Qi Haoyang is an introverted and shy person, and Yao Ruiqi's sunny and lively personality just makes up for his inability in this aspect, and at the same time gives him a beautiful fantasy - she should be the perfect girl he wants to meet!
But how can there be any perfect existence in this world? Let alone human beings.
Yao Ruiqi is not the silly, stupid girl that Qi Haoyang thinks she needs to protect. She knows exactly what she wants!
As Qi Haoyang said, she is very materialistic, but the pursuit of materiality is right! A more appropriate way to describe Yao Ruiqi is that she has a strong purpose in doing things.
When they met for the first time, Yao Ruiqi did think Qi Haoyang was quite handsome, and Yao Ruiqi was more curious about Qi Haoyang's infatuation, so she showed enough enthusiasm for Qi Haoyang to misunderstand him!
Of course, it can't be said to be a misunderstanding, because Yao Ruiqi's intimate attitude is beyond the standards that ordinary friends should have.
Qi Haoyang still longed for love in his heart. He just laughed when Yao Ruiqi held his arms, and he didn't know how many strings were being plucked randomly in his heart!
But Yao Ruiqi agreed to go from friends to lovers with Qi Haoyang, mostly because she felt that Qi Haoyang was a good potential stock!
Yao Ruiqi knew that what she wanted was a more comfortable and decent life, instead of renting in a dark and messy urban village like before, and having to cover up her embarrassment with beautiful clothes.
Qi Haoyang said that he is a designer (the salary of a designer is definitely not bad), and his colleagues switched jobs to Hengda Design Institute, and the salary is super good.
Isn't this the qualified partner Yao Ruiqi is looking for? As for the fact that he has loved other women wholeheartedly? Yao Ruiqi thinks this is an advantage, because it proves that Qi Haoyang is very infatuated!
It is with this purpose that Yao Ruiqi has been persuading Qi Haoyang to change jobs to Hengda Design Institute and persuade him to come to Yangcheng, a first-tier city. At the same time, after Qi Haoyang came to Yangcheng, she also took him to see those beautiful loft-style apartments.
, rented in an expensive but the environment that Yao Ruiqi has always dreamed of.
Needless to say, Yao Ruiqi also moved here, and the two quickly fell in love and began living together!
However, as Qi Haoyang failed to interview Hengda Design Institute many times, the income from his new job was not satisfactory, and his savings were almost spent. Yao Ruiqi's "dream" that she had placed on Qi Haoyang was shattered, and the quarrels between the two became more and more frequent.
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"When I confessed to her, she told me: Have you thought about it? Love is not as long-lasting as friendship!" Qi Haoyang shook his head with a wry smile and said, "Thinking about it now, if I didn't insist on being lovers at that time,
, maybe we can still be friends now."
Qi Haoyang's thoughts are still the same as those of many people. After breaking up, he still thinks about the good things of the other party and thinks that if he had always been friends, he would not have no chance to see her again...
But Yang Han shook his head and disagreed with his point of view: "If you like it, you just like it. Don't deny your inner feelings. If you really want to be friends, you will be willing to watch her being with someone else."
Qi Haoyang was stunned. He didn't have the confidence to refute what Yang Han said. It was because he had stomach bleeding due to drinking, and also because he saw Yao Ruiqi sitting on someone else's trident...
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Yao Ruiqi was with someone else, just the second week after they broke up. Qi Haoyang also wanted to go to her with flowers to see if there was any chance of redemption. As a result, Qi Haoyang saw Yao Ruiqi sitting downstairs in the apartment where they used to live.
Got someone else's car.
Of course, Yao Ruiqi did not fall in love with Qi Haoyang, she still saved the last bit of face for Qi Haoyang - after she was sure that she did not want to be with Qi Haoyang, and she had recently met a rich second-generation man with a good net worth, she decisively
After breaking up with Qi Haoyang, he agreed to the pursuit of the rich second generation.
This can only be regarded as a seamless connection...
But for Qi Haoyang, what is the difference between this situation and cheating? He was so sad that he drank for several days until he vomited blood.
When he was drunk, Qi Haoyang called Yao Ruiqi, but Yao Ruiqi didn't come to see him. He only told their mutual friend Du Bei, who had attended Yang Han's fan meeting together.
Du Bei and her boyfriend Fang Xianjun came from Pengcheng and sent Qi Haoyang to the hospital. Later, Yang Han learned about it and took people to see Qi Haoyang's condition.
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After knowing this, Yang Han began to understand why Qi Haoyang called Yao Ruiqi "material"...
But Yang Han did not intend to condemn Yao Ruiqi together with Qi Haoyang, because he was not a judge, and he did not have the hobby of morally criticizing others. He just listened to Qi Haoyang's ramble while silently pounding the steamed yam, adding milk and salt into a paste
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In addition, the rice is also cooked. He first fills half a bowl, digs a small piece of butter into it, then fills it with rice, covers the surface with the mashed yam just pounded, and pours a few drops of seafood soy sauce.
"Yam mashed rice, if you feel dry, you can drink some of this stomach-nourishing pork belly soup." Yang Han brought the rice and soup in front of Qi Haoyang. The aroma of the peppery pork belly soup made Qi Haoyang, who was not full just now, suddenly
I became greedy again.
Of course, with such a beautiful arrangement, you still need to take photos first.
Watching Qi Haoyang take photos and instructing him to stir the rice before eating, Yang Han stood aside and slowly explained his relationship to Qi Haoyang.
"There is no right or wrong in love, just like wearing shoes. If the shoes don't fit, you can't blame the shoes or the feet, right? If it doesn't fit, there is no need to force it, and there is no need to worry about gains and losses. You were addicted to the last relationship,
Not only is there no benefit at all, it will also hurt yourself, and it will also make you miss the person who is truly suitable for you!"
The truth is indeed such a truth, and Qi Haoyang does not understand it, but people who are in the situation always find it difficult to let go, and it is always difficult to get out.
"Let the past go. Of course, the only one who can heal you is yourself. Don't think about using new feelings to forget the old feelings. Doing so is irresponsible to others."
Qi Haoyang stopped his chopsticks in the rice, hesitated for a moment, and said, "But, Teacher Ge, what should I do if I feel uncomfortable?"
"If you can't get over it, let yourself calm down for a while! During this time, learn to love yourself, your work, and your family well. When do you feel that you have let go and can face this past calmly?
Learn from it and know what you want, and then you can move forward.”
Yang Han smiled slightly: "How long has it been since you went home? How long has it been since you had a good chat with your family and cared about them?"
"I went back once during the Spring Festival, but I didn't communicate with them much. I came back to Yangcheng two days ago." Qi Haoyang said with some shame.
"Then go back. By the way, isn't it the Dragon Boat Festival next week? Go back and talk to your parents. You don't have to talk about your relationship experience. Just ask them about their physical condition and find out what they usually do at home.
situation." Yang Han said with a smile, "We humans can't have only love in life, nor can we live or die because of love. If you think about it carefully, besides love, there are also parents and there are many things that need your care.
People?"
Qi Haoyang was stunned. After a while, he nodded silently.
"Eat quickly, don't wait for the food to get cold." Yang Han said with a smile, "As usual, I will sing you a song!"