Chen Xinzhi was a little excited and raised his voice: "Madam, this is what I really think - please allow me to be with Xiaoxin!"
"This..." Xue Ling was very embarrassed. He looked at Cheng Tianyuan who had been silent and found that he lowered his eyes and did not express an opinion. He seemed to not want to speak, and he was also very hesitant in his heart.
After a pause, she whispered: "Tietou, it's really too early to talk about this now."
"No."
Chen Xinzhi said sincerely: "Actually, it's not too early.
Xiaoxin is already an adult, and today's children are very precocious, and some fall in love several times in their teens.
I will try not to affect her study, try to help her on the road of growth, accompany her to grow up, and then build a beautiful and happy family together."
After hearing this, Xue Ling sighed slightly.
"Tietou, you may have some misunderstandings about my views on education.
Although my children are not among the best, overall they are not too bad.
It includes a lot of efforts from us and the entire family.
Ah Yuan even gave up his career for a time and focused on his family and several children.
Because we are afraid that both of us are busy making money and have no time to take care of the education of several children, which will eventually lead to their worldview and values being distorted, making detours in life, or even taking the wrong path, and regretting it for the rest of their lives."
"Um."
Chen Xinzhi finally calmed down a little and whispered: "Xiaoxin has a good personality and is simple. You don't have to worry about these."
Xue Ling nodded: "We know that the best thing for children is not money, but the best education and correct guidance.
If both of us work hard for our careers, the child will eventually grow crooked.
Even if we make a lot of money, our children will destroy them all within a few years.
For us, our children are the biggest, most focused and most prudent ‘investment’ we can make in our lives.”
"Madam, I understand what you mean."
Chen Xinzhi nodded slowly: "But Xiaoxin is a girl after all. I can give her better protection and environment, and ensure that she has a worry-free life."
Xue Ling shook his head and whispered: "Tietou, Xiaoxin is a girl with great potential.
Your premature love and protection for her may cause her to lose the opportunity to express herself.
If you really love her, you should let her make her own choices and encourage her to face the difficulties in life, instead of letting her hide behind you and let you shelter her from the wind and rain."
"I have the ability to protect her."
Chen Xinzhi continued to fight: "My childhood and adolescence were too hard, with too many hardships.
I don't want her to suffer in life and work, because I am already strong enough."
"But this is not the purpose of training her."
Xue Ling continued to shake his head: "Tietou, a truly long-term marriage is not about one party's permanent care and dedication, while the other party is cared for and accepted, but about each other's dedication and care for each other.
In fact, it was so difficult for you in the past, and you need a woman who understands you, cares about you, and can also take care of you."
"Madam..." Chen Xinzhi frowned and whispered: "So, you are opposed to Xiaoxin and me going to study in Wenguo?"
"right."
Xue Ling said: "The learning environment in Wenguo is very relaxed, and with you accompanying and protecting her, she can easily complete university studies and even graduate courses.
But this goes against the basic purpose of educating her."
"Tietou, you have outstanding ability, so you can quickly create such a huge wealth in Wenguo.
But after you came to the Imperial City, you found that the competition here is very fierce, the market is large, there are many talents, and each industry has its own unspoken rules, so you must let me help and hire more professionals to help you work.
You can adapt to the cruel competitive environment in the imperial capital from a relaxed atmosphere, but once Xiaoxin stops and becomes comfortable at the age where she should study, she will be eliminated by society in a few years."
"You dote on her and love her very much, so you want her to grow up happily and comfortably under your protection.
You feel sorry for her that she is too busy with her studies in Didu No. 1 Middle School, so you want to apply for her to study in Wenguo in advance without even having to take the college entrance examination.
This way, you can spend more time together and kill two birds with one stone."
Having said this, Xue Ling shook his head again: "I'm sorry, if that's the case, then we would rather stop you now."
"No."
Chen Xinzhi quickly compromised and said: "Madam, sir, you have to ask Xiaoxin what she really thinks..." Xue Ling smiled helplessly: "Everyone loves ease, unless they are very self-disciplined.
No one can be defeated by the word "yi".
She also really wants to go to Wenguo to study now, and she also really wants to be with you now. She wishes she could never be apart every day, right?
No need to ask, we all know what she thinks."
Chen Xinzhi was slightly embarrassed and whispered: "...Yes."
Xue Ling nodded lightly: "Freedom of love and freedom of marriage. As parents, we should not dictate our children's love or marriage.
But we only give the most pertinent suggestions and suggestions.
We can agree to your relationship, but you shouldn't do it in your own way.
If you are really good for Xiaoxin, you should let her stay here and continue studying.
She must stay, adapt to the fiercely competitive environment, and learn to take care of the career I gave her.
Tietou, a spiritual partner who can fight alongside you is no worse than a little woman who is protected by you."
Chen Xinzhi was thoughtful and did not respond for the time being.
Xue Ling glanced towards the door and deliberately raised his voice.
"We know that you feel sorry for her and don't want her to suffer the cruel beatings of society.
But we can't always protect her closely, she has to learn to adapt on her own.
I worked hard and risked my life to give birth to her, and we raised her so big day by day. As parents, why don’t we feel sorry for her.
But if she wants to fall in love with you, she has to work harder."
"Tietou, you are so outstanding, you are the most outstanding boy I have ever seen, bar none.
I don’t want your significant other to be someone you protect behind your back, but a woman who can stand side by side with you. Even if she is not a strong woman, she can’t be useless and live by your favor.”
"No matter how calm the sea is, there will be rough waves, and no matter how powerful a person is, there is no guarantee that he will remain standing in the mall.
It’s not easy for you to struggle till today.
If she cares about you, she shouldn't live a comfortable life hiding behind you.
She can share the wind and rain and the sunshine with you, which is also a beautiful scenery."
“There is no guarantee that a marriage that relies solely on one party’s dedication and output will remain strong.
Xiaoxin's potential is very good. You shouldn't bury her, and she shouldn't bury herself.
Real happiness must be achieved by herself. You should not do it all by yourself and make her lose many opportunities.
In the final analysis, there is only one sentence - we are also good for her, good for you, and good for your future."
After saying this, Xue Ling let out a breath and said: "This is what we think.
I agree to let you fall in love, but here are the conditions."
Chen Xinzhi sat calmly, frowning slightly.
Suddenly, a pretty figure burst into the door: "Mom! I accept the conditions! I agree!"