Liu Xiaoyu on the side, half hunched at the waist, echoed: "They are all debt collectors! When I gave birth to them, I was happy and thought that having more children would be a blessing. Who would have thought that when you get older, you will realize that having many children does not necessarily mean that you will be blessed, but you may also have more children."
disaster."
Everyone's expressions changed slightly, and they didn't know how to appease them.
Previously, the pig farm had to be closed down in a hurry because their two sons and daughter-in-law were making too much noise.
Later, I heard that when they separated, they started fighting so much that Liu Xiaoyu was so angry that she was sent to the hospital.
As soon as he heard it, he knew that the situation was not getting better, and he didn't dare to ask any more questions.
Unexpectedly, Liu Xiaoyu and his old wife had not seen their good friends for many years, and they couldn't help complaining and talking to each other.
"When daughters are married off, in our case the daughter is given a small dowry. The family's property and money go to the son, and the son also relies on the son to provide for himself in old age.
When our three daughters got married, we did not ask each other for any gift, but gave us a dowry of 50,000 yuan each.
At first, it was clearly agreed that each person would have a share of the dowry, but when they saw that their son had a house, a car and money, they kept going home and making trouble."
"At first, the three daughters teamed up to make a fuss. I secretly gave them some money to keep them from making a fuss, lest the two sisters-in-law at home would be angry.
Who would have thought that later the three sons-in-law also joined forces to make trouble! They clamored that they would be able to provide for us two in the future, and said that our daughter also had the right to inherit property, so they had to make a fuss about re-separating the family."
“When our two sons found out, they started to quarrel with them, and the daughters-in-law refused. They had several quarrels, and even forced us to go to some court to resolve the matter.
I was so angry that I picked up the broom and chased them one after another."
"The eldest son is fighting with the younger son, and their wives are not economical. They add fuel to the fire and act like a troublemaker! The eldest son complains that we love his younger brother, and always suspects that we secretly give more to his younger brother.
The younger son always complains that we love the eldest son and grandson, and he doesn't get as much as his elder brother.
We are not human beings inside and out, and we have suffered enough from the plywood anger!"
"Daughters quarrel with their sons, the eldest son quarrels with the younger son, and the daughters-in-law regard each other as enemies.
Several sons-in-law also dislike each other and always secretly blame us for favoring sons over daughters.
It's okay if they don't get together. When they get together, everyone gets a bad look and either makes a fuss or makes a fuss.
We are all sinners in front of them, not our parents!"
"If I had known this, it would have been better not to separate our families in the first place.
We continue to raise pigs to make money, and they can do whatever they like. The money is earned by us and has nothing to do with them.
Why did you share my money and house, and then blame us for not sharing it equally?
They are all white-eyed wolves! They are all here to collect debts!"
After everyone heard this, they didn't know how to comfort them.
Liu Xiaoyu shook his head and said solemnly, "When they separated, I felt it was not appropriate. I discussed with the ladies that since we are getting older, I'm afraid we won't be able to make much money in the future, so we have to leave a share for ourselves.
Fortunately, I thought so at the time, otherwise I would not know how to live my life now! They all only think about our money and houses, and have no filial piety at all!"
Chen Min frowned when he heard this and couldn't help but interject: "That's too much..." "It's more than too much!"
Cheng Tianyuan cursed in a deep voice: "Everyone has no conscience!"
Liu Xiaoyu's eyes were slightly red and she said gruffly: "No matter how hard it was to raise them in the past, I didn't dare to feel it was hard, but in their eyes and hearts, it was worthless, and there was a lot of dissatisfaction hidden in their hearts.
Now they are all bigger and have stronger wings, and each one is criticizing me for being only interested in making money and not caring about them or loving them at all.
I scolded them for having no conscience. Without me working hard outside to make money, caring for them and loving them at home, the whole family could survive drinking the northwest wind! What a bastard!"
"Calm down your anger."
Jinhua advised in a low voice: "Don't make yourself angry.
If you are sick, the first person who suffers is you, and the second person who suffers is me."
Cheng Tianyuan's eyes darkened slightly and he said warmly: "You were right to leave a share for yourself when we separated. At least you will have a worry-free life and don't have to ask for money from them."
"You can't get it."
Jinhua sighed deeply: "We are all waiting to share the old villa we live in and the money we have left.
Except for the eldest daughter who visits us every few days to buy some food, drink or toiletries, the others take their children to us to pay New Year greetings and get red envelopes during the New Year, and then they are nowhere to be seen all year round.”
Xue Ling saw that their clothes were all rather old, and the cloth shoes on their feet even had patches. He couldn't help but ask, "Are you doing well financially?"
"OK."
Liu Xiaoyu whispered: "Back then, I hid a sum of money in the bank until my death date. Now I use the interest at the end of every year to spend it.
We are all people who have lived through hard times, and we don’t dare to spend money frivolously. We should save money when we can.”
"Don't be too economical."
Cheng Tianyuan frowned and said: "Try to make your daily life as comfortable as possible. Buy what you need to buy, use what you need to use, and don't skimp on food."
"yes!"
Xue Ling couldn't help but said: "Money is earned and spent happily and comfortably, not saved to become a reason for your children to quarrel and not be filial to you."
Liu Xiaoyu smiled helplessly and whispered: "Sister-in-law is right.
It's just...the two of them have a lot of problems, and they can't eat many things, even if they want to eat a lot of food and fish."
Jinhua's eyes turned red, "I'm not short of money.
I have lived and worked hard for most of my life, but I never expected that when I get old, I will still have to be angry with my children..." "Sister-in-law, don't be sad."
Xue Ling reassured: "You don't need them to help you up and take care of you yet, so don't pay attention to them.
If you feel unwell, take out the money and hire a nanny to take care of you."
"Um."
Jinhua nodded: "I think so too.
When you are old, your children don’t care about you, but you have to care about yourself.”
Chen Min thought for a while and asked in a low voice: "Do you need someone to persuade your children?"
"No need."
Liu Xiaoyu shook his head: "They are not fools, they all understand the truth, but if they can't do it, it's useless to persuade them.
He is already in his thirties, not a three-year-old child.
It's up to them whether they want to be filial or not. They have to act according to their conscience. They also have children and will be their parents in the future.
How they treat us will be the same for their children in the future.
God’s way is reincarnation!”
The golden flower shed tears and sobbed: "Who doesn't want their children to be filial and enjoy the blessings of their children and grandchildren?
I couldn't help but laugh when I saw my granddaughter and grandson, but they didn't even kiss us.
My daughter-in-law doesn’t allow them to have contact with us.”
"Then why don't you just follow what the ancients did."
Cheng Tianyuan said: "Don't they all care about the remaining property around you?
Simply find them and tell which one is the most filial to whom.
Naturally, they will try their best to treat you old people well."
"This..." Jinhua asked in surprise: "Is this possible?"