"Yeah." Lin Qingzhi nodded: "I think Auntie may have some tricks up her sleeve."
Everyone was extremely curious and looked over one after another.
Lin Qingzhi explained: "As far as we know, Zheng Duoduo and Xiao Tong did not have a broken relationship. At most, family life and raising children were too trivial, which made them too irritable and unwilling to face it. Even the reasons and requirements for divorce were exactly the same.
Two people who are so in sync with each other are probably just trying to make each other angry, rather than sincerely wanting a divorce."
"They are indeed making each other angry." Cheng Huanchong continued: "Little Sister Tong always blames Brother Duoduo, saying that he hopes she will resign and be a full-time wife at home, and wait until the children are older before going out to work. Little Tong
My sister said that he couldn't stand Totogo's attitude. Why should she, as the child's mother, have to sacrifice for her child with peace of mind. Her position was hard-earned. Once she passed the best age for her career, she would like to find a job that suits her or her in the future.
The job you like is simply impossible. Why is she the one who has to sacrifice, and not Brother Duoduo? She cares about this matter both inside and outside her words."
Everyone was stunned.
"Is this the real reason? Each of them is unwilling to sacrifice a little working time for their children and family, and then accuses each other of not sacrificing."
"Duoduo asked Xiao Tong to resign and take care of the children, but Xiao Tong refused, right? It's strange! We can't take care of a baby when we are two, why do they think they can when they are alone? After divorce, they can take care of the children.
?Ah? What kind of logic is this?"
"That's right! They don't want to resign and don't want to take care of the children at home. So why are they fighting for the custody of the children? When two people work together, they can't take care of the children. Is it possible that after a divorce, one person can take care of the children well?
Two monks have no water to drink, but one monk has water to drink? If this is the case, then it is really their problem."
Cheng Huanchong explained: "The child is sick, and I heard that the food allergy situation was very serious a while ago. The two of them have to go to work and are busy with work, and they can't take care of the child at all. The nannies are being fired one after another, and the child is still unable to be taken care of."
So, the two kept quarreling, and the quarrel got louder and worse."
Lin Qingzhi analyzed: "This should be the biggest difference between them. The child cannot be relied on by the nanny alone, and one more person must be with the child. Who quits his job and stays at home with the child has become the biggest difference."
"Someone has to sacrifice!" Xue's mother said matter-of-factly: "If you can't rely on a nanny, then you have to take care of yourself. Either the father or the mother. Since you choose to have a child, you have to take care of the child well and take on the responsibilities that should be borne.
I’ve taken it upon myself.”
Cheng Huanchong shrugged helplessly: "Now Brother Duo Duo hopes that Xiao Tong will sacrifice. Xiao Tong refuses, so he hopes that Brother Du Duo will sacrifice. There may be many reasons, but from what I heard, the main difference is this."
"No one is willing?" Ahu frowned and asked, "Then - who will take care of the child now?"
Cheng Huanchong replied: "My mother."
Xue Zhilan couldn't help laughing when he heard this and stopped.
"Today's young people, there is no one who is not making trouble. Look at this pair of enemies, neither of them is willing to give up their work and future, and neither of them is willing to retreat or sacrifice. If I didn't know the inside story, I might still sympathize.
.But I know that Duoduo has a net worth of billions. Oh my God, why is it so confusing!"
Then, he patted his chest.
"When A Heng's mother and I got married, we were all assigned to hospitals by the superiors, which were far away from my husband's family. There were no old people to help. There were no so-called nannies at that time, and the salary was only I had enough to live on, but I really couldn’t afford to hire someone. I could only try my best to change my shifts and try to get an adult at home. I once had to work night shifts for several nights in a row because of my shift changes. Fortunately, I was young at the time, otherwise I really wouldn’t have been able to survive. Occasionally I would work at the door. If you lean on the railing for a few seconds, you will fall asleep immediately. When you really can’t adjust, you will go to work together with your child on your back and take turns taking care of him. Colleagues in the department who are free will help each other and look after each other for a few times. The children fall asleep one by one. I put it in my medicine box and carry it back after get off work."
"When the children are older, they will be sent to nurseries and kindergartens when they need to be sent to them, and they will run away when they need to be. We raised the two children by ourselves while working. At that time, there were no villas, no cars, and even
We have to save a piece of briquettes. The two of us spend a lot of time guarding the children, often not sleeping for a few hours. But watching the children grow up day by day, my heart is full of hope. Today's young people have houses, cars, money, and can hire people.
A nanny can hire workers, but she can’t take care of a child. Haha! Haha!”
Everyone also found it quite ironic.
Ahu muttered: "Don't say billions, even hundreds of thousands, I don't think it's necessary to divorce...it's not like we can't live well."
Cheng Huanchong explained: "Little sister Tong said that she wants to fight for the custody of the child and let her parents come to the imperial capital to help take care of the child in the future. Brother Duoduo doesn't respect her, her ideals and work, and he is not worthy of her nostalgia."
"Duoduo - he is young and promising, and has outstanding abilities." Xue's father analyzed: "His personality is indeed a bit arrogant and chauvinistic. He still prefers the traditional family atmosphere model. I hope that Xiao Tong will be like his mother.
Put family first, put work second, and be a good wife and mother.”
"In the past, Sister Achun could help them take care of the baby." Cheng Tianyuan analyzed: "They just need to hire an extra nanny, and they don't have to worry about it. But without Sister Achun, the child is frail and sick, and it hit them both at once.
collapsed."
"There's nothing little Sister Tong can't do!" Cheng Huanchong shook his head: "She must be very strong and very ambitious. She said, let her stop working, it's better to kill her directly."
Ah Hu shook his head and said: "Xiao Tong, that kid is really very strong. He has been like this since he was a child. He has to be the first in studies. He must be the first. I heard A Min say that once she participated in a competition.
When she won the third prize, she tore up the certificate and said she didn't want it if she wasn't the first place. She had to work hard to get the first place. This is her character, innate!"
Everyone looked at me and I looked at you, and finally fell silent.
Personality is not something that can be changed so easily. After all, everyone has heard the saying, "A state of affairs is easy to change, but a person's nature is hard to change."
Lin Qingzhi smiled slightly and continued: "The more you want to be strong, the stronger you will be. You cannot force anyone to retreat at this time, otherwise it will arouse their aggressiveness."
"Then what should we do?" Cheng Huanchong frowned and asked, "Wait until they regret it later?"
"Regret is for sure!" Father Xue blurted out without even thinking about it: "If they really break up, they will definitely regret it in the future!"
Lin Qingzhi nodded: "If they don't fight, they won't realize their mistakes, and they won't accept that they will fail."