At this time, the bitter smile on Wu Changxing's face, the helplessness revealed, and the pleading look in his eyes made Comrade Xu feel a little complicated for a moment.
How to say?
I kind of sympathize with him, but also kind of hate him for being so useless.
She is just a woman, and she is a divorced woman. Are you so reluctant to part with her? Are all the women in the world dead?
Is it so difficult to give up this woman, give himself a chance, and give other women in the world a chance?
In this regard, Comrade Xu had a little difficulty understanding Wu Changxing.
If Wu Changxing was only a teenager, the age when his first love affair started, then Wu Changxing would be reluctant to part with Chang Min, and Comrade Xu would understand.
But is it Wu Changxing?
No!
Wu Changxing is already in his thirties and has been married and divorced. Before his rebirth, he was in a similar state to Comrade Xu, and was even a little better than Comrade Xu.
Because before his rebirth, he, Tongdao Xu, was alone after his divorce.
And Wu Changxing now has at least one son.
Tongdao Xu himself has experienced the mentality of a divorced man in his thirties.
Maybe he can only represent himself and not the general state!
He remembered that before his rebirth, his thoughts on women were completely different from those in his twenties.
For example: when he was in his twenties, he wanted to look at a beautiful woman a few more times. If he looked at a beautiful woman a few more times, he would have longing and fantasies. He always felt that if he did something, he might be able to have this woman.
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And in his thirties, after getting divorced, when he saw a beautiful woman, he would only glance at it a few times at most. After seeing it, his original mentality was still the same, and he would not fantasize about it, because of all the what-ifs he imagined.
, if he really practices it, he will feel troublesome, and trouble is the most annoying state for him at that time. Whoever makes him feel troublesome, he will stay away from. No matter how beautiful the beauty is, if it makes him feel troublesome, he will
They will lose interest quickly.
Why?
Because in his thirties and divorced, he had already vaguely seen the way home in life.
I know in my heart that if my life is long, I still have about thirty or forty years to live, but if my life is short... it may be too late...
At an age when he could vaguely see his way back to life, the status of love, or the movement of love, in his heart had plummeted.
To what level?
Let’s put it this way!
At that time, the most important thing in his heart was his family, followed by his career, then himself, and then probably money.
In those years, he felt that these were the basic foundations for the rest of his life. Everything else could collapse, but this basic foundation could not collapse.
love?
Occasionally he would think about it, but if he was asked to spend more than a year pursuing it, he would immediately shake his head. If he could get it in a month, he might give it a try. If it took more than a month, he would consider whether it was worth it.
Therefore, Tongdao Xu could not understand why Wu Changxing, who was in his thirties and already divorced, could still be so patient with Chang Min, a divorced woman.
In the past year or so, from what he heard, Wu Changxing proposed marriage to Chang Min more than once or twice, and each time he failed.
In this way, Wu Changxing still couldn't let go of this woman.
There are thousands of kinds of people, maybe Wu Changxing is just born with infatuation?
After squinting at Wu Changxing for five or six seconds, Comrade Xu smiled and nodded, "Okay! Where to go? You lead the way."
Although he couldn't understand Wu Changxing's infatuation, he could respect it.
If you are not a fish, how can you know the joy of fish?
Perhaps Wu Changxing felt the joy of love in the process of being constantly rejected?
About half an hour later.
The car stopped under a teahouse.
Xu Tongdao, Xi Dongyang, Wu Changxing, and Chang Min were already seated in a corner of the teahouse. They also ordered a pot of Biluochun and a few snacks on the table.
Xu Tongdao, Xi Dongyang sat on one side, Wu Changxing and Chang Min sat on the other side.
Tongdao Xu looked at Wu Changxing and Chang Min with a polite smile, waiting for them to speak.
He was also a little curious about what these two people wanted to ask him.
What does their matter have to do with Comrade Xu?
Wu Changxing looked at Xi Dongyang next to Comrade Xu, and forced a smile, "Xiao Xi, can you go to the toilet? We have something to talk about alone."
Xi Dongyang: "..."
He looked at Wu Changxing and Chang Min, and then at Comrade Xu next to him. Seeing Comrade Xu nodded slightly, Xi Dongyang agreed, got up and left.
Wu Changxing glanced at Chang Min next to him again, and then looked at Xu Tongdao, "Xiaodao, you, I..."
At this time, there were no outsiders here, but he was still very hesitant.
The corner of Xu Tongdao's mouth raised a little wider, and he looked at it with interest. He didn't ask any questions, he just looked at Wu Changxing.
Wu Changxing bit his lower lip and finally asked a complete sentence, "Xiaodao, what is your impression of Chang Min? You, do you support us being together?"
That's it?
Comrade Xu wanted to laugh a little bit, the kind that made him laugh dumbly.
Just such a question, why did you invite him to the teahouse to ask it?
His intuition told him that this was not what Wu Changxing really wanted to ask.
He subconsciously looked at Chang Min next to Wu Changxing. Chang Min glanced at Wu Changxing in surprise. This look fell in Xu Tongdao's eyes, making Xu Tongdao more sure of his judgment.
——This is not what they really want to ask.
However, this question should be very close to what they really want to ask.
Why do you want to ask me, Mr. Xu, if they are together or not?
Xu Tongdao narrowed his eyes slightly. As he lowered his head to lift the tea cup and drink tea, various thoughts swirled in his mind. He took a sip of tea. When the tea cup was put back on the table, his eyelids were raised, and the faint smile returned to the corner of his mouth.
Wu Changxing and Chang Min turned around and suddenly asked: "When do you plan to get married?"
Just when he was drinking tea, Tongdao Xu decided to help his eldest cousin Wu Changxing.
Let’s see how Chang Min responds.
If she agrees to get married soon, then Wu Changxing will get what he wants and everyone will be happy.
If she still refuses, and refuses in front of Comrade Xu, Wu Changxing may decide not to pursue her in the future because of face issues, and the long-term pain is worse than the short-term pain.
"this……"
Faced with Comrade Xu's question, Wu Changxing hesitated for a moment and subconsciously turned to look at Chang Min beside him.
Chang Min's face also changed slightly, and his upper body subconsciously leaned back slightly.
One second, two seconds, three seconds...
In the blink of an eye, a few seconds passed. Changmin forced a smile and whispered: "Well, why are you looking at me for this question? Whether we get married or not is not my decision alone."
Wu Changxing's mouth opened slightly, his expression instantly showing disappointment.
Tongdao Xu chuckled lightly, "No! I heard that my eldest cousin has proposed to you several times, so I think you can decide when you will get married. Sister Changmin, why don't you give me an approximate time?
?Or...if you have any other ideas, tell my cousin clearly today?"
He originally didn't want to get involved in their emotional affairs, but today they took the initiative to invite him here for tea and asked him if he supported them being together.
Those words just now were his Comrade Xu’s attitude.
——I support you getting married as soon as possible or breaking up as soon as possible, but I don’t support anything else.