As they get older, most people will slowly change, and they will no longer pursue perfection in people and things, because they will gradually understand that there are no perfect people or perfect things in this world.
This is what Tongdao Xu was like in the original time and space.
When he was young, he had high requirements for emotional purity. He wanted to find a girl who he liked very much and who liked him very much. He wanted her to be gentle, kind, beautiful, and considerate of herself.
Among them, "self-discipline" is a very important point in his heart. To put it simply, he likes the girl he likes, understands and supports every important decision he makes.
If not, he will feel that this girl is not suitable for him.
This should also be regarded as a kind of perfectionism.
It was also because of this that in his original time and space... no woman could exist in his heart for a long time. For one reason or another, he would gradually stop liking her.
However, at that time, whether he liked her or not was his own business. Many of the girls he liked had no idea that he liked them.
It was not until later, with the growth of experience, that his thoughts gradually matured, or in other words...recognized and accepted the reality.
From then on, he no longer had such high demands on women.
Although it is not as low as - female, living, this level.
But the requirements are really not high.
It's just that... after being reborn, he felt that he would definitely be able to achieve something in this life, so he silently increased his requirements for his partner.
It's not like giving up.
Bu Yinghui's appearance surprised him.
He found the feeling of falling in love and liked her appearance, figure, personality, etc. for a time. He once thought that he had won the jackpot and finally found a girl who perfectly met his criteria for choosing a spouse in all aspects.
Until today, he thought so.
Therefore, what Bu Yinghui just said made him feel very disappointed.
She is not as good as he thought.
She didn't understand that much, nor did she support every important decision he made.
In this regard, she failed him.
but……
Disappointed as he was, he still couldn't bear to break up with her.
Because reason told him - this is actually normal. After all, she is only a girl with a junior high school education. She is only 21 years old, and they are siblings. It is really normal for her to be hesitant and worried about their future.
At least, this shows that she hopes for a future between them.
It was better than her not thinking about their future at all and just wanting to be sweet with him for a while and then break up.
Therefore, he did not argue with her or say anything to irritate her. He held her hand and said softly: "Yinghui, can you let me think about it again? Let's not talk about this today. It's a rare occasion for us to come out.
, have a good meal, and then go shopping in a shopping mall later. Put all the unhappy things aside for now, okay?"
Bu Yinghui frowned and looked at him.
His expression was a little helpless, but he nodded in the end.
However, when eating, her mood was still not high.
When she went shopping, she didn't have much interest. She didn't go shopping for half an hour when she said to Comrade Xu: "That's it for today! I'm a little tired, let's go back!"
Her emotional state made Xu Tongdao frown inwardly. He didn't want her to go back in this state. He felt that there were problems between lovers and they should be resolved as soon as possible.
Then he asked her if she wanted to try sleeping clothes?
Aren’t many people saying that there is no problem that a woman can’t solve by sleeping with her when she’s angry? If so, sleep with her twice!
He felt that it was time to verify whether this sentence was correct or not, "Are you tired? Okay! Then I'll get a room, let's take a good bath, and then have a good sleep! Okay?"
With that said, he put his arm around her waist and started to leave.
In the end, it was only him who walked. He took a step, but Bu Yinghui stood still.
Xu Tongdao frowned and turned back, "Let's go! Aren't you tired?"
Bu Yinghui frowned and shook her head, "Forget it, I want to go back to the dormitory directly, next time! I won't go today."
Tongdao Xu thinks he should give some more advice?
So, he went back and pulled her, "Let's go! Let's go! It's not sleeping somewhere. I'll give you a squeeze on your shoulders later and give me a chance to show off, okay? Let's go!"
Bu Yinghui swatted away his extended hand, took a step back, and shook her head, "I can't say no more! You should have something to do in the store, right? You should go back quickly! I'm leaving first!"
With that said, she turned around and left.
Tongdao Xu stood there, frowning at her leaving figure, and the smile on his face faded.
I feel a little helpless and a little annoyed.
He has tried hard to please her and try to calm her down, but it turns out that it seems to have no effect.
…
Xu Tongdao walked out of the shopping mall alone. He was not in a high mood. He did not rush to find a car to go back to Shazhou County. Instead, he sat down on a bench outside the shopping mall, lowered his head and lit a cigarette.
This was the first time he and Bu Yinghui had a conflict since they started dating.
Feeling very bad.
Very helpless.
He knew that he couldn't give up the idea of opening an Internet cafe just because of her words.
However, if he didn't express his intention to give up, her anger would not go away, and it would be useless to try to please her.
This difficult question was now before him.
If this problem is not resolved, there will probably always be a gap between him and Bu Yinghui in a short period of time.
While smoking a cigarette, he thought of two solutions.
One is to give up the idea of opening an Internet cafe, listen to Bu Yinghui, be steady and rely on the barbecue restaurant to slowly earn money, save money, and wait for the day in the future when their relationship will be made public. If everything goes well, it will be as planned.
Enter the palace of marriage.
This method should be the fastest way to obtain Bu Yinghui's forgiveness and make her happy.
Another way...
It is to speed up the preparation work of the Internet cafe, open the Internet cafe as soon as possible, and increase the popularity of the Internet cafe as soon as possible, so that Bu Yinghui can see as soon as possible that his decision to open the Internet cafe is correct.
Slap her in the face with facts... Uh, no! You should use facts to convince her.
He wants to choose the second one.
I don't want to consider the first method because it seems to be the fastest way to gain Bu Yinghui's forgiveness and win her favor.
But if he did that, he might suffer internal injuries.
He clearly knows that opening an Internet cafe can make money, but he chooses to give up before his eyes. Can he feel happy in his heart?
What's more, even if he completely listened to Bu Yinghui, who can say clearly what will happen in the future?
Who can guarantee that there will be no new conflicts between the two of them due to other things in the future? Does he have to back down every time and listen to her every time?
Moreover, who can guarantee that he really listened to her, and her parents and family will not object to them being together in the future?
He didn't dare to bet on the uncertain future.
All he can be sure of is that he won't lose money by opening an Internet cafe.