Xue Ling took a nap in the air. Unexpectedly, he was woken up by Xue Heng's phone call after less than half an hour of sleep.
She asked sleepily: "What's the matter?"
"Are you taking a nap?"
Xue Heng couldn't help but said in a sour tone: "I'm not fifty yet, just like other people who retire, just sleep until you wake up naturally in the morning, and you can still take a nap - I'm so jealous!"
Xue Ling smiled softly and said: "You can quit if you want! Anyway, with the group's shares, you will still be a billionaire even if you are idle.
Then you can sleep twenty hours a day if you want."
"Forget it."
Xue Heng couldn't help but sigh: "I still have to fight for Xiaohan for a few more years.
The more I earn, the more secure her life will be in the future."
Xue Ling did not believe this, saying: "It is better to teach a man to fish than to teach him a fish.
You shouldn't always pamper Xiaohan. You still need to do a good job in your child's study and don't put the cart before the horse.
Otherwise, no matter how much you earn, you will never be able to afford squandering."
As far as she knew, Xiaohan's grades were average, not outstanding.
Based on her current grades, she has little hope of getting into a key middle school, so she can only study in an ordinary middle school.
That child has quite good potential, but unfortunately Xue Heng thinks that she is a girl and needs to be pampered and pampered, so he seldom imposes strict requirements on her.
Unless children who are not taught strict education have excellent self-discipline and are gifted, it will be difficult for them to become talented.
Her property is not small, and her children can live a prosperous life even if they do not work hard and do nothing for the rest of their lives.
However, she has never doted on her children. She should be strict and persevere, and she has not fallen behind.
"You should cultivate your child's interests and hobbies and encourage her to pursue them.
Xiaohan seems not as cheerful as his peers, and he doesn’t have any special preferences, which is really not good.”
Her children, except Ran Ran, all have their own interests and hobbies, and she also supports them in pursuing them.
Except for the second child, everyone else's grades in cultural courses were very good, which laid a foundation for them to pursue their hobbies and gave them more choices in their life.
After hearing this, Xue Heng couldn't help but smile bitterly.
"I'm calling you...I also want to ask you for a favor...about Xiaohan."
Xue Ling rolled his eyes and asked: "What's wrong?
The little girl fell in love prematurely?”
"No way!"
Xue Heng said amusedly: "Can you be a little serious?
Is it puppy love if something happens to the child?
Look at your reaction!"
Xue Ling smiled and explained: "Xiaohan is already thirteen or fourteen years old, and the girl's mind is still in bud.
It’s normal for her to fall in love early now! People have to have charming thoughts, otherwise it won’t be romantic enough.”
"No way?"
Xue Heng asked: "Is it possible that A Chong and Xiao Xin also fell in love prematurely?"
Xue Ling replied: "I guess there is, but I'm not sure and I didn't ask.
Isn’t it normal for them to have charming thoughts at their age?”
Although they didn't take the initiative to say it, she guessed that they had some trick of writing love letters or giving small gifts.
The children are old and should have their own little secrets.
Even if she and her husband knew, they would pretend not to know.
Xue Heng asked in surprise: "No way?
Forget about Ran Ran and Yang Yang, one is a graduate student with outstanding achievements and the other is an undergraduate student at Imperial University. Even if they marry a wife and come back to be your daughter-in-law, you can ignore them.
But Xiao Chong and Xiao Xin are only in their second year of high school, right?
Now is the age where you have to study hard, and the homework is so stressful! Aren't you worried that their early love will affect their grades?"
"There's no point worrying."
Xue Ling said: "They are very sensible and know that their most important task is to study.
I hide my thoughts in my heart and secretly do some little tricks.
If we parents are overly concerned at this time, the matter may become more serious.
Forget it, don’t meddle in other people’s business, just do whatever comes your way.”
"No way?
Are you so open-minded?"
Xue Heng couldn't believe it.
Xue Ling smiled and scratched his hair.
"if not?
Children have to grow up! Ranran and Yangyang should have been in this situation before, but we didn't pay too much attention to it.
How lasting and lasting can a high school love be?
More than 90% of them end without illness.
It won’t affect your grades, so just pretend you don’t know.”
Xue Heng thought for a while and whispered: "I guess I have to learn from you on this point."
"That won't work."
Xue Ling reminded: "Xiaohan has a relatively serious temper and is also relatively sensitive.
You can’t follow the same pattern, otherwise it may be counterproductive.”
Xue Heng couldn't help but ask: "Then you suggest that I intervene?"
"No."
Xue Ling replied: "Appropriate attention and correct guidance.
Reasonable interference does not mean obstruction. Protecting the child's mental health is the most important thing."
When Xue Heng heard this, he couldn't help but sigh.
"Xiaohan...is really different from other children.
She is very emotionally sensitive and has great mood changes.
Sometimes I don’t even know what she is thinking because her true thoughts are hidden very deep.”
Xue Ling secretly felt distressed and whispered: "She may need a more lively playmate or classmate."
After all, children who grow up in a single family will have some weaknesses in their ideological and psychological qualities.
Xue Heng said: "But she can't be lively... She was quite active when she was a child, but as she grew older, she became quieter.
It's nice for a girl to be quiet, but she is not really quiet. She has a dull temperament and always has a sense of melancholy in her eyebrows.
Sigh... sometimes I'm really at a loss... but I've tried my best.
Over the years, my family has been my pillar of support, followed by work and earning money.”
"You and I both know why."
Xue Ling told the truth: "But what can be done?
The established facts cannot be changed by anyone.
When you got divorced, you didn't think about your children carefully at all, and you couldn't think about it at all."
In that situation, I really had to get divorced.
Although divorce is easy, it is not so easy to eliminate the various evils left by divorce, and the most serious among them is the mental health problems of children.
Children who grow up in a healthy and happy family will generally have better psychological quality, be more cheerful and active, be able to get along with others better, and have more friends than children from divorced families.
Of course, this is just the majority of cases and not every child is like this.
But Xiaohan is the poor child who is obviously affected.
Xue Heng sighed deeply and whispered: "We... are all sorry for Xiaohan.
Over the years, I have tried my best to make up for it...except for having a complete family, I have tried my best to do everything else.
I talked to Xiaohan today and tried to say that my father might need to find a companion, otherwise he would be very lonely when she grows up and gets married.
Xiaohan suddenly became very unhappy, crying and saying that she didn’t want anyone else to be her mother, she only wanted her own mother.”
Xue Ling raised his eyebrows and asked, "You didn't explain it carefully, did you?
No?
Just testing hypotheses?”
"Um."
Xue Heng helplessly whispered: "Even if it is a hypothesis, Xiaohan refuses to agree... and even said that we should consider... remarriage."