Cheng Tianfang smiled bitterly: "You said you're not even pregnant yet, how can you be so worried?"
"That's right!" Ahu joked: "With your worries and troubles, no one would have given birth to a baby a long time ago!"
Wang Qing shook his head: "Xiaoxin, I'm wrong."
Xue Xin laughed: "No, no, I just think so occasionally, and I don't really miss Dink. Maybe after a few years, I will want to have a baby!"
"Silly girl." Cheng Tianfang gave her a doting look and whispered: "Do you think having a baby is as easy as drinking water? Just wait until you want to get pregnant, and you can get pregnant anytime you want?"
Xue Xin was confused and asked: "...Isn't it? Look, my eldest brother and sister-in-law got pregnant just after they got engaged, and they will get married by the end of the year!"
Ahu rolled his eyes at her and said: "That's because your eldest brother and sister-in-law are lucky enough to get pregnant so quickly. Do you know that a lot of people want to have babies but can't? I saw the news yesterday that they are now infertile.
There are long queues at the fertility department all day long, and at least two out of ten couples have fertility problems. Giving birth to a baby is different from laying an egg. It is really difficult when it is difficult!"
"Isn't it? Then the probability is not 20%?" Xue Xin muttered in disbelief: "So high?"
"More than twenty!" Ahu replied.
Wang Qing moved his hands and waved to Xue Xin with difficulty.
Xue Xin hurriedly came forward and took the initiative to hold her hand.
Wang Qing lowered his voice and spoke slowly.
"Xiao Xin, don't take everything for granted. Being pregnant and having a baby depends on fate. I...my ex-husband couldn't have children...we got divorced...mostly because of this."
Xue Xin whispered "Oh" and unconsciously glanced at Ahu from the corner of her eyes.
"Auntie, you have a son and a daughter, and now you are a grandmother. You will not regret it at all."
Wang Qing smiled bitterly: "What do you know? We were both married for the second time back then, we were quite old, and I was not very healthy. We saw so many doctors, took so many medicines, and spent so much effort, that we finally gave birth to little Huzi and Xiao Huzi.
Xiaoyun, I still can’t help crying when I think about the pain of taking medicine and getting acupuncture."
Xue Xin stared in surprise and rolled her eyes.
Cheng Tianfang on the side came forward and whispered: "When you are young, your health is good, it is easier to get pregnant. But really... you can't get pregnant whenever you want. Xue Heng and I were never able to get pregnant.
, they had all kinds of quarrels and quarrels every day, until finally they went through all the trouble to get pregnant, and the relationship between the two of them was gone."
"Is it because of the child? I can't get pregnant?" Xue Xin frowned and asked, "Uncle Heng is such a traditional man? I can't tell."
Cheng Tianfang smiled bitterly and sighed: "No... After all, he is a man who has read so many books. He doesn't have to have a child to carry on the family line. It's just that he is the eldest son in the family, and his parents naturally want to have grandchildren, so they will inevitably rush us.
The main reason is that children are a very important factor in a family. If Xiaohan had been born earlier, maybe we wouldn't have had such a violent quarrel, and it wouldn't have ended in... divorce."
"Is it so important?" Xue Xin couldn't help but mutter.
Cheng Tianfang nodded: "Children are a very important factor between the couple, and they do not exist alone. Children can make the relationship between husband and wife more harmonious, and make the couple more responsible and have a sense of belonging to the family. The relationship will gradually fade away, but there are
Couples with children involved will not divorce easily. If both people are very independent and their relationship fades away, the marriage will easily become unstable."
"That's right!" Ahu interrupted: "Many people don't divorce because of their children. Later, as the children grow up, their temperament becomes old and they can no longer wander, so they don't bother to divorce. In the end, the old husband and wife stay together until they grow old. No.
Once you have a baby, you can leave casually without any worries at all."
Xue Xin was thoughtful and began to waver.
"Raising a child... is too trivial and annoying. If you have a child, the center and focus of your life will always be the child. If he disobeys in the future and becomes all kinds of troublesome and unfilial -"
"What a silly thing!" Ah Hu laughed and interrupted her, "Which business is 100% profitable? Who can be sure? Which one? There are risks in any investment! It's like giving birth to a child.
You and Tietou will make the biggest investment in the future, including energy and money. If you invest well, you will get a few filial children in the future. If you don’t invest well, I can only blame you for not investing well!"
Xue Xin: "..." Raising children is an investment? It seems that is the case.
Ahu pointed at Cheng Tianyuan and Xue Ling not far away and said: "Look at your parents, they gave birth to four children in total. If they were worried that you were too troubled and unfilial, then they simply stopped having children. Then today
They are just lonely old people. How can Xinyuan be so lively? You don’t have a big brother, a second brother or a third brother, not even you!"
Xue Xin: "..."!!!
Ahu added: "Who is not taking risks in investing? I didn't bother to have two children, so where are the little tigers and mini tigers now? Without offspring, if we all fall ill, we will have to lie in a nursing home.
go."
"None of us can live without water." Wang Qing said slowly: "But we will drown and cannot live in the water. Is it because of this that we can use water without drinking water?"
Cheng Tianfang chuckled: "Without you, where would your parents have had grandchildren? Only through generation after generation can we continue to prosper."
"It's lively tonight." Wang Qing said with a smile: "Everyone is happy. The arrival of a new life is the most ecstatic good thing."
Xue Xin was still hesitant and making a final struggle.
"However, even if I don't have any descendants, my brothers do! In the future, my nephews and nieces can't just ignore us, right? As long as you have enough money, you won't be afraid of not being well taken care of when you get old."
"Silly girl!" Ahu laughed and scolded: "Children raised by themselves may not be the same if they have a layer of belly between them! Your nieces and nephews have their own parents and father-in-law to take care of them. If you can't count on them,
What? Right? You have no confidence in your own children, so how can you be so confident in your nieces and nephews? I just can’t figure it out!"
"I...I..." Xue Xin was speechless.
Cheng Tianfang patted the back of her hand and comforted her: "Don't worry, think carefully, think carefully. Fortunately, you are still young and still have the opportunity to regret and repent. If you are already in your thirties, there will not be much time left for you.
Yes. We women are considered advanced mothers after the age of thirty, you know, right?"
"I know." Xue Xin's heart was in a mess, and her head was also in a mess, "Well - I'll think about it carefully when I go back."
Ahu smiled and said: "Don't procrastinate! You will save yourself from procrastinating again and again and become an advanced mother, and then it will be too late to regret!"