Xue Ling couldn't help but smile bitterly: "Who would tolerate and agree?
It’s just that the child is very stubborn, and she can’t listen to what we say!”
"If you need to be punished, you must be punished; if you need to be scolded, you must be scolded!"
Cheng Tianyuan said solemnly: "You even have to hit when it's time to hit! Just don't hurt her, you have to make her brain listen!"
Xue Ling sighed and shook his head: "It's too difficult... Our own children are relatively simple, and we have been strict with them since they were young, so even if they do something wrong, they usually don't go too far wrong.
Xiaohan is different from them. She grew up in a dysfunctional family. Both her parents would only pamper her and follow her and protect her as much as possible.
She looks weak on the surface, but in fact she has a very awkward temperament, a strong self-esteem, but is also vulnerable to a blow.
I don't have much contact with her and don't know her well, so I can't think of a way to persuade her at the moment.
If she were our daughter, we would scold her when she needed to be scolded and beat her when she needed to be beaten.
But we are just uncle and aunt, and her parents are by her side, so how do we have the qualifications and rights to teach her a lesson."
"well!"
Cheng Tianyuan was so angry that he sat down and shouted angrily: "It's all the adults who have sinned! They have harmed the children! A good family has been torn apart in the end, not only harming themselves, but also harming the children!"
"It's all over, there's no point in talking about it."
Xue Ling whispered.
Cheng Tianyuan loudly said: "I have to say it out so that all the young people in the family can take a warning! Young people nowadays just get divorced casually. If they can't survive, just leave."
It sounds easy, but have they thought about the consequences?
People cannot live willfully, and willful people will never have a good ending! Who said that every married couple can be happy, and they must live a good life and shoulder their family responsibilities well, otherwise where can happiness come from?
When you are in love, you love to death. If you have the ability, use the courage you had at that time and take on the responsibilities of marriage! If everyone could do it, the divorce rate today would not be so high! If Cheng Tianfang was not willful, she would
Why is there not even a family today! Her daughter would not be like this!"
"Stop yelling, please keep your voice down!"
Xue Ling slapped his arm angrily and whispered: "Xiaohan is in the guest room to the south."
Cheng Tianyuan didn't care at all and said: "Not only do I want to tell her now, I also want to tell her tomorrow.
She wants to fall in love and get married when she is only a teenager?
How does a person who has to rely on his parents for food, clothing, housing and transportation have any qualifications to get married?
If Xiaoxin doesn't study well, doesn't work independently, and thinks about relying on her husband to get married, then I will never allow her to get married.
A girl can get married and rely on her husband. Is this what she thinks?
Then she should find a good husband. Why should she find a second-rate guy who dropped out of school and lived on the streets to rely on?
Have you told her these words?
Um?"
"No."
Xue Ling told the truth: "A Heng saw her dressing up weirdly, wearing revealing shorts and miniskirts, and clinging to that second-rate guy, and he immediately went crazy! If I hadn't stopped him, he would have probably killed her.
People were seriously injured.
The kid knew at first glance that he was irresponsible. When the two of them were caught, he didn't even say hello and ran away.
Such a boy has no sense of responsibility at all and cannot be relied on at all."
"snort!"
Cheng Tianyuan snorted: "Isn't her mother like this back then?
After being coaxed for a few words, she foolishly believed it.
If she hadn't learned a lesson in time, she wouldn't be where she is today and would have been ruined long ago.
You have to contact Cheng Tianfang and ask her to use her own negative teaching materials to teach her daughter!"
"Don't be angry."
Xue Ling rubbed his forehead helplessly, "A Heng was so angry that he almost vomited blood. He kept talking nonsense and his brain had lost its normal function.
Xiaohan got angry and quarreled with him. The father and daughter cursed, cried and made noise on the street. Many adults and adults who were out for a walk came to watch - it couldn't be too lively.
I couldn't help it, my throat hurt from shouting, and I couldn't bear it anymore, so I called a car, put Xue Heng in and drove him away, and then called a car and took Xiaohan away."
Cheng Tianyuan couldn't help but roll his eyes: "It's shameful to throw it on the street, it's this kind of people I'm talking about.
Ah Heng is over fifty, why are he so impulsive and quarreling with her in public?
Take your daughter away first, ask questions slowly, and talk slowly. If you make such a fuss - even if the matter is not serious, it will be serious!"
"yes!"
Xue Ling shook his head: "A Heng is an elderly daughter, and she loves Xiao Han very much.
Xiaohan cried miserably today, partly because A Heng opposed her falling in love, and the bigger reason was that she couldn't believe that her father, who always obeyed her in everything, would scold her in the street for the first time."
"The outbreak of conflicts is by no means accumulated over a period of time."
Cheng Tianyuan sighed softly and said: "You are wrong. In fact, this matter is not as simple as it seems.
In the final analysis, it is the lack of family education and the lack of correct guidance from parents.
This cannot be corrected in a short time."
"yes."
Xue Ling couldn't help but whisper: "But we still have to deal with it quietly and let the child think things through.
She said earlier that she didn't want to go to school anymore, her father no longer loved her, and she wanted to run away from home and make money with her own hands in the future.
She was very impulsive and spoke so excitedly that I completely ignored her."
"Not going to school?"
Cheng Tianyuan snorted coldly: "Then she'll just have to wait for misfortune!"
Xue Ling sighed tiredly: "I was so dizzy from the quarrel between father and daughter that my head is still dizzy.
Every year the age increases, the body becomes worse every year.
I didn’t do much today, I just went shopping for clothes with the third child, and later went to the suburbs to find Xue Heng. You know what happened next - there wasn’t much to do, but my head couldn’t bear it anymore.”
"You eat the bird's nest and go take a bath and rest."
Cheng Tianyuan stood up: "I'm going to see that bad kid."
"Don't!"
Xue Ling said: "I borrowed Xiaoxin's pajamas just now. She had already taken off her makeup and took a bath to go to sleep.
Her eyes were swollen from crying and her energy was very low. I coaxed her to sleep before she came over."
"Removing makeup?"
Cheng Tianyuan chuckled and sneered: "I really admire Xue Heng and Cheng Tianfang! The children are like this, and they are still kept in the dark!"
Xue Ling stood up holding her head and stopped: "Don't be angry, let's rest first.
Ah Heng has calmed down a bit just now and sent a message saying that he will come to pick her up from school tomorrow morning and have a good talk with her then."
"The problem can never be solved so easily."
Cheng Tianyuan coldly shook his head: "The root of this matter is there, what can be done to solve it?
If you don’t believe it, just wait and see!”
Xue Ling's head hurt, so he opened the quilt and lay down.
"Stop talking, I'll lie down for a while.
If you don’t want to eat the bird’s nest, you can eat it.
When I stop feeling dizzy, I can take a shower and change into pajamas."
"good."
Cheng Tianyuan said warmly: "You should squint for a while, and I'll get you some essential oil to apply."