Cheng Tianyuan told her before that on the day Shan You left, Xiao Huzi came late.
He smelled of alcohol, looked flustered, and even couldn't help but say sorry to Shan You.
That night, Xiaohuzi's team attended the celebration, and Shanyou also attended.
A group of young people drank, became drunk, lost their sense of proportion, and eventually made a mistake.
She thought that the two of them must have made a mistake while drunk, and didn't think too much about it.
It wasn't until Xiao Huzi said earlier that Shan You took the initiative to send him a message and said he missed him that Xue Ling couldn't help but guess that Shan You didn't have no feelings for Xiao Huzi.
"Sister Chen, even if she has feelings, they are probably not deep...otherwise, why would Youyou escape from the imperial capital and stay in the South Island without going back?"
Chen Shuiyu shook his head and sighed helplessly: "Young people have many problems, and they love to engage in whatever lovemaking they like.
As time goes by, and you play with firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea a lot, you will realize that it is all the bitterness of life and how can the sweetness of love come from it.
It's enough if you like it a little bit, don't expect too much."
In her opinion, no matter how deep the relationship is, no matter how sweet the love is, sooner or later it will turn into chicken feathers all over the floor under the daily tossing of marriage.
"Take me as an example.
Sangoe and I grew up together as childhood sweethearts and have a very close relationship.
But when you reach the age of marriage, your family members simply look down on each other. They don't care how deep your love is, and they just shake their heads and refuse.
We eloped all over the world, working and doing business, and we were very happy at first. But as time went by, we lived like this every day, and there was nothing left except making money to survive."
"Over the years, I have been very popular with his family, and I almost lost my life.
But even if he no longer interacts with his family, many people still come to him secretly.
He always dared not let me know, but I was still angry with him for saying one thing and doing another.
If it were in the past, I would have definitely divorced him hundreds of times! Really!"
"No matter how deep the relationship is, once it is worn away by time, nothing will be left.
Now we have the relationship of an old husband and wife as companions.
I would help him, and he would help me, and we would live together as companions, with someone to talk to.
If you feel pain or illness, there is someone who knows and can help you get a glass of water and some medicine.
There is no love, only partnership."
Speaking of this, Chen Shuiyu smiled bitterly.
"No matter how good the relationship is, it will fade away at some point! If you have a good feeling, let's live it for a while while you are young. When the children grow up and the old man gets old, you will be so busy every day that there will be no strong feelings!"
Xue Ling was speechless for a moment and couldn't find any words to refute.
Chen Shuiyu held her hand, as if teasing and admiring her.
"Ling Ling, how many women in the world can be as happy as you?
ah?
I'll tell you the truth! Too little, too little! It's just that - rare! Your natal family is rich, your in-laws love you, and your husband loves you even more.
You have many children, and your husband supports your career and is even willing to hide behind your back to take care of your children and take care of the family.
How many men in the world are like him?
Very little! Look at you, your career is so good, your husband is not jealous or angry, he still loves you and loves you like a treasure! You, because you are affectionate and loving yourself, and you are not lacking in the nourishment of love, so you
I just like to talk about my feelings."
Xue Ling smiled bitterly when he heard this: "Maybe you are right."
What the other party said is not completely unreasonable.
People like to look at problems from their own perspective. Even at an age when she is about to realize her destiny, she is still prone to making such mistakes.
She and her husband Qin Se and Ming were very much in love, so she instinctively thought that Xiao Huzi and Shan You had to have a deep relationship before they could get married together.
"But, Sister Chen, I have to remind you.
Shanyou is very simple, and Xiaohuzi is also inexperienced in the world.
At their age, they cannot see as clearly as we do, let alone understand what we say.
In other words, they value emotion and freedom more than anything else."
In all Xiao Huzi's words, there was not a single suggestion of "marriage", and he even stated many times that he must not get married.
If a pair of half-year-old children who don't love each other are forcefully brought together, there will definitely be many problems in the future.
But Chen Shuiyu couldn't listen and asked: "Ahu said that, what about Wang Qing?
Does she also agree with letting them get married?"
"...It should be consistent with Ahu."
Xue Ling replied.
Chen Shuiyu became happy and said: "That's good, that's good! Wang Qing is an intellectual, a bit aloof, but has a very good temper and is kind to others.
I've had a lot of contact with her, and I really like her personality.
She is a kind person, even if she quarrels, she is always kind and calm.
A mother-in-law like her would never treat her daughter-in-law harshly."
Xue Ling: "..."!!! Why has it gone so far! Chen Shuiyu continued to say excitedly: "Wang Qing is still very young, much younger than me.
Xiao Huzi is their only son and the eldest son, so they can definitely help take care of the child.
I'm a bit older now, and I'm not as energetic as before.
After the child is born, Shan Yue and I will probably not be able to help with the care.
Fortunately, the Ahu family's finances are pretty good and they will hire a nanny to help with the housework. Wang Qing will be able to spare his time to help take care of the children."
Xue Ling was speechless and rubbed his temples.
"Sister Chen, I forgot to tell you, Brother Shanyue does not approve of their marriage."
Chen Shuiyu didn't care at all: "That's because he didn't think clearly.
It's okay. When we go out in a while, I will talk to him and analyze it clearly for him.
He loves his daughter more than his own life.
As long as we have a good life, he won't say anything, so there's nothing to object to!"
Xue Ling smiled bitterly to himself, not daring to say that Xiao Huzi disagreed.
"Sister Chen, although we are parents, we are also elders.
But after all, we are not the protagonists of this matter, so we cannot have the final say in everything.
The protagonists of this incident are Youyou and Xiao Huzi.
It mainly depends on their own opinions.”
Chen Shuiyu stood up quickly and said, "I'll go in and talk to her."
After saying this, she rushed in furiously.
Xue Ling breathed a sigh of relief and hurriedly followed.
I heard Shan You hesitate and whisper: "Mom... will this happen... I didn't think about it that much."
"fool!"
Chen Shuiyu said solemnly: "Since you want to leave a child, you have to get married.
If you don't get married, are you going to be an unwed mother?
Your father and I definitely disagree! Are you willing to let your child be born without a father?
Imagine it, can you accept it?"
"cannot."
Shan You thought for a while and whispered: "The child... still needs his father."
She grew up with the love and care of her parents, and she couldn't accept that the child was missing the love and care of one parent.
Chen Shuiyu smiled and clapped: "Okay! In this case, then get ready to get married."