Although each of us has deep doubts about love at first sight, after experiencing too many things, we will gradually discover that the plots that appear in movies and TV series only appear in movies and TV series.
When we were young, we were full of expectations for the simple and beautiful love in the TV series.
But when reality breaks the fantasy, all that's left is just a sigh.
When love comes to an end, love ferments into a strong fragrance, and reality becomes a huge hurdle before everyone.
After experiencing blind dates again and again, we will gradually find that no matter how gentle or virtuous we are, they will ultimately be no match for our annual income, savings, whether we have a house, and whether we have a car.
The reality is cruel, marriage is different from love.
So we began to yearn for and lament that in the previous era, although material life was not very good, the people in the past were relatively simple and beautiful.
To envy the love of my parents' generation, to envy the simplicity and beauty of that era.
Although many of them are not together because of love, what we see is a very comfortable and harmonious atmosphere.
We gradually realize that movies and TV dramas are just movies and TV dramas after all, and the love of that era has nothing to do with us.
Reality is slowly eroding our expectations for love. There are also many questions about love in reality on the Internet. When girls get married, they need a house, a car, and a deposit.
There is nothing wrong with this, because that is how marriage is.
Then some people may ask, what should young people do today so that they can have a high-paying job, a house, a car, and a large amount of savings in their twenties?
Yes, this is the guarantee of life. In this rapidly developing society, many boys will face such problems.
It is easy to get a love, but it is very difficult to get a love that can be peaceful, support each other, and work together to get married.
Origin and family conditions have become obstacles on the road to marriage.
For an ordinary young man in his twenties, even if he works hard for several years, his salary will be several thousand or tens of thousands at most. But if he wants to get such a salary, he has to work in a big city.
Big cities are places that many young people yearn for. There are better jobs, better development opportunities, and greater possibilities for success.
But in a big city, with a high income, the consumption is definitely not a small amount, renting a house, eating, treating guests, giving gifts, living with others, buying clothes...
How many people, even though they live in big cities, still have monthly debts?
How high will the cost of falling in love be?
How much salary do young people and boys need nowadays?
, so that when you are in love, you can bear the consumption of two people while still saving enough money to buy a house and a car?
Okay, let’s put the practical issues aside for now and let’s take a look at the love of that era.
Like Xu Guodong's era, it's not so much about love as it is about suitability and inappropriateness.
They also had the romance of that era, poetry and distance. The only thing that was relatively good was that the romance they pursued did not require much material foundation to support it.
There is a saying that is true, that is, when fate has come, there is no way to stop it, not to mention there are a bunch of people adding fuel to the flames?
If it is arranged, then do it as arranged.
The meeting between Xu Guodong and Lin Juan was said to be a coincidence, but it was not a coincidence. It was just that Xu Guodong happened to appear at a time when Lin Juan thought no outsiders would arrive.
After all, he is also a scholar. Coupled with his ups and downs in life, Xu Guodong is much better than the young people in Linjia Village. He also has a temperament that they cannot match. This temperament is even among those who came from the same batch as Xu Guodong.
Even the educated youth who came here cannot compare with him.
When they first met, they just nodded to each other. The girl was a little curious, why hadn't she seen this person in the village?
Suddenly she realized that this was what her family said. When people came to Linjia Village from outside, when they saw Xu Guodong's appearance, Lin Juan's special temperament attracted Lin Juan, and she had a desire to find out.
Although Lin Juan lives in a rural area, she was born into the Lin family, which gives her an advantage that many girls in this village cannot match. There are scholars in their family who can teach Lin Juan how to read, hyphenate, and learn etiquette.
These were things that other girls in the village had no access to at that time, and only the Lin family could do such things.
As long as a girl has a little bit of curiosity in her heart, many things will be easier to handle, because sometimes men need a breakthrough, and a girl's curiosity is the best breakthrough.
Compared with Lin Juan who only had a slight curiosity about Xu Guodong in her heart, Xu Guodong's mood swings were much greater.
When he saw Lin Juan for the first time, he experienced a feeling called love at first sight. It was a wonderful feeling. It doesn't mean that when you took one look at her, you thought of falling in love, holding hands, kissing, getting married, or even looking at her.
What happens after giving birth to a child.
That is too exaggerated and can only be said to be rich in imagination.
The so-called love at first sight is actually something that everyone will encounter, but they may subconsciously ignore it.
When you see someone, you feel that your eyes are no longer under your control, as if they are growing on the other person's body.
The other person’s every smile, every move, even if you don’t want to pay attention to it
, will be deeply imprinted in your mind, as if at that moment, there is no one else in your world but her.
The surrounding sounds disappear, the people around you are invisible, and she is the only one in your eyes.
Maybe it's an exaggeration, but when you actually encounter it, I'm afraid you won't think so.
You don’t know why you are attracted to her. Maybe you think she is beautiful, so beautiful that you can take your breath away, so beautiful that you dare not touch her, but you also feel that simply describing her as beautiful is not enough.
But there is something missing, and I don’t know. A kind of lack of words, a barrenness of words will become your state, and you don’t know how to describe the feeling.
Just saying beauty is not enough to describe it, because that kind of emotion and that kind of state are really mysterious.
There is no love. Love will not bloom in an instant. It is like a kind of appreciation. It seems like something that has infinite temptation for you. It is just placed in front of your eyes and close to you. It is almost like a kind of appreciation.
Within reach.
However, you didn't dare to stretch out your hand and wanted to get closer, but you were hesitant for fear of disturbing, that beautiful thing.
What actions you take are no longer important to you at this time. What is important is just looking, and you can only think of looking.
Your mind is empty, there are no complicated thoughts, and you will not think about why such a person appears in front of you. If you like her, you should like her, no, you absolutely like her.
I affirmed it over and over in my heart, but I didn't know what to do at this time.
I kept watching her approach and then go away. At the moment when our eyes met, the waves rolled and the clouds rolled and rolled. It seemed like an eternity to look at each other.
Until the other person slowly turns around and walks away slowly, and the back slowly becomes smaller, you are still recalling the emotion in that glance just now.
Even when the other person is about to disappear, you are still addicted to it. This is the beginning of love at first sight, a person's love at first sight.
Xu Guodong finally reacted just before Lin Juan walked into the alley and disappeared. He admired the girl's beauty in his heart and cursed himself secretly at the same time.
But he still had the courage, blushed, and asked loudly: "Dare you ask the girl her name?"
She unconsciously said this sentence in a formal manner. As soon as the words came out, Xu Guodong blushed a little, but Lin Juan's footsteps stopped. She really didn't expect that the person behind her was really a scholar. She originally felt that Xu Guodong had something.
It smells like a book. Now that I add this sentence, the smell of a scholar becomes even stronger.
"Guess~"
With a playful smile, Lin Juan looked back with a smile, ran away briskly, and entered Lin Laosan's home, leaving Xu Guodong alone standing there stupidly.