Chapter 1122 The feeling of powerlessness is heavy
Before the potted plants were watered, the phone rang!
This mobile phone is a new type of color screen mobile phone. I heard that it is one of the most advanced mobile phones at present. It is two or three times smaller than the previous big brother. It is so small that you can't even see it in your pocket.
He has always been simple and would not buy new things as long as they were usable and not broken.
Such an expensive and fancy thing was bought by Xue Ling as a birthday present for him.
None of the elders in the family celebrate their birthdays. Even if it is their birthday, they pretend not to know. As a junior, he will not celebrate his birthday.
But Xue Ling would remember it no matter how busy he was, and would secretly buy a gift and secretly give it to him when he got home.
On his birthday the year before last, she gave him a car. Last year, she specially asked someone to buy an imported high-end belt as a gift for him. This year, it’s this color-screen mobile phone.
With such a considerate and understanding wife, he never lacks anything.
He opened the screen and immediately connected, "Hello? Who is this?"
——Brother, it’s me! I have friends here who are going to have a dinner together, so I’ll join them. If it’s too late tonight, just ask your parents to arrange for Xiaohan to sleep, and I’ll pick her up tomorrow morning.
Cheng Tianyuan frowned when he heard this and couldn't help lowering his voice: "Don't get drunk again! Do you know how dangerous it is to drink and drive? How many times have I told you, don't drive after drinking! You hit the road last time
I was fined five hundred yuan for the fence next to me, do you remember?!"
Others might learn from the experience, but Cheng Tianfang, who is in his thirties, has always tried and tested and is not afraid at all.
——It just swayed a bit and accidentally hit me. This time I went with my friends and let them drive, so it would be fine if I didn’t drive. How can we talk about business without drinking? I’ll try to drink as little as possible.
Cheng Tianyuan said in a deep voice: "Who said you have to drink to discuss business?! Your eldest brother and I have been doing business in the imperial capital for more than ten years. When did I need to drink to discuss business?! Cheng Tianfang! You don't take care of your home all day long, just follow others' example.
what kind of business?!
——A Heng throws 5,000 yuan to me every month, how can I use it as capital? If a woman wants to be truly independent, she must have financial power. It is better to rely on yourself than to rely on a man! I recently sold two stores
, I made a full six or seven times. I want to invest this money with my friends in a large Internet cafe to earn some stable income.
Cheng Tianyuan rubbed his temples and whispered: "You invested money randomly, and except for those few stores, you didn't make any money at all. Not only did you not make any money, you also lost millions! You waste money like that, A Heng can take advantage of it."
Are all the economic rights given to you? For the sake of money, you ignore Xiaohan all day long and wander around outside. You don't care about Aheng when he's not there. How can you be like a family like this?"
——If he doesn’t go home and doesn’t love this family, what else will I love? I’ve thought about it, Xue Heng is not the only man in this world! I am only in my thirties now, and I still have a lot of opportunities in my life.
I want to start a new business and impress him and everyone!
Cheng Tianyuan sighed helplessly and said: "Are you sure you have read a book? Even the ancients more than two thousand years ago knew that you should 'cultivate yourself, manage your family and govern the country'. If your own home is in a mess, what kind of career do you still want to start? You
Now it's putting the cart before the horse, you know? Xiaohan is still young now, so your focus must be on your family first. When your children are older, you can shift your focus to your career. A Heng ignores the family, and you don't either.
Have you ever thought about Xiaohan?"
——Brother, you can’t make a career whenever you want. This era is developing too fast. I stayed at home for two years and immediately found myself out of touch. I can’t wait any longer, otherwise I will lose too much.
What a precious opportunity. When the opportunity comes, it is fleeting and I must seize it. You and your parents will take care of the child, so I don’t have to worry at all.
Cheng Tianyuan couldn't help but roll his eyes and said in a deep voice: "What about her education? Children are not just as simple as eating and sleeping well. If it is a little one, then just feed him enough. She is more than three years old now and has her own ideas and
It’s time for her values and worldview to begin to form. You and Aheng should spend more time with her, otherwise the child will have a bad temper in the future."
——He, Xue Heng, ignores his family and doesn’t want his wife and children. He doesn’t sacrifice his working time for his children, so why should I? The children are not mine alone! He ignores his children, and I don’t want to either!
Cheng Tianyuan frowned and said: "If he doesn't pay attention, you should pay attention even more. Ah Fang, I have been holding these words in my heart for a long time. With elders here, I can't say too much. If you continue to make trouble like this, something big will happen sooner or later."
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——What big thing can happen? The worst is divorce! This is how couples are, if they can get along, they can get along, and if they can’t get along, they should divorce. I have said that Xue Heng is not a good man in this world, let alone that he is not that good! Big brother
, stop nagging, I have my own life plan, I know how to deal with things. That's it, my friend is here to urge me! Bye!
The next moment, the other party hung up.
Cheng Tianyuan felt weak when he heard the "beep" sound.
This little sister wants to make trouble every day. As she gets older, she becomes more stubborn. She used to listen to advice, but now she doesn't pay attention at all.
Since the last time Ah Huan borrowed money, she refused no matter what she said. She even quarreled with Ah Heng, which made Uncle Zhilan and Aunt Zhilan so disappointed that they simply ignored the couple.
Later, she lost millions, and Ah Heng had a big fight with her. Uncle Zhilan and Aunt Zhilan simply gave the child back to themselves, and they left the imperial capital to travel around.
Although the elders didn't say anything, everyone knew that the elders were too disappointed with them and didn't want to stay here. They looked upset and tired.
At this time, slight footsteps came from behind.
Cheng Tianyuan turned around and saw Xue Ling put on her pajamas. Apparently she had been back for a while, and she probably heard what he said to persuade A Fang.
He smiled helplessly and sighed: "I didn't get a good education when I was a kid, so I'm just sad!"
My parents didn't have the concept of educating their children before, and they only pampered and pampered their daughter. As a result, they raised her badly.
As you grow up, even if you can change for a while, once your will is not firm, you will quickly return to your true nature.
Xue Ling also smiled helplessly, walked forward and leaned on his arm.
"These days, I can see that you have been secretly worried about them. But after all, they are adults and have their own ideas and thoughts. We cannot change them at will."
Cheng Tianyuan frowned and whispered: "From my sister, I understand a truth very deeply. In the stage when children are forming their world view and values, if their parents and elders do not help them establish correct concepts, the children will definitely take more detours in society in the future.
.Unless he is a child with excellent self-control and strong self-learning ability, sooner or later he will go astray or do something wrong."
My sister has gone through many detours, but she rarely regrets and always thinks she is right.
The key is that she has little self-control, and her thoughts are chaotic. She is easily affected by the surrounding environment, and her ability to learn and improve herself is not good. She is blindly confident and thinks that what she thinks is right.
How can such a person have a smooth life?
Xue Ling sighed quietly and whispered: "We can't control that much. Including our children, as they grow older and the environment changes, they will also have their own ideas. Let's just do our best."
Cheng Tianyuan looked around at the tall buildings and saw the setting sun and the glow filling the sky. He didn't know what to say for a moment, and his heart was filled with a feeling of powerlessness and heaviness.
Xue Ling thought for a while and finally said: "A Heng plans to get a divorce."