Wan Yun was stunned when she heard this, and finally came to her senses after a while.
"Mom...I...I am actually very confused.
He always said that we are very suitable and asked me to marry him...but I have no confidence in him, really."
Wang Qing smiled bitterly: "When I got married, I had a lot of confidence in him, full of longing and hope for our future, and even more confidence in our marriage.
But what about the end?
They divorced within a few years.
He has no bad habits or bad habits, he is a very good person, and his parents are both honest people.
We even got to the point of divorce. Do you think a man who even you have no confidence in can give you happiness?
How long can I stay with you?"
Wan Yun was confused by the old mother's question and hesitated for a while, unable to speak.
Xue Ling held her hand and lowered her voice: "You were too impulsive tonight and scared all of us.
Xiaoyun, it is easy to get married but difficult to get divorced.
It seems easy to take a photo, sign a signature, and get a certificate.
But once you get married, your wealth, life, family, and work are all involved, plus your future children. It will be easy to get married, but it will be difficult to untie them."
"I..." Wan Yun buried her head in embarrassment and whispered: "I always said that I should think about it, but he kept urging me and said that as long as I get the certificate and the rice is cooked, my parents can only agree.
.
I...I'm actually very nervous and scared."
"You silly girl!"
Wang Qing scolded: "Your parents have given birth to you and raised you for twenty years. How can you compare to a man?"
If we don’t approve of him, we naturally have reasons and reasons for not approving him.
Have you ever thought about this?
!Do you have?
!”
Wan Yun's eyes were red and she didn't dare to answer.
Xue Ling couldn't help but echoed: "If he wants to marry you, he must do it legitimately and openly to gain your parents' approval on his own, instead of lying to you behind your back! He is forcing your parents to do this.
Give in and use you to threaten and coerce your parents, forcing them to recognize your relationship.
Xiaoyun, have you ever thought about how disappointed and angry your parents must be with you?
Your parents can't do anything to him, they will only vent their anger on their own daughter.
Before you officially get married to him, he will only think about himself blindly and completely ignore you and not consider you at all.
Are you sure you can be happy living with such a man?
is it possible?"
Wan Yun shrank her neck timidly and murmured: "...He is indeed very selfish. He only thinks about himself and his family."
"Then why do you still love him?
!”
Wang Qing asked angrily: "What can a selfish person give you?
Marriage is the union of a man and a woman to live together, which means that both men and women must contribute to the family.
He is so selfish and will rely on you to do everything in the future - do you want to exhaust yourself to death?
Are you the kind of woman who is very capable and strong?
Are you?"
Wan Yun shed tears and shook her head gently.
"……I'm not."
Wang Qing asked angrily: "Then why did you steal your household registration book to marry him?
!You are pushing yourself into a pit of fire, do you know?
!”
"OK OK."
Xue Ling hurriedly held Wang Qing down and persuaded: "The children are back. Let's analyze it carefully and explain it to her carefully. She can understand it by talking and persuading her well."
Wang Qing held his forehead tiredly and lay back down again.
"Tonight I... was really pissed off by you..." Wan Yun even swallowed: "Mom, I'm sorry."
Wang Qing let out a long sigh and pulled the quilt over him.
"You are indeed sorry for your father and me... If you live a good life, even if you marry far away, we will feel more at ease.
If you are not living well, we will not be happy even if we eat delicacies from the mountains and seas every day.
You have never been a mother, so you don’t understand what it means to be a mother.”
Wan Yun was buried in her arms, sobbing softly.
Wang Qing patted her back and started crying too.
Xue Ling coaxed the two of them not to cry, told them to go to sleep quickly, and then turned and returned to the room.
I was so tired and sleepy that I could hardly open my eyes, but I was surprised to find that Cheng Tianyuan still hadn't come back.
She took out her cell phone and found a voice message he had sent more than half an hour ago.
Xue Ling quickly clicked on the voice button.
——Daughter-in-law, Ahu is not feeling very well. Xiaohuzi and I will take him to the hospital for a check-up.
When you're done, go to bed first, don't wait for me.
Xue Ling frowned after hearing this.
Ah Hu has always had a serious problem with his three highs. He was probably frightened by this tonight, and the old problem has come to his door.
Xue Ling couldn't help but sigh and put the phone aside.
I closed my eyes and fell asleep quickly.
At around four o'clock, everyone went to bed one after another.
Summer mornings come early, and in less than an hour, the east begins to turn white - it's dawn! It's bright in the morning, and a few old people get up.
After washing, they all went to the back garden to tidy up flowers and plants without disturbing the young people who were still sleeping.
After all, Xue Ling is older, and her sleep quality is not as good as that of young people. She woke up around eight o'clock.
My head is still slightly dizzy, but I'm feeling much better and I'm in good spirits.
She hurriedly washed up and turned around to go out.
Wang Qing also woke up and was drinking water in the living room.
"Ling Ling... I was too disturbed last night."
Xue Ling gave up and said, "Why are you being polite to me? By the way, did you call Ahu?"
"Just hit."
Wang Qing sighed and whispered: "Little Huzi said that his father was sleeping and his blood pressure was so high that it was almost impossible to measure it.
I'm getting an intravenous drip now, and I won't be able to come back for a while. I'll listen to what the doctor says later, and I hope I can be discharged from the hospital tomorrow or the day after tomorrow."
After saying this, her eyes turned red again.
"As I get older, I have a lot of problems.
It's okay if nothing happens at home, we just need to take care of ourselves.
Once something happens, our children have no time to take care of themselves, but we are powerless and may even fall down, adding to the chaos."
Xue Ling couldn't help but comforted: "Don't worry too much.
As you get older, your problems will naturally increase.
It's nothing big, don't worry about it."
Wang Qing sighed tiredly and whispered: "Ling Ling, I have to advise the younger generation not to get married and have children too late, otherwise they may be as helpless as us in the future.
We marry later and have children later, our children have just grown up, and we are already old.
We haven't been able to help the children enter a stable period, and we are already overwhelmed and unable to do what we can."
"right."
Xue Ling nodded: "Don't worry, I will definitely tell the children this.
Xiao Huzi married early and had children early. He already had a son at a young age and soon became the father of two children.
He won’t have any troubles like this in the future.”
Wang Qing smiled sadly and stood up.
"Little Tiger is so cute, he will be a big brother in no time.
Youyou is about to give birth and she never sleeps well at night.
I'll go back and see her and come back later."
Xue Ling should be well.
Wang Qing paused in his steps and turned his head.
"The two of them... please help keep an eye on them."