When Cheng Tianyuan returned to the hotel room, it was already past twelve o'clock.
The door to the bathroom opened, and Xue Ling came out covered in steam. It was obvious that she had just come back from taking a shower.
She raised her eyebrows and asked, "Where have you been?"
She hasn't returned to the group in the past few days, and there are a lot of documents that she needs to read before they can be sent out. In addition, she will not be in the imperial capital for the next three or four days, so she simply went through all the documents on the table with all her strength.
She was very tired these past few days and her energy was a little low, but she didn't dare to rest. Except for ten minutes of dinner, she didn't dare to waste any other time. She didn't come back until after eleven o'clock.
I thought my husband would have gone to bed, but the room was empty.
"Have you gone to chat with Ahu? You have to be on the road all day tomorrow, and it's not enough for you to chat?"
Cheng Tianyuan smiled bitterly and shook his head, closed the door, and went to the bathroom to wash his hands.
"I don't know if it's because I'm getting old, but now I find that I can't always talk to Ahu. I had this feeling when I returned to Rongcheng last time. I thought it was a misunderstanding at first, but unexpectedly these two
The more you come into contact with the sky, the more you feel this way.”
Xue Ling wiped her hair and asked: "What's wrong? It's not surprising! You have had your own family life, your own business track, your own circle in the past ten years. Your ideas are constantly changing, and your worldview and values have also changed accordingly.
.No matter how good the conversation was in the past, with the change of ideas, it is still not as good as before."
Everyone is changing, just more or less. The two of them used to be together every day, they had roughly the same ideas, so naturally they talked about everything.
Now our respective circles have changed, and our concepts have gradually changed, and they definitely cannot be compared to before.
Cheng Tianyuan took off his down jacket and boots and whispered: "Not only is he not as good as before, but I also have an urge in my heart to persuade him and make him listen to me - because I feel that he seems to have to do many things well now...not so well.
Especially when it comes to children’s education.”
Then, he explained to Xue Ling how he went out to find Xiao Huzi tonight.
"He is no longer a three or four-year-old child. He did something wrong. He just said a few words lightly, and he said it in a half-joking tone. He was not punished in any way, and he did not apologize. He only said he was hungry, and then Ahu said
I felt so distressed that I took him to eat noodles, and then nothing happened."
Xue Ling's wiping movements stopped and she couldn't help but mutter: "Ahu... why do you spoil your child so much!"
Occasionally when chatting with Wang Qing on the phone, she would complain that Ahu doted on his daughter and son too much and was always worried that his children would be spoiled by him in the future.
Xue Ling thought that it was because Ahu was old that he gave birth to such a pair of boys and girls. He knew how to pamper her, but he didn't expect that even such a thing could be ignored. What would the child look like in the future - really
Very suspenseful!
I took the money and went out to play, and played all afternoon until midnight. I was so addicted to the game that I even skipped dinner.
It may seem that the problem is not big, but in fact the underlying problem is quite big.
"First, the child has no sense of responsibility. He goes out and doesn't know that his parents will worry if he goes out for too long. In a strange city, a strange Internet cafe, he stayed in a strange Internet cafe until midnight without thinking of coming back. Second, he did something wrong.
However, he had no idea where and how big his mistake was. When my father found me, he not only showed no apology or acknowledgment of his mistake, but even playfully said he didn't have dinner."
Cheng Tianyuan shook his head and smiled bitterly: "The key is that Ahu didn't realize that his son was wrong at all! I originally wanted to persuade him, but little Huzi was present, so I couldn't say much. His own father couldn't bear to scold him, so I
It’s not good for this godfather to act like a substitute.”
Because of this, he would rather not speak and sit quietly to check the text messages on his phone.
Xue Ling sighed: "There is no way, the child is his, and his education methods and methods determine most of his child's life. We can give suggestions, but we cannot blindly believe that our educational philosophy is right. Unless it takes another seven years
Over the past eight years, or even ten years, our children have become very good. They can be the most powerful proof."
It was the first time for them to become parents, and there was no pre-job training, or a certificate for passing the exam, so they all had to slowly explore on their own.
Generally speaking, their four children are independent and eager to learn, but they still have a lot of shortcomings.
Parents can only do their best, try to correct their children's mistakes, guide them to make progress every day, and establish a good worldview and values. The rest depends on their own hard work and one percent luck.
As for who is right and who is wrong in teaching children, it all depends on what the future holds.
Cheng Tianyuan fell tiredly on the big bed and murmured lazily: "I'm so tired..."
He was really tired after staying vigil at the funeral home for two consecutive nights. Even though there was heating there, his hands and feet were often frozen and he could hardly move.
Xue Ling sniffed and couldn't help but ask: "Did you eat something? If you haven't digested it yet, just wait a while before going to bed."
Lying down or sleeping just after eating is very harmful to the gastrointestinal tract.
"I only had a little food to fill my stomach with the father and son, and some soup." Cheng Tianyuan explained: "It's too late, and I'm very sleepy, so I don't dare to eat too much."
Xue Ling reminded: "Go brush your teeth and wash your face first."
Cheng Tianyuan climbed up with difficulty, went to the bathroom to brush his teeth, and mumbled in a vague tone: "I only have two cavities at the moment. Just now Ahu said that he had eight teeth filled and three more extracted. I couldn't help but tease him.
, Auntie’s teeth are more complete and complete than his.”
"No way? Aren't you just fifty? Are the teeth in your mouth so miserable?" Xue Ling asked: "Is there something wrong with his lifestyle?"
Cheng Tianyuan explained: "He said that now he is drunk now, and he can eat when he wants and drink when he wants. When we returned to Chengjia Village, his belly was about this big, but now it is round, tall and big. This
He always wore too much clothes for two days, so you didn’t see clearly. Now it feels like a woman’s pregnancy for ten months!”
"Pfft!" Xue Ling secretly felt funny and said: "That won't work... Why did Wang Qing let him do whatever he wanted? Her concept of health care is quite good. After all, she has read a lot and read a lot of books, so naturally she doesn't understand the truth.
few."
"This is a private matter between their husband and wife. It's not my place to ask." Cheng Tianyuan said, "Wang Qingtie will definitely sit with you tomorrow. You can remind her appropriately on the way."
Ahu is older than them all, he is already in his fifties now.
In the past, his whole body was covered with hard muscles, but now he is covered in fat and has a swollen belly. His body is getting worse day by day, and if he doesn't take care carefully, diseases will soon catch up with him.
Xue Ling nodded and yawned greatly.
"Okay, I will remind her. By the way, have your luggage been packed?"
Cheng Tianyuan replied: "Everything is fine. Just go and check again tomorrow morning."
"Okay." Xue Ling raised his neck tiredly, thumped his neck, and whispered: "Catch up on some sleep tonight, sleep later tomorrow, and have lunch early before setting off."
Cheng Tianyuan rubbed his hands, came over to rub her neck, and said with emotion: "It's so cold outside tonight!"
"Ten degrees below zero." Xue Ling shook his head: "Is it not cold? I drove my car back downstairs, and there was already a layer of ice outside."
The two of them had been busy for several days. They couldn't eat well and couldn't sleep well. They were tired and uncomfortable.
Almost as soon as it touched the edge of the pillow, I fell asleep quickly.