At this time, in the capital, Ye Ming, after meeting Wang Baoqiang, asked him if he was sure about his girlfriend's progress.
At this time, Wang Baoqiang hesitated for a moment and then said: "As for the boss, sometimes I am actually in a dilemma because I don't know what to do now. The two eldest brothers Xu Zheng and Huang Bo are also in trouble.
He gave me a lot of ideas.
Because such ideas are all very good, it’s hard for me to choose what to do.”
Ye Ming laughed loudly and said: "You, please don't be so serious, okay?
You can't just ask others about this kind of thing, including me, I'm just giving you a suggestion, right?
It's just a small thing. But, after all, you have to carry out this matter yourself. Huang Bo and Xu Zheng are both old foxes. Their own method of chasing girls is not suitable for you, because that
Everyone's situation is different, and they can't make choices for you. So when it comes to this matter, the advice they give you is just an idea. Don't think that the advice they give you is a golden rule.
it's out of the question.
So when it comes to this matter, you have to face everything by yourself. You have to adopt your own methods. Their idea is just to give you a reference and a direction. How to implement it in detail must be done by yourself.
To make a decision, including me, the idea I gave you is also a direction. For your reference, it does not mean that you have to rely on this idea 100% to implement it. So, after all, this matter is about you chasing girls.
wrong?
You still have to find a way to face it on your own. Even if you encounter other more difficult things, it is best for you to find a way to solve it yourself. Do whatever you want in your heart, do whatever you want, and follow your heart.
You can do whatever you want to do with your own feelings, and don't consider the feelings of others other than your target person.
Xu Zheng and Huang Bo won't mind if you don't follow their suggestions. Anyway, you just need to grasp the scale yourself. Of course, you can refer to other people's opinions appropriately."
Wang Baoqiang touched his hair. Anyway, he understood it more or less. He hesitated and said: "Then I will do it according to my own ideas. I can do whatever I want. What if it doesn't succeed? What if it fails again?
Well, I feel like I’m such a failure.”
At this time, Ye Ming said without hesitation: "What's the big deal about failure? Who can't talk to someone these days? After all, you are young and you don't know. You have plenty of time to experience failure. If you fail, just find someone else."
Moreover, this one looks good to me. She is also a flight attendant. After getting married, she will no longer need it. She will go to work and be a dedicated caregiver at home.
Since you don't need that little money, you need to get your wife's consent for this in the morning. In fact, you don't have to stay at home to support your husband and raise your children. Later, you can open a small shop and ask your wife to be the store manager and hire two people to help.
Selling things, if your wife wants to go to the store, she can go and have a look. If she doesn't want to go, she can stay at home and take care of her husband and children.
It's so comfortable to live this life. Of course, you have to fight for it all by yourself. You must solve the problem by yourself. You can't leave it to the two little foxes Xu Zheng and Huang Bo to think of everything.
In fact, the methods he mentioned on this matter, including mine, may not be particularly suitable for you. The employment situation is different, so when it comes to this matter, you should try your best to find a solution yourself, and don't always rely on others.
The opinions others give you are just a reference. You have to solve the problem according to local conditions. Otherwise, if you say this, well, what will you do in the future? Suppose you don't succeed this time, will others help you find a solution next time?
So, you have to rely on yourself for this matter, everything depends on yourself, do you know? How is the progress? Is there any possibility of further development? "
Having said this, Wang Baoqiang said proudly: "This is really making some progress. His brother didn't come to Jincheng. He seemed to be looking for him to invest in some project.
Actually, it was later said that it was a pyramid scheme, so he didn’t let his younger brother do this, so he just followed me as a driver, bodyguard, etc. When I had nothing to do, I would use him to practice my skills, so that this kid could see me in the future.
I am afraid from the bottom of my heart.
Moreover, he is not willing to give up my driver's salary, and he will not ask to leave. After a while, I will get him into the crew and let him mix it up to see if she is suitable for this industry.
, if he is suitable for this industry, then let him be an actor. If not, then he can be a driver with me. Anyway, you can’t lose to him, and this guy is quite happy.
He told his parents the news directly, and as a result, Ouyang Lanlan's mother-in-law also called and said that she wanted me to go home with Ouyang Lanlan as soon as possible. The boss can be regarded as the parents of both parties. "
Ye Ming nodded with great satisfaction at this time and said: "Yes, this is almost equal to meeting your parents. If Lan Lan didn't specifically stop you from meeting your parents, then this matter would be close to the same.
If she really doesn't like you, she won't give you a chance to meet your parents at all. Once the coach finds out about this, there is a high probability that the coach will take him to your home to meet you.
Parents and elders on both sides can sit down together and discuss this matter before deciding on it.
Okay, this matter is over. Since Lan Lan is not particularly opposed, you have a chance. I will give you a few days to seize the time to solve this problem first. Being able to meet the parents is a big improvement.
You need to coax your future father-in-law and mother-in-law well, as long as their family members are settled, and Lan Lan herself is not particularly opposed to this matter, then it is almost 100% inseparable, and I will just wait to drink your wedding wine from now on."
In fact, at this point, what Ye Ming said was a perfectly normal logic, just like you have taken care of his family. However, if I want Lan Lan to be unwilling, then there is no way to determine this matter.
However, if Ouyang Lanlan himself is not particularly opposed, then this means that it is interesting for him to come occasionally. Otherwise, he will never let Wang Baoqiang follow him back to see his parents.
Under what circumstances can you meet your parents? That kind of thing has almost been decided. The adoptive parents will also check it. Even if they are adopted, in fact, generally speaking, some people in rural areas can live together after meeting their parents.
As for getting a banquet and a marriage certificate, you can do whatever you want. In rural areas, sometimes you get married before you are old enough, and people can live a lifetime. In this case, you just get married first and get a banquet. As for the marriage certificate, etc.
I won't go back until I'm almost the same age.
Anyway, what is more believed in rural areas is that a ceremony such as a banquet and marriage is a ceremony. As for the marriage certificate or not, no one at the wedding ceremony deliberately asked the newlyweds to show off the marriage certificate.
So sometimes he is in the countryside. In fact, the wedding is just that simple. After meeting his parents, the matter is basically inseparable. If both parents agree to sit together and discuss having a banquet, it is considered a decision.
Then we will get engaged.
Generally speaking, there is no special reason. After the engagement, it will not be changed. Basically, among the six status cards in ancient times, the engagement is the most important ceremony besides the marriage.
At this time, Ye Ming also saw that Wang Baoqiang was so accomplished and was going to meet both parents, so he should follow my man home to meet his parents. Moreover, Ye Ming also gave special instructions to go to Lao Lan's
At home, we have to act according to the situation, don't say listen, and don't compete with us for the bad idea of two people. His idea is not necessarily with Wang Baoqiang.
So this time, Ye Ming didn't give us any special advice, just let him act according to the situation.
Anyway, as long as we can win Ouyang Lanlan’s mother-in-law and others, it’s not a big problem. Why Lanlan’s mother-in-law was selected is not a big problem, because what made Wang Baoqiang pass was that Ouyang Lanlan’s mother-in-law decided
Yes, it can be seen from this matter.
Who is the leader in Ouyang Lanlan's family? Of course it is Ouyang Lanlan's mother-in-law.
So, if I want to pick you up at home at this time, I must first find the man’s mother-in-law, who is Wang Baoqiang’s future mother-in-law.
In fact, at this time, Ouyang Lanlan had already settled down and actually lived in the house we rented, so he basically had no special objection.
So I heard that my mother wanted to take us to the house by herself. There was no one at home to take a look. Ouyang Lanlan didn't have any special objections, but said that she would go back at the appropriate time, but what if she didn't go to work?
Sir, when is the appropriate time to go back?
My mother's meaning is very simple. If you go back on Sunday, isn't Sunday the day after tomorrow? This makes Ouyang Lanlan very nervous. I think about myself, it seems that I really don't go to work on Sunday, so let's go back.
I called Wang Baoqiang directly to discuss this matter, and Wang Baoqiang naturally did not dare to object.
And being able to go to the woman's home to meet her parents is already half a foot into the marriage hall. So, at this time, Wang Baoqiang was also very excited, and of course very happy.
This is a rare piece of good news. So Wang Baoqiang agreed without even thinking about it. The boss was already on summer vacation anyway.
He should deal with his personal issues first and then talk about the rest. Moreover, Wang Baoqiang is not a first-line actor in Huihuang Film and Television, so Wang Baoqiang leaving alone has no special impact on Hui Hui.
And since this was approved by the boss Ye Mingte, naturally no one else would make irresponsible remarks.
This is actually the same thing in the countryside. The basic things in the village will not change much. However, there are some people in the village who are very jealous.
Strong person.
If I can't get it myself, you can't even think of it. Anyway, I dare not say that there are people like you in every village. However, there will be more or less similar people. You have to carry forward this kind of character.
It's not easy to be a special person, but it's so disgusting.
This time, Ouyang's child encountered this kind of thing in his hometown. You must know that it is the last homestead close to the mainland. There will be no such good homestead in that village in the future.
So, this is something that many people are envious of, and they can get it if they get it.
Because Dashan has a very high prestige in the village, even though he is young, he knows how to get things done, he brings a lot of gifts during the holidays, and he does well in the capital.
So, since you have a certain right to speak, no one is willing to provoke you.
As for the last Ouyang Qing, this kid is just waiting to die. In the countryside, he is a second-rate lazy guy. He doesn't even think about any kind of job, but he has to spend money from his family to dress up beautifully.
This kind of person is actually very helpless.
Of course, everyone wants such a good place, and one shop can support three generations. This kind of thing is quite common in rural areas, but he did not expect that Ouyang Xiaohai would take it away in the end. Envy, jealousy, and hatred are inevitable in the village.
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So some people over there were trying to be villains and directly spread the news to the countryside. In fact, as for Ouyang Qing, his matter was more complicated. He responded to the call back then, and when he came back, he was told that he would be given a
Homestead.
However, it didn't work out well. We still had some money left in our hands, so we bought a yard in the village and settled down again.
So, if you follow the rules, there is no problem if he wants to look the same. But the problem is that in the countryside now, a single-child family with one son and one grandson can only have one yard.
At least this is the current rule. As long as you only have one son, you will definitely not be given face, because you will still be the same, right?
So this matter is quite deceptive.
Basically, it is said that no official will be promoted, and no one will be investigated. Even the internal decisions, as long as the people in the village do not accuse them, other schools will not care at all, but he, who is more envious and jealous, will directly report it to the province.
Telephone.
Faced with such a matter here, they also attached great importance to it. After verifying that Ouyang Qing had only one son and one grandson, the matter was actually rejected.
Therefore, this news naturally made some people in the village gloat about their misfortune. You can't get what I can't get. Maybe these people have such a mentality.
This can be regarded as a kind of behavior that harms others but does not benefit oneself, and this kind of behavior seems to be not uncommon, whether it is in cities or rural areas.