Mother Xue was not surprised at all, and said: "The idea of relying on the mother-in-law is not right. If there are no brothers or sisters in the mother's family, she is the only daughter, and everyone will definitely help her. If there are brothers, then the son must be taken care of first."
The older generation prefers that daughters return to their husband's family after marriage, and Xue's mother is no exception. If she has a son, she will naturally stay with her son, not her daughter.
"And you have to take care of your wife." Xue's father explained: "I heard that his father-in-law has not been in good health in recent years."
Xue Ling was very surprised and asked: "Tongzi? Really? He used to - he looked quite healthy before."
"I don't know." Father Xue shook his head: "From what Duoduo said, it seems that it is a hereditary skin disease in the family, which is somewhat difficult to treat. When you get older, you have to take medicine from time to time. Decorating a new house at home and marrying a daughter-in-law is a big deal.
I also need to take care of my wife's health. Besides, with such a long distance, how can I possibly take care of my grandson?"
"Yes!" Xue's mother said with deep emotion: "If we live together, no matter how busy we are, we can help more or less. We are so far away, even if my grandparents want to help, they are unable to do so.
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Xue Ling couldn't help but tell the truth: "In the final analysis, we still have to rely on them to be parents. How can a nanny take care of the children as well as one's own family members? Just like the ones in Yangyang, they are all nannies plus one's own family members, how can they dare to take care of all of them?"
I really feel uneasy leaving it to the nanny to take care of."
At that time, her children had their parents-in-law, who took care of them and brought them up. Later, Sister Achun was also a good neighbor who lived next door, so she didn't have to worry too much.
Nowadays, the world is in a bad state, and news of various nannies abusing children and the elderly are flying all over the sky, so we have to be cautious.
Even if you have to hire someone to help take care of the children, you have to have your own people involved, otherwise you won’t be able to rest assured.
The child is still young and cannot speak, and even if he can speak, he may not be able to speak clearly. Once the injury is caused, it may be a major trauma for a lifetime.
Because of this, you cannot leave your child to a nanny with full authority, and you must have parents or close relatives to help watch over you.
"The young couple both leave early and come back late." Xue's father shook his head: "How can we take care of the little one! Unless the child is sick, he will not ask for leave. Xiao Tong is very dedicated to work, and it is impossible for Duo Duo not to work. Speaking of which,
It’s still the same thing – it’s not easy!”
Mother Xue was a little confused. After all, there were many sisters of her generation who were housewives.
"Can't you wait until your children are older before you go to work? If you don't take advantage of your youth to have one or two more children, why do you have to work so hard and embarrass yourself? Some people make money to support the family, and some people take care of the elderly and children. Only one family can be complete. They also
If you’re not short of money, what can you do if you work hard?”
Speaking of this, she couldn't help but glare at her daughter.
Xue Ling shrugged innocently: "I have not cared about the group's affairs for many years, and I have given full power to Duoduo for a long time. I often do not attend board meetings, giving him enough freedom and trust as the president."
She never restricted the rights that employees should have. When she was in charge of the company, everything was done in accordance with laws and regulations. Overtime was never forced, and overtime was compensated. Those who can work more will get more.
"It's all that - that - wolf corporate culture is not good!" Xue's father sighed and shook his head: "All kinds of vicious competition, all kinds of overtime and all kinds of papers, just hearing it makes people have a headache. Duo Duo loves that one.
, and now I am also tightly bound by that set."
"Yes!" Xue Ling explained: "I have reminded him many times, and he has restrained himself a little, but it doesn't change the medicine. Fortunately, it is only for young people now, and old employees do not need to join such a supervision mechanism, otherwise my mobile phone
The number will probably be blown up by old employees."
Xue's mother disagreed: "If you ask me, I'm still too greedy! With so many shares and assets, it must be worth more than a billion, right? Maybe it's already more than this. I already have that much money.
, you can make money alone and be lazy at home raising and raising children. With so much money, you can spend it for several lifetimes, let alone this life. Why do you have to torment yourself? You can’t take care of your family, and you can’t take care of yourself.
child."
"I said the same thing." Xue's father agreed.
"You don't understand." Xue Ling explained: "After Xiao Tong graduated, he started his own business and made himself very embarrassed. He had different opinions with Duoduo, and their relationship was in crisis. Later, they even suffered from depression. Duoduo secretly gave her
A very relaxed position was arranged, but she still worked very hard, fighting for everything and not daring to fall behind. There was a reason why Duoduo didn't dare to suggest that she resign, because she was afraid that she might be depressed again while taking care of the baby at home.
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Mother Xue frowned when she heard this: "Why are there so many such things now! Why haven't you heard of them before?"
"It must have existed before." Xue Ling shook his head: "It's just not named, so even if you hear it, you may not recognize it, so I don't care."
"Are you okay now?" Xue's mother asked, "I think I heard you say it before, but I forgot about it again. I'm getting older and I really can't remember things."
"Okay." Xue Ling replied: "It's just a slight, not serious. Adjust it slowly by yourself, and add the company of your relatives and a relaxed living atmosphere and pace, and you'll be fine in a few months."
"Fortunately, it's not postpartum depression." Xue's mother sighed: "Otherwise, the young man would definitely not dare to have a second child in the future."
Xue Ling couldn't help but said: "We only have one child now. Without Sister Achun, they can't take care of it at all. How can they have a second child? Some things can't be solved with more money. No matter how much money you have, they can't buy it."
The child’s health.”
"That's right." Mother Xue shook her head: "You can't buy too many things! Children are the most important thing. No matter what, take care of the children first. When the children are older and in better health, then start a career."
Xue Ling didn't quite agree, and whispered: "Nowadays, young people think differently. They pay more attention to themselves. In addition, they are also afraid of missing the best age to start a career."
Mother Xue was a little speechless and asked: "Don't you just ignore the child?"
"I'll definitely take care of it." Xue Ling replied, "But maybe I can't be that detailed."
Father Xue felt very sorry for the child and sighed: "That little guy is smaller than other children of the same age and has a poor appetite. He was already skinny, but he couldn't eat a lot of things, which made him even skinnier - it's a vicious cycle."
"It's uncomfortable to hear!" Xue's mother looked at her daughter: "When you get to the imperial capital, remember to contact Duoduo and let him think of a way. You can't drag it out like this. The healthy growth of your child is the most important, and nothing else can compare with it.
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Xue Ling was slightly embarrassed and whispered: "Parents can work more for their children, but they cannot live for their children all their lives. They must have their own pursuits. I would advise them to raise their children well first and change the pace of life. When the children grow up,
The stronger your immunity, the better you should be."