Xue Ling smiled when he heard this and said: "Your mother is right. Under the influence of the concept of materialism and money, it is actually very difficult for young people who want to find a true love to marry and live a life."
"My mother said the same thing." Wang Xiaoxiao smiled bitterly: "Luoluo's academic performance is average, her work unit is average, and her appearance is just okay. She has an apartment and the car supply is about to expire, so she has a house and a car. Materials
The conditions are considered average, but she only requires one person, and it must be the person she likes. There is only one condition, I didn’t expect it to be so difficult!"
Xue Ling smiled and said: "You are luckier than Luoluo, and you found your beloved earlier than her. In fact, 80% of the partners you find during your studies are the purest feelings. Instead, you have stepped out of society and entered the marriage market. I want to
It’s getting harder and harder to find true love and get married.”
"Yes!" Wang Xiaoxiao explained: "She used to be very well-behaved. There were boys chasing her when she was studying, but she rejected them all. She always felt that she had to study hard while studying, and love and marriage could only be put in the back queue.
.Moreover, most people who fall in love during their studies cannot succeed. She saw this and was secretly afraid, so she didn’t even dare to talk about it."
Xue Ling was embarrassed to comment too much and wrote lightly: "Analyze the specific situation in detail. If Luoluo wants to find a suitable match in the blind date market, then she must comply with the rules of the market."
"It's too difficult!" Wang Xiaoxiao smiled bitterly: "The ones who are slightly better have various requirements and conditions. They dislike Luoluo for being too old and worry about not being able to have children in the future. Forty-year-olds, I want to find someone in their thirties. Thirties.
I'm looking for someone who is in their twenties. Men tend to look for young people and don't look down on someone like my sister."
Xue Ling chuckled: "To put it bluntly, who doesn't love young people? Have you ever heard that men of any age only love girls who are eighteen years old?"
"Haha!" Wang Xiaoxiao nodded: "I've heard of it! It's too realistic and cruel! Who hasn't been young, who hasn't been eighteen years old, right? My sister is no longer in a hurry now, saying that if she can't find
If that happens, then she will be single for the rest of her life, and would rather be in need rather than get married just for the sake of getting married."
Xue Ling raised her eyebrows: "Really? Do your parents support it?"
"Of course I don't support it!" Wang Xiaoxiao shook his head: "They told her to search slowly, and she will find it sooner or later. My sister said that many of her classmates and colleagues had to find someone because they were old enough to get married.
Men with similar conditions get married. Most of those who get married because of marriage end up getting divorced because of trivial matters in the family. My sister is tired of seeing it and thinks that instead of ending up with divorce in the future, it is better to stop getting married early."
Xue Ling thought for a while and said: "That's not the case. Marriage is like a person who knows whether drinking water is warm or cold. The key is to look at the individual."
"Maybe it's because there are too many people getting divorced now, and it's too common among the younger generation." Wang Xiaoxiao said: "Everyone has their own weird reasons. In addition, there are so many people who betray their marriages now, which makes many people start to
I don’t trust my own marriage, which also scares away those who are not yet married.”
"Yes." Xue Ling also agreed with this point, saying: "The main reason is that the current information communication is too convenient and the information is open. Once you throw it on the Internet, people all over the world can see it. Click on the phone to see, click on
I opened the web page and saw it, and formed an intuition - it seems that there are too many such examples. In fact, most people are just ordinary people, living a life of working, supporting their families and supporting their children, and there are not too many
A bloody or bizarre life.”
Wang Xiaoxiao disagreed: "There must be more than before!"
"It should be." Xue Ling did not deny this. "The new generation prefers egoism and advocates refined egoism. They pay more attention to themselves. Anyway, as long as I live a good life, everything else doesn't matter. How could the older generation have any Buddha in the past?
Thoughts like 'Yeah' and 'Lie down'. Everyone has a sense of responsibility. They are not only responsible for their careers, but also for their own lives and families. They also hope to be a useful person to society and responsible for our society.
. Of course, I said it is a high probability, not everyone is like this. There are scumbags in any era, and there are scumbag men at any time. This is determined by human nature."
"Yes." Wang Xiaoxiao shook his head: "It seems to be like this. There are still a lot of weird chicken soup for the soul on the Internet - as long as I live a good life, it doesn't matter if I destroy the world, why would I rather lose the world than die?
I won’t let anyone in the world fail me. In short, young people are becoming more and more self-centered.”
"Haha!"
Huh? There are billions of people in the world, how can they bear the burden of each one? How many people on the street know you after walking out of the door for a few dozen steps? Who would be idle and bored to "bear you"? Haha! How can it be so funny!"
Wang Xiaoxiao pursed her lips and smiled.
Xue Ling patted her arm gently and said in a warm voice: "Just listen. Nowadays, those short videos, poisonous chicken soup, and live broadcasts, in order to get traffic, they will do all kinds of gimmicks or bloody tricks at any cost to gain attention, and even no
Lower limit. Once there is a topic, all kinds of media will follow suit, each with their own opinions and opinions, just to get the first wave of traffic as quickly as possible. In the final analysis, interests are still at play."
"Alas..." Wang Xiaoxiao couldn't help but sigh: "It's so terrifying! It feels like everything is controlled by interests."
"It's all like this." Xue Ling smiled: "This is the truth at any time and everywhere. It's just whether you can see through it or not, and you can tell it through but not explain it."
Wang Xiaoxiao covered the stew pot and said, "Thank you, Mom, I've finished drinking."
"Yes." Xue Ling reminded softly: "When you return to Xinyuan, remember to tell Xiao Li and ask her to stew you stomach-warming fish maw twice a week. Will your stomach disease attack again?"
"Very few." Wang Xiaoxiao explained: "I participated in training when I was very young and grew up eating at various cafeterias. Later, when I joined the national team, the food became better, but I was used to eating hot or cold.
, I unknowingly developed a stomach problem. Fortunately, it’s not serious, and it’ll be fine if I don’t eat too cold. Over the years, you’ve been giving me stomach-health supplements from time to time, and it’s been much better.”
"You have to continue to take care of yourself." Xue Ling reminded: "Stomach problems mainly rely on self-care and self-discipline. You are still young, and your body is the capital of life. You must not be careless."
Wang Xiaoxiao smiled: "I understand, thank you, Mom."
At this time, Xue Ling's cell phone rang!
She took it out and took a look - it was Xiao Tong!
Wang Xiaoxiao picked up the stew pot and said, "Mom, I'll just send it to the kitchen. You can do your work."
"Okay." Xue Ling smiled and nodded, swiping across the screen to answer.