Kang An asked curiously: "Sir, is he also grateful to his wife? Financially?"
Cheng Huanran explained: "It's more than that. My father is grateful to my mother for working hard for the family's finances, and also grateful to my mother for working hard to give birth to several children for him. When my mother was pregnant with the third and fourth children, I was already quite old.
I remember that my mother was in the hospital for a long time. In the end, she couldn't even walk. Her belly was so big that it was... a bit scary. When my mother was in the delivery room, I saw my father crying secretly."
"Is it difficult to give birth?" Kang An asked with a frown.
Cheng Huanran shook his head: "Yes. At that time, Aunt Achun was also hospitalized in the obstetrics and gynecology department. She had just lost her child and was abused by her husband. She was so desperate that she wanted to jump off the building. My mother saw it and saved her in time, but unfortunately she had fetal force.
.It was quite dangerous at the time, and the obstetrics and gynecology doctors were very anxious.”
Kang An lowered his eyes and said: "The husband thinks that his wife almost paid the price with her life for giving birth to children for him. He feels sorry for his wife, so he is extremely grateful."
Most men think that it is natural for a woman to give birth to a child, and they do not care at all about how much pain their wife has to endure in order to give birth to a healthy child.
Only a man who truly cares about his wife will be grateful to his wife for spreading branches and leaving children for him.
Cheng Huanran squinted his eyes and whispered: "My mother doesn't think she is great because she has made a lot of money. She is very grateful to my father for taking care of the elderly and children and keeping the house in order. We understand each other and are grateful to each other.
Give. Only in this way can family relationships be harmonious and harmonious and not prone to turbulence."
"Yeah." Kang An whispered: "A happy family must have many reasons for happiness. An unhappy family will naturally have many reasons for being unhappy. Your parents are indispensable for a big family to live in such harmony.
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"Yes." Cheng Huanran said: "My parents are both very generous and cheerful people, and they don't care about things. Whether they are relatives on my father's side or relatives on my mother's side, they will save enough face for each other."
"Face?" Kang An couldn't help but ask, "What are you referring to? Your grandparents?"
Cheng Huanran shook his head: "More than that. For example, I have lived with my grandparents since I was a child. There is no difference between the elders on both sides. My dad and my mom treat both elders equally and respect them very much. Look at my dad, compared to my mom, I
My grandparents relied on him more. When my grandparents were alive, they also loved my mother very much. Even if my mother had some quarrels with the old man, she would put it down and let my father handle it. My mother does not hold grudges.
For people, when the matter is over, it will no longer be a thing. Because of this, they can get along very well with the elderly on both sides."
"Your mother and your grandmother... don't have any conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, right?" Kang An asked curiously: "Not at all?"
Cheng Huanran chuckled: "How could it not be! There is such a thing as conflict. Conflicts will arise when there are differences of opinion. But as long as one party grasps the balance, it will naturally not happen. My grandma is a very traditional rural woman, kind-hearted,
She is kind-hearted. However, her knowledge is far less than that of my mother. My mother often refrains from saying anything and pretends she doesn't see or doesn't know. If she has the slightest difference of opinion, my mother will quickly back away or ignore it. That's right.
Because of this, my mother will not let conflicts arise."
Kang An praised: "That's because your mother is virtuous, smart and knows how to tolerate."
"Part of the reason is that my grandma is kind." Cheng Huanran explained: "They are both good people and love each other, so most of the time they can agree on the same position. My grandma will not act like a mother-in-law, and my mother respects her very much.
Relationships are all mutual. One-sided efforts by one side will not mean much in the end, and will not last long."
Kang An nodded in approval: "My wife's character is really good."
Cheng Huanran kissed her forehead and smiled: "So, you don't have to worry about any conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law between you and my mother in the future - just relax."
Kang An was not worried at all and said, "I don't have any relatives... I'm quite envious when I see how harmonious your family is."
She has come into contact with many people, including many top dignitaries. However, it is very rare for a family to be as harmonious as Xinyuan, with strong family ties and intimacy.
She was initially attracted to Cheng Huanran, mostly because the warm atmosphere of their home was so endearing.
Cheng Huanran chuckled: "You are now a part of our family, no need to envy you. You! Wait until you are envied by others in the future."
Kang An was amused by him and whispered: "I wish your mother didn't look down on the country where I was born."
Cheng Huanran shook his head quickly: "My dad is from the countryside, and the countryside over there is worse than your hometown! In the past, my dad's poor relatives and fellow villagers, whenever they came to the door, my mom would give my dad enough face.
, try to meet their requirements. When my mother sold her house in the past, some fellow villagers came to her door, and my mother always sold the house at a 30% or 40% discount. As long as my father's people were found, my mother would never let them go in vain. I
Mom has never had a family background, and there is such a bad habit of birthplace discrimination, otherwise she would not have gone all the way from the imperial capital to marry into Chengjia Village more than forty years ago!"
"I know." Kang An was embarrassed to explain: "I was just... just joking, don't take it seriously."
Cheng Huanran couldn't help but explain: "You have your outstanding qualities. What I like about you is you. It has little to do with your place of birth or family situation. If I wanted to marry a well-matched or like-minded woman, I would have done it long ago.
We are married, why bother waiting for you until now."
Kang An was secretly amused when he heard this, and asked: "Wait for me? Are you not getting married because you are waiting for me? Mr. Cheng, your sweet words are too much!"
Cheng Huanran spoke glibly: "I'm waiting for a woman who can really make my heart beat, and you are the only one. I have been waiting so hard for so many years, and everyone can testify for me."
Kang An pursed his lips and smiled.
Cheng Huanran couldn't help but ask: "Honey, should we move out or stay in Xinyuan?"
"You tell me your opinion first." Kang An said, "We also need to learn from your parents and be thoughtful."
Cheng Huanran said "hmm" and said: "I prefer to continue living in Xinyuan. Firstly, we don't have to cook by ourselves, and we don't have to hire hourly workers to clean or cook. Secondly, the house is more lively and there are many children. You I am a person who loves liveliness and children. Living in a big villa for two people will inevitably be too deserted. If we want a world for two, we can have enough romance after get off work and come back to sleep at night. We need to eat and drink here. We all have the freshest food, you don’t have to eat junk takeout from outside, and you don’t have to work hard to cook——"
"I don't know how to cook." Kang An suddenly interrupted him and shook his head: "I can only cook noodles and millet porridge, and nothing else."
Cheng Huanran suppressed a smile: "It's okay, it doesn't matter. There are chefs here anyway, so you don't need to wash your hands to make soup."