first sight? How many people can fall in love at first sight to the end, and how many people can have a happy marriage?
That may be a bit biased, but the perspective returns to Xu Guodong. At this time, Xu Guodong didn't know that he had been arranged, and he was still living his life in that small room day after day.
And the aunts in the village had nothing to do but were already thinking about this intellectual from the city.
As for the other protagonist, Lin Juan, she is not here at this time either.
Knowing that her marriage has become the most important thing in the hearts of the women in the village, they are all making plans and thinking about how to arrange for the two of them to meet.
These people are not like a date arrangement team. They just want two people to meet each other and have time to get to know each other. As for whether this can happen, they can't make the decision.
If it can be done, everyone will be happy, but if it can't be done, then there will be something to do next.
Although Xu Guodong is a little older, he has rich experience and is an educated young man from a big city. He is worthy of Lin Juan no matter what.
It is better to arrive early than to arrive late. If Xu Guodong had come here a few years earlier, perhaps no one would have thought of these problems. After all, Lin Juan was still too young a few years ago.
On Xu Guodong's side, naturally some aunts from the surrounding families came to him and said that since they were helping to pull the strings, there must be someone who could give him a clear explanation.
When Xu Guodong heard that there was a girl in the village that he had never seen before, and she was very beautiful and well-educated, he was surprised at first, then blushed and his heart beat.
Xu Guodong himself did not believe that after so many years, no one could know the cold and the hot, but his living conditions had not been very good, so he had not considered this matter. Now he wanted to ask, but there was something wrong
Excuse me.
These women are all fine people, and they can tell Xu Guodong's thoughts at a glance, and they repeatedly ensure that this girl is absolutely good, good-looking, able to work, and well-educated.
The most important thing is that they want Xu Guodong to meet the girl named Lin Juan. This is not the previous kind of matchmaking, where they give a portrait and write a few big words to describe the girl's appearance and character, even if it is an introduction.
It's over.
Then, each and every young lady with a lot of money would not go out or step forward. On the wedding day, after entering the bridal chamber, they could lift their red hijab to verify their true identity.
In the era of openness and the promotion of free love, some unreasonable things were abandoned.
Xu Guodong was a little hesitant at first, but then he thought that since they could meet each other, there should be no problem. Moreover, he was not young and would get married at the right time. Xu Guodong didn't care about the methods suggested by these aunts.
After all, he was a highly educated person at that time and had an open mind. Of course, girls needed men to pursue them, and he was grateful to those aunts for their suggestions.
Seeing how enthusiastic the people around him were, Xu Guodong felt like he was at home for the first time.
Although this Linjia Village is not as prosperous as Maple City, and everyone needs to work, this kind of atmosphere is not something that big cities can have. At the same time, with the praises of those aunts, he is looking forward to this girl named Lin Juan even more.