Xue Ling put down the knife and fork and slowly wiped the corners of his mouth.
"If he comes up later, don't ask too many questions."
Cheng Huanran frowned and asked: "Mom, why don't you persuade little Tong? Didn't Brother Duduo already go to coax her?"
"I coaxed him." Xue Ling replied, "But I didn't coax him enough. In the end, the two of them quarreled again and nothing came to an end."
Xue Heng was a little confused and said: "Isn't it just because of the disagreement about raising the child? The child is not a baby waiting to be fed. He is already so old and will be sent to kindergarten soon. As for getting divorced just because of this? It's unbelievable.
!”
"We think so, but they don't." Xue Ling gave up tiredly: "I tried to persuade Xiao Tong, but she couldn't listen at all. Her mind was filled with her career and professional anxieties, and all kinds of struggles and irritations. So many of these
Bian, I’m too lazy to persuade you.”
Cheng Huanran explained: "Uncle Heng helped persuade me last time, and he obviously understood!"
"He understands, but whether he can do it or not is another matter." Xue Ling said: "Duoduo is very smart and can do anything. But whether he is willing to do it or not is another matter. He is arrogant and refuses to lose face.
, and refused to compromise and back down. But Xiao Tong also refused to back down. When he was angry, he had to divorce."
Xue Heng felt confused and scratched his gray hair.
"What's wrong with today's young people? They have to get divorced at every turn? There are so many 'must' things in this world. If marriage can really be so arbitrary, there will be more unfortunate people or children. The children are still so young,
Why don't they think a little about him?"
Xue Ling said coldly: "If they really thought about their children, they wouldn't get divorced at this juncture! The children may have psychological disorders or allergies. Now the doctors are still at a loss and don't know how to treat them. They don't want to find any ways.
Treating children only results in all kinds of internal friction and wrangling - it’s really irritating!”
Seeing that Xue Ling was angry, Xue Heng quickly winked at his nephew.
"Ling Ling, don't be angry. Maybe they just need to calm down. Isn't there still three months left in the cooling-off period? Maybe they will be reconciled in less than a month."
“It’s difficult!”
Cheng Huanran hesitated to speak and whispered: "If you don't persuade me...it doesn't look good."
The two are obviously far from divorce, but Duo Duo still has deep feelings for Xiao Tong, so why did they end up in such a mess!
As a brother for many years, he couldn't help but advise.
Xue Ling asked back: "Can you persuade me? If I can persuade them, why would they need a divorce? Didn't I persuade them too? But did they listen to it? One said he was tired and couldn't go on anymore. The other said he was tired physically and mentally.
It's impossible to live on. The life is theirs, and if they live a good life like this - is it useful for us to worry about it? The key is to rely on them to figure it out."
"What if you can't figure it out?" Cheng Huanran smiled bitterly: "Are you just watching them leave?"
"Otherwise?"
Xue Heng also thought it was feasible when he heard it: "That's right! Some people have to be taught a lesson and be severely punished by the cruel reality before they can wake up, restrain their attitude, and behave well again. If they don't listen, let them go on their own.
Just make it your own fault."
Cheng Huanran didn't know what to say for a moment, but he felt more and more sorry for little Zheng Zheng.
"According to my observations during this period, this child is very, very sensitive. His allergies are probably not food allergies, but psychological allergies. He seems to be gentle and quiet, but he is very eager to be lively and will go wherever there are many people.
Go. He...has shown signs of psychological dissatisfaction with Duoduo and the others. If they have to divorce, the one who will be hurt the most is little Zheng Zheng."
Xue Ling paused in putting away the tableware, then sighed softly.
"If the two elders can't persuade him, then we can only try to take care of the younger one. He likes the excitement, so we took him to live in Xinyuan. Let's put more thought into it."
Fortunately, Xinyuan is a large place with Xue Yang's family and Xiao Huzi's father and son, so it is enough for the children to play and it is lively enough.
Little Zheng Zheng can no longer live without Xiao Shuang and the others. He will follow them wherever they go, even during bedtime.
I believe that with a few children as companions, he will be less restless or depressed.
Xue Heng also secretly felt sorry for the child and sighed: "Xiaohan... it was also because her mother and I had been having an quarrel and cold war when she was a child. Later, after we divorced, something happened to her mother again, and she began to become taciturn, emotionally more...
Other children are sensitive, eager for feelings but also afraid of feelings, and have weirder temperaments than ordinary children. They are difficult to take care of when they are young, and difficult to teach when they grow up. Alas! It’s hard to explain in words!”
"It's starting to get better." Xue Ling comforted: "This world is not perfect to begin with, life is in tatters, and someone has to slowly mend it. You, you can be considered a blessing after all the hardships."
After Xiaohan went abroad this time, her temperament changed a lot and she became stronger. She is willing to return to China to find a job, and she is also willing to go to a nursing home to learn from the grassroots level. She is willing to learn from the crowd, which is already a great improvement.
"No matter how big the bumps are, they will eventually pass. No matter how unfortunate things are, they will eventually ease up."
Xue Heng gave a helpless smile: "I just sigh with emotion as someone who has been there. If some people are willful, others will suffer. If parents divorce willfully, their children will suffer. In this world, there are people who are depressed and others who have low emotions. Naturally, it was planted by some people.
There is no unprovoked reason for the evil consequences, and there is no groundless reason.”
"Stop talking." Xue Ling gave up tiredly: "I chatted with Xiao Tong for a long time in the afternoon, and I heard her complain a lot. I couldn't help it, I couldn't persuade it. I was very tired, so I went back to the room to rest.
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"Mom, are you okay?" Cheng Huanran stood up quickly: "I'll help you back to your room."
"No need." Xue Ling said: "You finish eating with your Uncle Heng, then look at the children when you turn around. Let them go to bed early, no later than nine-thirty. Also, Xiao Zheng did not take a nap in the afternoon, so he must be arranged to sleep first.
Down."
"Oh!" Cheng Huanran agreed.
Xue Ling went back to her room with peace of mind, her back slightly stooped, obviously very tired.
Cheng Huanran watched her leave, sat down and ate quickly.
Xue Heng couldn't help but feel distressed: "Your mother said she doesn't care, but in fact she doesn't. The most helpless part is that she can't help, and she feels uncomfortable as well."
Cheng Huanran chewed heavily: "I'm going to take care of some children after eating, and I'm going to see my mother later."
Xue Heng warned: "If she can't sleep, remember to warm her some milk. She was in a bad mood and didn't eat much earlier."