Xue Ling's eyes widened and he wiped the corners of his mouth.
"Husband, why haven't Ahu and the others come back yet?
Did you leave food for them?"
Cheng Tianyuan took a piece of shortbread and explained: "They didn't come back to eat. They said Shanyou suddenly wanted to eat pickled cabbage hot pot, and the whole family went to eat hot pot with her."
"oh."
Xue Ling chuckled: "You are a hot girl, maybe this baby is another son——" "Mom!"
Xue Xin said angrily: "Did you two hear us?
Don't pretend you can't hear it, okay?
I need your support! They are three to one, I can’t win!"
Xue Ling and Cheng Tianyuan looked at each other and smiled softly.
"Your views on love and values are far different from ours, so we can't say who is better and who is worse.
In my opinion, you are both right and both of you are wrong."
Xue Xin pouted: "Mom, what are you talking about!"
"It's just that part of your concept is right and part of it is wrong."
Cheng Huanchong interrupted.
Xue Ling nodded: "Most people's concepts and ideas will continue to change and improve with age, experience, and various hardships in life and work.
If you think so now, maybe little girls of your age will think that what you said is very right and great.
In the eyes of your parents, it is inevitable that you will have the ignorance and excessive idealism of a little girl."
"What?
!”
When Xue Xin heard this, she became excited and muttered: "Ignorance?
Idealism?”
Others sneered lowly, their laughter a bit harsh.
Xue Ling also laughed, but without any hint of ridicule.
"In fact, a person's heart is divided into many, many parts.
Part of it is for parents; part of it is for family and loved ones; part of it is for study, work, friends and colleagues, etc... The kind of "I give all my heart to you!" on TV and in novels! There is only you in my heart! My love is given to all
I’ve left you alone! I only love you in this life!’ Words like this are just words of love and cannot be repeated.”
“When you are at an age when you long for love, of course you feel that love is everything you have.
But is it realistically possible?
You still have to study hard and follow up, and you have family members to accompany you, classmates, teachers, etc.
Love is just one of our emotions, not the whole.
In real life, there are not many situations where you can't live without your partner."
“It’s very sweet when you’re in love, but it’s extremely painful when you’re falling out of love.
But it is impossible for most people to turn their first love into marriage. Many people will fall out of love and suffer for a while, and then find other people to continue falling in love until they finally get married.
After getting married, if the marriage is not happy and the family is not harmonious, many people will get divorced.
From these two perspectives, the person we love is not our only one, nor is it our everything."
"For you now, maybe your age and impulsiveness have given you full confidence, and you feel that the other person must love you and pamper you, and have your whole heart filled with you, otherwise they just don't love you enough.
If he does other things and doesn't accompany you when you are in crisis, you may feel that he doesn't pay enough attention to you and doesn't put you first, and that means he doesn't love you enough.
But it’s really impossible for him to have only you in his world.”
"There are so many people in the world, and he has to deal with many people every day. It is impossible for him to hang around you all day long.
The earth revolves around the sun, but it also has to autobiography, right?
He also has his own things to take care of, and he also has relatives and friends who need to be with him, right?
There are many kinds of feelings, love is just one of them.
In the field of love, you are the first, maybe the only, and everything.
But you have to allow him to have other areas, right?"
“The human heart is inherently complicated and complicated.
There are many people in your heart, including parents, brothers, grandmothers, grandmothers, etc.
It's impossible for his heart to be yours alone, right?
You have to study and play chess, he has to work, socialize and travel around the country and abroad. He also has to accompany you, take care of you and make you happy.
How much have you done for him, and what can you do for him, why should you ask him to put you first?"
After hearing this, Xiaoxin's pretty face turned slightly red, but she still had a tough mouth.
"Mom, why are you getting involved with me again...what does it have to do with me?
I—I’m not as unreasonable as you say.”
Xue Ling smiled and shrugged: "There is no best.
At your age, it is normal to have such thoughts. No one will blame you, but the people who love you will be a little tired.
We are just reminding you that it is good to have love, but you really can’t drink enough water.”
Xiaoxin glanced at Cheng Tianyuan and muttered: "Didn't you say that when you married your father, he was still poor?
My family doesn’t even have a decent house and is still in debt.”
"right."
Cheng Tianyuan nodded: "At that time, my family only had two adobe houses, and we didn't even have a dilapidated bicycle. We owed a lot of money, but we still couldn't pay it back.
The old debts have not been repaid and new debts have been incurred, so we are really penniless."
Xiaoxin said in a low voice: "Mom, at that time...were you thinking that 'love can drink enough water'?"
"no."
Xue Ling shook his head.
Cheng Tianyuan glared at his daughter and explained: "Your mother married me with two thousand yuan and a lot of dowry given by your grandfather.
On the third day of our wedding, she went out with me to the city to look for work and make money.
No matter how romantic your mother and I are, we have to make money, otherwise how can we have a relationship if we can't fill our stomachs?
Don’t you have to pay off your family’s debt?
Don’t your parents need to support you?”
Xiaoxin buried her head and murmured: "I... misunderstood."
Xue Ling wiped her mouth and stood up: "Okay, just know that you are wrong.
You guys, don’t think that you are all right.
Girls are not so easy to coax. Working hard to make money, giving others stable and strong arms and a warm family is the best way to love a girl."
"Know it!"
"Mom, I know!"
"I haven't had such troubles before..." ... That night, Zhu Achun brought Zheng Duoduo over to pay New Year's greetings.
Zheng Duoduo gave each of the elderly a big red envelope, and also secretly gave one to each of Xiaoxin and Xiao Chong.
"Don't make any noise, you are all adults and you don't have any points.
But you are the youngest and are not financially independent yet, so you can secretly give me a little."
Xiao Xin and Xiao Chong jumped up and down with joy, threw themselves into his arms, and laughed happily.
"Shush!"
Zheng Duoduo suppressed a smile: "You two little ancestors, please be quiet! Spare me, your eldest and second brothers will see you soon and they will chase my wallet!"
"Thank you, Brother Duoduo!"
Xiaoxin stood up on tiptoes and kissed him.
Zheng Duoduo couldn't stop laughing and joked: "Don't let Tietou know, otherwise he will stare me to death."
Xiaoxin blushed and snorted, then ran away.
Xiao Chong punched him and hugged his arm: "Let's go! Let's play games!"
Zheng Duoduo turned his head and raised his voice: "Auntie, I'm going to play with my third child! Call me when you have to leave later!"