Expanding a school is not an easy task. Xu Guodong has worked hard for this matter for many years. Because of his teaching, he deeply understands the truth that education must be staged. After all, children's courses cannot make them
Show your heart for revenge.
Even if you are just a teacher, you still have to have a dream. Not only to have students all over the world, but also to build a better school in Maple City as much as possible.
Everything that happened later made Xu Guodong's ideal become a reality step by step, from being a principal of an elementary school to a principal of a junior high school. Later, with the support of some people, he became the principal of Fengyuan Private High School.
But all this comes at a price, that is, Xu Guodong works longer and longer, leaving him less and less time to spend with his family. As a result, Xu Guodong did not fulfill his due responsibilities during Xu Wan's growth.
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Many teachers have this situation. They can teach good students, but when it comes to their own children, it is extremely difficult to teach them well.
Some teachers will put forward very high requirements for their children, regarding grades and interests. Even before the children grow up, they have already planned everything for them in the future. Others are busy with teaching and work.
, neglecting the education of their children.
They are serious and professional.
But many examples tell us that a good and responsible teacher is not always a good parent.
This is normal. Generally speaking, it is the first time for both parents and children. It is the first time to be a parent and the first time to be someone else’s child. It often requires getting used to it, getting used to it slowly, and getting used to it.
to master the entire process.
In this qualifying process, no matter which party takes the lead, the balance will be tilted and something unexpected will happen.
Tragedies often occur during this process, and then so-called rebellion and so-called bad boys appear.
If you can see the cause of the matter and find a good solution, you can get through this stage perfectly. But if you can't find it, or use simple violence to solve it without thinking at all, the conflict will become a problem.
Will be further upgraded.
Everyone hopes to be understood, and everyone hopes to establish effective communication between subordinates and leaders, between students and teachers, and between children and parents.
The status of parents is destined to be strong, and being too strong will lead to them subconsciously using their own power to oppress when solving some problems, and omitting the necessary process of communicating with their children.
Just like the father and daughter Xu Guodong and Xu Wan, the relationship between them gradually became stiff in such an environment.
The most familiar person slowly became the most familiar person.
stranger.
This is why in recent years, many people have begun to pay attention to the education of teenagers. Children's growth requires not only companionship and guidance, but also correct psychological guidance.
Understanding and communication are not established when one party is strong, and real communication cannot be established in that situation.
How many parents really understand their children?
How many children have been looking forward to their parents' understanding but finally gave up helplessly.
How many people will only completely wake up after experiencing a tragic incident. The so-called "for your own good" is actually just based on their own self-perception?
If you can't be treated equally, you can't communicate. If you can't put yourself in someone else's shoes, then don't say anything for your own good!
That is just to comfort oneself, using a forced method to make the other party complete things according to their own wishes, but how many people have really considered the mood and thoughts of the person involved?
As someone once said in Hou Lang, this era is a good one. How many children have entered their forties at a very young age?
What you once thought was childish and what you thought was not grown up is actually just what you thought.
As your child grows up, a small oversight can cause you to miss out on a lot, and you will begin to erect a wall between you and your child. The person you think you know best will slowly become someone you completely ignore.
Don't understand.
The funny thing is, how many parents still naively think that they know their children best in the world?
Xu Guodong was like this. He just knew that he wanted his children to study hard, but he didn't tell them how they should study and why they should study. If it weren't for Lin Juan's existence, I'm afraid the relationship between their father and daughter would have broken down long ago.
It can be said that Xu Guodong has had smooth sailing over the years. From being a primary school teacher, he finally reached the position of principal of Fengyuan Private High School. Of course, Fengyuan Private High School at that time was just Fengyuan High School, which can be regarded as the current Fengyuan Private High School.
predecessor.
At that time, Xu Wan had already reached the age of high school, so she naturally came to the school where Xu Guodong worked to study in high school.
Although they were both in the same school, Xu Guodong was so busy at the time that he basically didn't have much time to take care of his daughter. Not many people even knew that Xu Wan was Xu Guodong's daughter.
The first two years were good. Fengyuan High School was established and received support from the Ministry of Education. The results were also very good. Many children graduated from Fengyuan High School and went to all parts of the country.
It looks prosperous, but in fact the situation is not that good.
Being a principal is not that easy. Compared with simply teaching and educating people, there are obvious things that a principal needs to consider.
There are too many things. Xu Guodong has experienced a lot in these years, and he has learned a lot from a series of social beatings.
He is no longer the simple person he once was, who just wanted to live a simple life with his wife and daughter in a small village.
Time will make a person change, and his long-standing ideals were realized with his own efforts, which made Xu Guodong focus on his work. But that year, he experienced the most serious crisis.
This crisis comes from the vice-principal in the school. The person in charge of the school is like the highest authority in a place. Although the vice-principal only has the word "vice" in front of his name, there is no difference between him and the real arrogance.
Half a point.
There may be more than one vice-principal in a school, and each vice-principal is responsible for a part of the work.
Only when the principal is transferred or something happens and leaves the principal's position, can the vice principal have the opportunity to become arrogant.
A carrot is a pit, many people know this truth.
At that time, there was a vice-principal in Fengyuan High School. This vice-principal had only been at Fengyuan High School for a year, but his family background was very tough. His uncle was a leader in the Ministry of Education.
This person originally looked down upon Xu Guodong, a guy with a grassroots background, because of his uncle as his backer. Moreover, Xu Guodong's family had no money, and they didn't know how to give gifts. The principal of Fengyuan High School was Xu Guodong's highest position.
Xu Guodong could no longer climb up the ladder. At that time, he just wanted to be a good principal and watch the school flourish. But just because he didn't move, it didn't mean that no one didn't want him to move.
For example, the vice principal.
That year, something happened at Fengyuan High School. A girl committed suicide in the school.
The impact of this incident at that time was very bad and huge. All kinds of rumors were flying all over the place, and gossip was spread everywhere. Some said that the school was haunted, some said that there were bad people in the school, and some said
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At that time, this incident was widely spread in the streets and alleys of Maple City, which put a lot of pressure on the principal, Xu Guodong.
But this was just the beginning. The vice-principal realized that this was an opportunity. There were only two vice-principals at that time. With his relationship, the other vice-principal had no way to compete with him. In other words, if Xu Guodong stepped down,
Then he will be the next principal.
Money touches people's hearts, and sometimes power is the same. Although Xu Guodong is rigid, he is still decent. At that time, he was busy communicating with the family of the girl who committed suicide. He never thought that someone would stab him from behind, and