Xue Ling and Cheng Tianyuan sat together, raising their heads from time to time to greet the guests next to them and looking around.
"Daughter-in-law, look over there."
Cheng Tianyuan lowered his voice: "Tietou looks a little cold, but he is very considerate to others.
I just saw him peeling shrimp shells for Xiaoxin.
Look, I'm still helping her spoon soup."
Xue Ling looked over and smiled.
"Tietou loves Xiaoxin very much. Even after so many years, he still loves her very much.
Thoughtful men are popular, and girls nowadays are looking for considerate boys.
Two days ago, cousin Xue Cong told me that her daughter doesn’t have any big requirements for a blind date, she only hopes that the conditions are similar to hers and that she is considerate of her character and temper, and the rest can be discussed easily."
Forehead?
Cheng Tianyuan asked funnyly: "Aren't these two requirements not high?"
Her daughter has good abilities, good looks, a better family background, and an excellent job. It is really rare to find a young man who matches her - it is very difficult to find! In his opinion, no one can meet the first condition.
As for whether the second condition is considerate or not, it should not be difficult to achieve.
Xue Ling shook his head: "Isn't it difficult?
It’s hard to find a considerate man, especially today’s boys.”
After hearing this, Cheng Tianyuan turned to look at his three sons on the other side.
"Our boss should be someone who cares about his wife.
It's probably impossible for the second child... The third child should be okay, but it's definitely not as good as his eldest brother. It's far behind."
Xue Ling chuckled: "I can't guess.
Once some people become husbands, they will unknowingly think about their wives and take good care of them."
Shan You beside him heard the general idea and couldn't help but interrupt.
"Some people will never be able to figure it out in their lifetime, such as Xiao Huzi.
Even if someone taught him step by step, he would not be considerate.
He rarely considers other people when he does anything, even me and his son."
Xue Ling's eyes darkened slightly and he whispered: "Yuyou, Xiao Huzi has been a child that has been cared for by the family since he was a child. He will definitely not be very considerate of you.
Give him some time and let him learn slowly."
"He can't learn."
Shan You sighed lowly and paused with the chopsticks in his hand, "Auntie, it's not that I don't give him time.
Even if I gave him a lifetime, he probably wouldn't be able to learn.
Did you know that he came home twice last month?
One time, Xiaohu had a fever. After I called him more than a dozen times, he finally came over and took a few glances.
He couldn't do anything to help, so he just stood and waited and watched.
The second time, he came home lazily after I made numerous urging calls.
I was feeling unwell and depressed, and he never cared about me, let alone showed any consideration."
Xue Ling couldn't help but look at the little tiger who was chatting and eating happily with Xue Heng, and then looked at the little guy sleeping soundly beside him.
"He is still too young after all."
When Shan You mentioned the emotional point, his eyes turned red without realizing it.
"Auntie, sometimes I... really want to divorce him."
Xue Ling was slightly stunned, then said: "You are all still young, and you are easily impulsive when doing things or thinking about things.
Yoyo, Little Tiger is still too young, please be sure to think about him when considering this issue."
Shan You even swallowed: "I...have been feeling very uncomfortable recently, and I am always in a very low mood.
Little Huzi is heartless. Apart from buying me gifts and giving me some inappropriate gadgets, he doesn't know how to care about me at all."
Xue Ling thought for a while and asked: "Are you feeling uncomfortable somewhere?
Why are you feeling down?"
Shan You lowered his voice: "...I don't know either.
I feel depressed and in a bad mood... My life seems to have no goal, everything revolves around my child. Now it seems that except for hoping that he will grow up healthily soon, my mind is empty and there is nothing.
"
Xue Ling immediately heard what the problem was.
"Yuyou, you may have to find something to do, otherwise you will get sick sooner or later if you stay bored at home all day."
In order to give birth to Xiaohu, she gave up her nascent online singing career and became a full-time housewife.
The cleaning work and meals in the villa are taken care of by the nanny, and the nanny helps take care of the children. Apart from spending time with the children, she has nothing else to do.
If a person is too busy, he or she will become sick from exhaustion; if a person is too idle, he or she will become flustered or even get sick from panic.
Shanyou's ability to withstand psychological stress is worse than that of ordinary people, and he needs to be relieved in time to avoid a recurrence of his old illness.
"I...but what can I do?"
Shan You's eyes were red and he whispered: "Auntie, my diploma is low. I didn't graduate from a technical secondary school that year... Besides, I can't pick, I can't carry, and I can't do rough work."
In big cities like the Imperial Capital, the corporate competition culture is very fierce, and people with low diplomas can generally only find manual jobs.
The family hired a nanny to do the work, but she went out to find menial jobs. If word spread, not only would she be scolded, but she would also be treated as a joke.
But she can't even do menial work! She was raised by her parents and coaxed her since she was a child. She is not very good at housework because she has never had to do it.
She has a weak body and weak temperament, and cannot bear the pain of doing rough work.
Xue Ling shook his head: "How can I be willing to let you do rough work! Even if you wanted to, Xiao Huzi wouldn't agree.
What I mean is that you continue to develop your talents, your hobbies, and continue to sing online."
Shan You's eyes lit up when he heard this, but he quickly hesitated.
"But...my parents are always worried that the Internet is too chaotic...and they say that girls, especially girls who are already married, should not be exposed to the public and perform.
They said that the money is not enough, and there is no need to make that kind of money."
Xue Ling couldn't help but laugh: "What do they think of online entertainment activities?
It’s all nonsense! In fact, we older generations don’t really understand Internet culture.
You should popularize it appropriately and introduce this emerging culture to them."
Shan You nodded and asked tentatively: "Auntie, you also think it would be good for me to sing online again, right?"
"Of course!"
Xue Ling said: "I support it very much! You don't have to travel around, you can still work at home, you just need to be equipped with the corresponding equipment at home.
This way, you can work and take care of your kids at the same time, without having to be away from home for long periods of time during the day or night.
The little tiger is busy and cannot be home for three or two days. You have to stay at home. This can better protect the little tiger and is good for the growth of the child.
Secondly, you must also have your own career pursuits.
Little Tiger is still young now, but he will grow up in the future and leave you to be independent. Then you will be even more lonely and depressed.
Only when one pursues his career and has something to rest his spirit on can he live happily."
"Then I... will discuss it with Xiao Huzi later."
Shan You smiled.
Xue Ling nodded: "Yes.
No matter what happens, try to discuss as much as possible, seek each other’s opinions, and learn from each other’s strengths.”
"Um."
Shan You sincerely responded: "Thank you, auntie!"