Xue Ling smiled gently and said confidently: "With Xiao Huzi's foundation in this industry, he should be able to make a comeback soon. There is no need to worry that he will not be able to raise two children."
Xiao Huzi is a pioneer in this industry and one of the first people to make big money.
With his current connections and abilities, as well as the ample capital chain around him, I believe he can turn the situation around very quickly.
"Auntie, I know you will help him."
Shan You was embarrassed and whispered: "I can help you for a while, but you can't help me forever.
His mother is now seriously ill, and Xiao Xiaohu's grandfather has to take care of her.
The two old men can no longer help take care of the children.
Children need the care of their parents and the warmth of their families, and it is far from enough for a nanny to take care of them alone.
He has to be busy starting a new business and taking care of his mother, so he can't take care of his two children."
Xue Ling shook his head: "He will do his best.
In addition, we will also lend a hand.
The two families live so close together so that they can take care of each other when things are inconvenient."
"But...children need the company of their parents."
Shan You still refused to give up and insisted: "If he can't do it, he should think about the child and leave the child to me to take care of him properly."
Xue Ling did not answer directly, his eyes fell on her belly.
"Yuyou, you are still pregnant with the child. You will be in confinement for the next time you give birth, and you also have a baby to take care of.
How can you spare time to accompany the little tiger brothers?"
"Um...don't I still have my parents?"
Shan You hesitated and said: "My parents can help pick you up and accompany you."
Xue Ling shook his head: "Your parents are not in good health either. Let them take care of themselves first.
In addition, the two brothers Xiaohu and Xiaohu have grown up here, and they are used to the care of Wang Qing and Ahu. It would not be a good thing for them to rashly let them change to a new and unfamiliar environment."
What she told was the truth and she didn't mean to target anyone or anyone.
Sometimes the failure of a marriage cannot be blamed on one person, but it is really inappropriate to let the two children follow Shan You at the moment.
Firstly, she has never been very good at taking care of children, and now that she is pregnant, she obviously has too much time to take care of herself.
Secondly, Xiao Xiaohu and Mini Tiger were raised by their grandparents who helped take care of them since they were young, and they cannot live without the environment in the imperial capital.
Furthermore, these two little guys are now Wang Qing and A Hu's fate.
If they were taken away, Wang Qing wouldn't know how anxious he would be.
With her current condition, she must not be allowed to suffer any further stimulation, especially such an incident of flesh and blood being stripped off.
"Children change quickly and have better adaptability than adults. They can get used to it quickly."
Shan You's eyes were red and he whispered: "Auntie, you are also a mother, you should understand my feelings.
I miss them so much these days, I almost go crazy."
Speaking of this time, Shanyou was heartbroken again.
The child is the flesh that has fallen from her body, how could she not miss it or care about it! If it weren’t for the need to nourish the fetus and the body, she would have come to visit them in the Fei Emperor.
Every time she thought of the scene when the two little guys looked at her with unfamiliar eyes, her heart couldn't help but throb in pain, and even breathing was painful.
Xue Ling's face was pale and his voice was low: "Yuyou, this is your choice, isn't it?
Your choice will definitely cause the collapse of your family.
The two children are either one or the other, and the two brothers live in different parts of the world.
If given to either party, the child will either lose the love of his father or his mother.
This is an inevitable result, isn’t it?”
Shan You was stunned, tears sparkling in his eyes.
"Auntie, I...I'm not a good mother, I know.
But I...I love my two children, can you understand?"
"Yes, I understand."
Xue Ling smiled bitterly and sighed: "But love is one thing. I have no confidence in you whether you can take good care of them and give them a better and more stable environment."
Shan You lowered his eyes, tears falling down.
Xue Ling whispered: "Although Ah Qing fell ill, Xiao Huzi can still take care of the two children. At least for now, the two children are living a good and stable life.
Not to mention that Xiao Huzi would never agree.
Take a look at your side first.
You are still pregnant with a child, and it is very likely that you will start a new family in the future.
Are you sure your lover can accept Xiao Xiaohu and the others?
How difficult will it be for you to be caught in the middle?"
How good her abilities are is obvious to everyone.
Since the little tiger was born, the family had to have a nanny and a nanny, otherwise she alone would not be able to take care of the child.
Later, Wang Qing and Ahu came, and the family even hired a nanny, otherwise the housework would not be completed at all.
After Little Tiger went to kindergarten, Wang Qing and Ahu devoted themselves to taking care of Little Tiger. Until now, he can go to kindergarten. During this period, the two elderly people mainly contributed.
In the past two years, she often traveled to the South Island for two to three months or even longer, leaving very little time with her two children.
It's not that Xue Ling is cruel, or that she doesn't understand Shan You, but she guesses that Shan You is simply not capable of taking care of the two children.
In this case, why bother fighting for the custody of the child again at this time! "I-I can give it a try."
Shan Yougen swallowed.
Xue Ling slowly shook his head: "Yuyou, a child's childhood is only once, and a child's growth process is only once, so don't try it.
Because if you fail, you may never be able to recover.
If the children stay with Xiao Huzi, at least they will grow up in a familiar and comfortable environment, surrounded by their grandparents, father and aunt, plus our family.
We are all their closest relatives and will definitely love and care for them.
But if your children remarry with you, they will not have anyone related by blood except you.
How much love can they get?"
Shan You was stunned and couldn't answer for a moment.
Xue Ling looked calm and whispered: "Yuyou, you are about to give birth to another child. How much of your love, energy and time can be equally distributed to each child?
Have you ever thought about it?
Also, how much will your future partner love Xiao Xiaohu and the others?
How confident can you be?"
Shan You hesitated to speak, but in the end she couldn't speak because she was not sure in her heart.
It goes without saying that it is natural to love one's biological children.
But Xiao Xiaohu had no blood relationship with him, so she had no idea how patient he could be towards them and how painful he could be.
Xue Ling sighed softly: "Yuyou, a person's greed should match his ability, so that he is not greedy.
If you exceed your abilities, you will be ridiculed as wishful thinking.
How difficult it must be to ask others to do things to achieve your own success.
Many people actually don’t know that asking yourself is the easiest thing in the world, but asking others is always unknown and far more difficult.”