When little Zheng Zheng was taken care of by her mother-in-law, she was chubby, white, and cute.
He loves Zheng Duoduo, but he is too busy. He will hold the baby and play with it for a while, and then go to eat and take a bath.
He also likes to cling to himself, but she doesn't like to hug and cling to her. She feels that being so close to her son often will make him more clingy to others and want others to spend more time with him and coax him.
Therefore, she did not get close to her son very much, and even told her mother-in-law not to stay with the child 24 hours a day, but to let him play by himself as much as possible.
Slowly, the child only wanted to be held by his father and began to stop looking for her to hold him.
She didn't feel anything was wrong. Instead, she felt that the children would not bother her anymore - nothing could be better!
A loving mother often loses her children, so she wants to be a strict, capable and courageous mother, unlike her own mother who spends her days around the stove and her children, but does not get the understanding of her children and husband.
My father looks down on my mother, and my younger brother also imitates his father in looking down on his mother, rolling his eyes and showing annoyance to his mother, and even speaks harshly to his mother from time to time.
She pitied her mother and secretly vowed not to repeat her mother's mistakes and never pamper her children, especially boys who should be responsible and responsible.
Therefore, she said she loved her son, but she secretly vowed to be a strict mother and never spoil her child.
When her mother-in-law was alive, she took very good care of her children, which she secretly felt was not good, but the children were all in the care of the old man and she couldn't help. Moreover, her mother-in-law loved her as if she were her own daughter, so she couldn't say much.
Later, my mother-in-law disappeared, and nannies came to apply for jobs one after another, but she kicked them out one after another.
Those who dote on their children too much and let them do everything they want—don’t!
Those who are preoccupied with work but not with the children—don’t!
Submissive, not confident, she does whatever she says - no!
You don’t want to sit next to your child every day, circle around your child, or be lazy in any kind of work!
If you don’t have a sense of responsibility, don’t speak confidently enough, or are perfunctory – don’t do it!
Relying on her beauty, she dresses up coquettishly every day and wildly dreams of hooking up with Zheng Duoduo on the street - let alone!
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As a result, the nannies left one by one, and even the agency boss was frightened and did not dare to take her order, saying that it was too difficult to make money from her.
Zheng Duoduo was also very angry, saying that her child got sick every now and then, and she was not familiar with one nanny yet, so she immediately changed her to another one, without even a chance to adapt. She obviously couldn't take care of her, so why did she need to force her too much?
Yes, she is unable to take care of the baby, but that doesn't mean that she has to pay for it and have to accept unsatisfactory babysitting services.
Every time the child falls ill, Zheng Duoduo and she have to take turns taking leave and staying with the baby in the hospital.
During the epidemic, there was turmoil everywhere, and hospital employees were extremely nervous. No entry was allowed at any door without a 24-hour negative nucleic acid test report.
Zheng Duoduo was afraid that she might be infected, so she took the initiative to go to the hospital to accompany her son every time, and occasionally asked an assistant or assistant to help.
Most of the time, she could go to get off work normally and didn't even have to go to the hospital. But as her son's condition worsened, Zheng Duoduo became increasingly dissatisfied.
He said that if you want to hire a nanny, you should be aware that the nanny cannot be compared with your own family, because she works for money and does not take care of the children out of love and consideration for the children.
He also said that if she was always dissatisfied with the nanny, then she might as well resign temporarily and stay at home to take care of the children.
This sentence suddenly ignited the fear and anger in her heart!
What she cares about most is her career, what she cares most about is not being able to put her talents to use, and what she fears most is being a housewife.
Even if the current term "housewife" is changed to "full-time wife", its connotation has not changed due to its name change. It is still the same housewife as before, and it still revolves around the family and children.
This is what she fears the most!
Zheng Duoduo also became angry, saying that he had too many burdens behind him, saying that Sister Ling trusted him so much, his uncle valued him so much, and put such a large group in his hands, and he could not live up to their expectations, etc.
After all, it is just that he cannot resign. If he could, he would have quit his job long ago to take care of his son.
If he can't, she can?
At that moment, she also broke out and had a fierce argument with him.
The child cried, cried very frightenedly, trembled and looked for his father to hold him.
Zheng Duoduo picked up his son and went upstairs to coax him.
She was also angry and didn't want to face such a husband and family, so she packed her things and went out angrily.
Zheng Duoduo ignored her and stayed in the house with his son.
There is no shortage of good hotels or inns in the emperor. After walking out for a while, she found a four-star hotel and checked in without saying a word.
A few days later, his tone softened and he coaxed her to go back.
She made it clear that as long as his proposal remained unchanged, she could never compromise.
Zheng Duoduo asked her back, saying that even if he didn't want stock dividends, his salary and subsidy income alone would be several million or tens of millions a year. And she could only earn two or three hundred thousand a year, which was not even a fraction of what he earned.
, don’t let her compromise, let anyone compromise.
He also said that the child was their son and no one else's. Even if it was for the sake of the child, wouldn't it be okay?
She got angry and asked why she had to sacrifice her career for her son.
Zheng Duoduo said that this is a job, not a career.
She cried and said loudly that she needed to work, that she liked working and the feeling of working her way up step by step.
Zheng Duoduo was quiet for a few seconds and hung up the call.
She is very worried and scared, especially afraid that once she quits her job and takes care of her children at home, she will never be able to leave her family and be separated from the word "full-time housewife" for the rest of her life.
How many powerful career women were originally very beautiful and beautiful, but once they got married and had children, they quit their jobs to raise and take care of their children, and they became an unkempt housewife who could only hang around her children and wander around in the kitchen.
When the first child is ready to go to kindergarten, your husband will persuade you to have a second child since he has already quit his job anyway. When the second child is older, you will feel relaxed and go to work if you want.
According to Zheng Duoduo's personality and family environment, he will pursue a second child or even a third child.
But she is no longer young!
Spend two more years on the eldest child, then prepare for pregnancy and have a second child, and then take care of the child for a few more years until he goes to elementary school. It will take at least six or seven years.
She will be nearly forty years old by then and has been out of the workforce for seven or eight years. No matter how highly educated and capable she is - which company would want a new employee in her forties!
She is afraid, she is really afraid!
Once she can't bear it and gives up, it means she may end up in such a pitiful state.
She didn't want to, not at all.
Therefore, she made it clear that she would rather get divorced than leave her job!