As for this matter, Liu Tao actually has no good solution, because it is a household matter, and it is difficult for an upright official to deal with household matters. If it were this matter, no one could do anything to save her, and if it were Wang Baoqiang, he would not be able to do it.
What better solution can you think of.
Obviously, this grandma’s brother is a mama’s boy. Although he is married, he is still a mama’s boy. In fact, such things are not uncommon in the entertainment industry. A very famous one is that in Lin Yanfang’s case, after the prosecutor died due to illness
Well, according to his will, a fund was established for his estate. In this case, the fund will pay Mui Yanfang's mother a certain amount of living expenses every month. It seemed to be 120,000 at first, and then slowly increased to 20,000.
Ten thousand, and a monthly living allowance of 200,000.
Ordinarily, for an old man, such an expense should not be a big problem.
However, at this time, Anita Mui's mother was still not very willing. He still wanted to inherit Anita Mui's inheritance. As a result, he filed a lawsuit. The foundation is not a vegetarian, so the foundation also sent Gao Ming
Lawyer. As a result, after several lawsuits, my property was gone. After all, litigation requires money. If you don’t have money, will the lawyer write a lawsuit for you? Will he respond to the lawsuit?
That's impossible. So, there's no way. It's actually because of the sale of the house. As a result, after losing the lawsuit, he couldn't inherit his daughter's inheritance. In fact, why is the mother so actively wanting Anita Mui's inheritance?
, a very important point is to talk about your mother's son, that is to say, Anita Mui's brother is a mama's boy. He basically has no job, and neither he, his wife, nor his son have any job, so he relies on his mother to support him.
Sister Mei's brother is actually a mama's boy, and he is a very annoying mama's boy. In fact, you don't even think about what he will do if your mother dies.
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Now he can live on his mother, but once his mother passes away, Anita Mui's inheritance will be donated to charity. Therefore, Lin Yanfang's brother will not be able to get any benefits from the foundation at this time. Once his mother passes away,
, he basically has no big source of income.
So at this time, being a mom's boy is not that easy.
Liu Tao joked and then said: "Isn't your eldest sister just you at all?
Lan Lan shook her head, then nodded and said, "It's actually hard to say about this matter. I also have a family at my sister's place, and his family burden is also quite heavy.
Moreover, my eldest sister has a bad temper. Even my mother will often scold you. If you want to get money from my eldest sister, it is almost impossible.
My mother will not speak to my eldest sister unless it is absolutely necessary. Except for special circumstances like asking my parents to be hospitalized, my eldest sister must get part of the money. The old couple will not speak to my eldest sister at all.
So, my mother habitually told me that a large part of my salary is sent to my family, and there is nothing I can do about it. The company provides food and accommodation, and my living expenses are not too high."
Liu Tao was also very helpless about this matter. She shook her head and said: "It's hard for me to talk about this matter. I want to force myself to talk about it. It depends on how he sees it. Poor people must be hateful."
Where.
Lanlan, you must think clearly about this matter and don't put yourself in a position to support your family.
You are an adult now, you have your own world, and your mother there, and your younger brother are all adults, they also have their own world, and if they want to live, they have to work by themselves, of course.
It's okay for you to be filial to your mother, but why should your money be given to your brother? He is also a father himself and wants to work, so on the one hand, this matter is your mother's fault.
There is another aspect of his responsibility, which is your responsibility.
You blindly accommodate your mother, thinking that you should give you money, but in fact, this is harming your mother, do you know?
Do you know that this is harming your brother? You can’t raise them for the rest of your life, right?
In such a situation, you always have to get married. If after you get married, you send your salary to people in your family, what will your husband think about this?
Will there be any problems in your married life? That's for sure. Once you get married, you have your own family and have to support your family. You have your own responsibilities, right?
So it is impossible for you to give all your salary to your natal family. In this case, what will you do in the future?
If you think you can help them now and squeeze them in, you are actually harming them. If you could be cruel at that time, like your eldest sister, you would not have such an end.
In fact, your eldest sister is a smart person and will definitely give you money when it is time to give it. For example, if your mother is sick and hospitalized, she will definitely give you the money.
However, if you want to get other money from her, it will not be easy. In fact, his rags are a kind of protection. Your eldest sister is a smart person. You are the only one who can't think about it. Think about it carefully.
, when you get married, and you don’t give money to your family members, what will your brother do?
What should your mother do? Why can't they all count on you for the rest of their lives? So it's actually a rather annoying term. It doesn't mean that the affection between brothers and sisters is not enough, and it doesn't mean that brothers and sisters won't help you.
But when others help you, you have to work hard yourself. If you rely on your sister or let your sister live, then is this man still called a man?
Especially after getting married, it is even more hateful. If you go to school, you can be forgiven a little, right?
After all, going to school does not provide a huge source of financial income. College students can only count on their families. However, after graduating from college, they get married and have their own children and are still mothers at this time.
It's inappropriate. It's so unmanly.
Think about it, once Mommy's boy leaves his parents, don't you think your brother will not be able to live anymore?"
Lan Lan had actually thought about what Liu Tao said, but she hesitated and said: "It's still difficult for me to make up my mind to fall out with my parents about this matter.
Although I know that my mother loves my brother very much, but he is the only boy in our family, right?
If you ask me to make up my mind not to support them, I can't do it for the time being."
Liu Tao waved his hand and said forget it: "This matter is your own family's business. You must not say that I am responsible for this matter. I can't even explain how it happened. I will tell Wang Baoqiang about this matter."
It depends on what Wang Baoqiang thinks. As for the matters between you, just follow fate and see what fate is like. When fate comes, you can't stop it no matter what. If it doesn't come, you can't force it no matter what.
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Under such a situation, Liu Tao thought that there was a nine out of ten chance that this matter would be successful, but because of the Lan Lan incident, Liu Tao felt that at this time, he basically had a nine out of ten chance of success.
It will turn yellow.
And it is very likely to be pornographic. No one wants to encounter such a thing as a mama's baby boy. Of course, there is also Voldemort. In fact, it is so difficult and such a thing as Voldemort basically complements each other. As long as
If there is a Fu Di Mo, there will definitely be a mama's boy to a large extent.
Basically, these two terms have a symbiotic relationship. After sending that one away, Liu Tao came back immediately, and the landlady was still drinking coffee there.
In fact, Wang Baoqiang himself can't tell whether coffee is good or bad. Giving him a cup of instant coffee, a cup of Nestlé or a latte or something like that will make no difference to Wang Baoqiang Laojiang.
So at this time, Wang Baoqiang was a little absent-minded when drinking coffee. He didn't put his mind on the coffee at all. Pouring a cup of coffee was just that important.
In fact, Wang Baoqiang drinks boiled water more often. This is a habit left over from when he was practicing martial arts, because when practicing in hot weather, he always drinks a lot of water.
So, gradually he started to like drinks like boiled water.
After Liu Tao came back, he sat down and said, "Baoqiang, what do you think of this girl?"
In fact, this is also a strategy. If Wang Baoqiang thinks it is very good, then he can pursue it. After all, for a big star, this kind of thing is not a big deal.
At most, he can buy a house or a car. For a big star, this is the value of a few days of filming.
So if Wang Baoqiang is particularly attracted to this girl, it doesn’t mean it’s impossible. Whether you can accept it or not depends on Wang Baoqiang’s own ability to accept it.
Wang Baoqiang hesitated for a moment and then said: "Sister Tao, it's hard for me to talk about this matter, because I didn't think there was anything to say when we met for the first time. It's this girl. I think she's more honest. She really seems to be living a good life."
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As for humans, I really can’t say that I don’t feel anything at all. The feeling is okay, but not particularly strong.
The girl is not pretty, I admit that she has a decent car, and she seems to be an honest person. She said she could be friends with me, but I dare not say anything else.
However, I think we can talk about his situation for a while, after all, we need to understand each other's character through the daily life and habits of seeing each other again."
I can't give you a good answer now. In fact, Wang Baoqiang's answer is also a relatively correct answer. No one can determine whether this person is his or her daughter-in-law when they meet for the first time.
Things like love at first sight can only be written about trivial matters. Love at first sight basically does not exist in real life.
Liu Tao sighed and said, "That's fine. Actually, let me tell you one thing: Lan Lan's situation at home is not very good. The life at home is relatively poor.
She also has an older sister and a younger brother. Although she is an older sister and her younger brother are both married, her mother prefers this younger brother. Most or even most of her monthly salary from the men's basketball team is sent to her family.
Moreover, her elder sister has a bad temper. When she asks for money, her mother will usually not ask her eldest sister for it. Her younger brother is still a mama's boy. Even after getting married, he still wants his mother to
He takes care of himself and often asks his mother for money.
So, it can be said that this Lan Lan is now the mainstay of the family, making money and spending it with the whole family.
It's pretty good, but if you really want to get in touch with Lan Lan, you must think this through clearly, otherwise, you may be caught off guard.
If you think this is inappropriate in your situation, I don’t think you need to continue to contact me.
Wang Baoqiang said with some disbelief: "It is simply unbelievable that I expect my parents to support me after I get married. In rural areas, I am like a second-rate lazy man.
Damn it, Baonan actually uses such a civilized word. You might as well call him a lazy person. In our rural areas, people like this are the most despised.
In fact, in most rural areas, it is not a big deal if your life is better, poorer, or richer. At least, people will not look down on a poor person on the street.
There may be various reasons why people are poor, but as long as you work hard and earn as much as you can, the family will not be stabbed in the back even if they starve to death.
But if you are a second-rate lazy person who relies on your parents to support you, especially after you get married, you know that he will definitely be stabbed in the back by others. This is the kind of person I despise the most.
If you were in our martial arts circle, this kind of person would be beaten at least 8 times a day."
Wang Baoqiang may be recognizable. His behavior is not as chic as that of a cultured person, but he still has his own code of conduct.
That is to say, he is a meticulous and determined person. He did not expect his parents to support him. He has learned to live alone since he was a child. He worked as a jingqiu in the capital when he was sixteen or seventeen years old.
Not just anyone can do this, so Wang Baoqiang is very capable of living alone. He especially looks down on men like Ma Baonan, whom he thinks are very unmanly.
Because when he heard such words, he probably thought that this matter was enough, so he said in the evening that you should go and see it yourself. I can't help you with this matter. After all, you will live on your own by then, right?
If it is really not suitable, we will try to have as little contact as possible in the future and ask my sister to introduce you to someone else.
Of course, this girl is good, and she is very good. She knows how to live her life. Even if she is a stewardess, she does not dress up in a fancy way, nor does she dress herself in famous brands or anything like that all day long.
In fact, the space in private can best reflect a person's living habits. For example, if there is space, even the clothes he wears in private are not very good. In general, he buys two pairs of domestic brand clothes.
However, some spaces are different. They choose some fashionable and popular things from international famous brands. This is more materialistic. Of course, you cannot say that it is not good for a stewardess to be materialistic. She is a stewardess after all, but if she can be down-to-earth,
People who live their lives are still stewardesses like Lan Lan.