Cheng Tianyuan shook his head gently: "It's not that you can't pursue happiness because of poor grades, it's just that you are not yet old enough to pursue it.
You are only fourteen or fifteen years old, just a yellow-haired girl, you know what love is and what happiness is."
"Who says I don't understand?"
Xue Han's eyes were red and she loudly said, "I really love him! I am very happy and free with him. I can do whatever I want. He relies on me for everything! He also loves me very much!"
Cheng Tianyuan secretly felt that it was extremely ridiculous and said: "There is no real freedom in the world.
We live in this world, subject to a lot of laws, regulations and moral controls and restrictions.
Ninety percent of those who do whatever they want are in prison.
Loving you means loving you?
What stupid reason do you have?"
"You do not understand!"
Xue Han shed tears: "You don't understand at all! How do you understand what love is? People of your era didn't have the so-called love! You and your aunt even had an arranged marriage! You yourself have not enjoyed the beauty of free love, you
I just feel that there is nothing as beautiful as love in the world!"
Cheng Tianyuan was slightly stunned and raised his eyebrows.
"Who told you that your aunt and I had an arranged marriage?
We just get married first and fall in love later. Who says we don’t have the so-called ‘love’?
On the contrary, the love between your aunt and I has grown steadily, and gradually it has become like a family relationship.
I don’t need the beauty of free love, my love and marriage are both happy.
There is no need to compare with anyone else, just compare with your father Xue Heng, I will definitely be much happier than him."
"You -" Xue Han muttered dissatisfied: "My father and my mother are divorced, how can you compare with them?"
Cheng Tianyuan calmly put down the water glass and said: "Your father and your mother are also in free love. Both parents agree. Everyone says that they are a talented and beautiful couple, a match made in heaven.
At that time, your father had already made a lot of money, and your mother had her own business, so she didn’t have to worry about food, rice, oil and salt.
But they lived a good life in a mess and ended up getting divorced.
Who says free love must be good?
They are not arranged marriages, they are also marriages where a man and a woman love each other.
With them as a typical example, do you think you can still blindly think that free love is good?
Can?"
"It's different..." Xue Han's eyes rolled in his eyes: "I'm just a few years younger than Miss Xiaoxin. They agree with her, but they don't agree with me... Is it because my boyfriend is not good enough or rich enough?"
money?"
Cheng Tianyuan sighed helplessly and frowned: "You kid! Why do you have problems with you, but you only blindly look for the problems in other people?
Can it be found?
!Whether it’s our family or yours, which family is short of money?
Marrying must first be about people, not money, otherwise what’s the point?
Our family is not short of money, so why should we pursue other people’s money?”
"I-what else is that?"
Xue Han started to cry and choked: "My dad scolded me for not being smart, and scolded me for cheating on his trust in me... He was very disappointed in me."
Cheng Tianyuan asked: "Comparing my feelings with my own, would you be disappointed if you were deceived by your father for so long?
Will you feel uncomfortable?"
Xue Han shook his head and cried: "It's different... I just fell in love, I didn't do anything heinous."
"Falling in love is not a sin."
Cheng Tianyuan said: "It's just that you shouldn't lie to your closest parents for a long time, and you shouldn't completely abandon your studies and only pursue fun and love.
The cubs of many animals can run and jump after birth, but we humans are different.
We must study for a long, long time to keep up with this era, and we must even learn for life. Otherwise, today's technological advancement is so rapid, and if we don't learn, we will soon be abandoned by this era.
Once you miss your study time at school, it will be difficult for you to have such an opportunity again in your life."
"I...I'm not suitable for studying."
Xue Han muttered: "I'm not a student."
Cheng Tianyuan said: "Then you can't just drop out of school, you are only a teenager.
Xiaohan, uncle tells you something.
Our family was very poor at that time. We were so poor that we often ate wild vegetables and could not eat meat even once a year or so.
I love reading very much, and my grandparents have always supported my reading.
But my family was too poor to pay my tuition fees, so I had to live frugally and borrow money from people everywhere to pay my tuition fees.
I insisted on going to high school and getting into college. Just when I received the admission notice, your grandpa fell ill again, and the family couldn't even afford to take the blame.
At that time, rural areas were generally poor, and every household was equally poor. There were very few people who could spare a ten-dollar bill at home.
I don’t want my grandparents to beg neighbors and fellow villagers to borrow money, turn around, tear up the admission notice, and run to the county to work as an accountant for a supply and marketing cooperative to make money.
At that time, I was so eager to continue studying. I occasionally thought of the admission notice from a key university at night, and I couldn't help but shed tears. I wet my pillow towel with tears several times..." Xue Han was stunned.
For her, a little princess who grew up in a honeypot, this was something that could only have happened hundreds of years ago, and would never happen to people today.
She just carries tens of thousands in a bag, how can she understand the embarrassment and hardship of not being able to pay even ten yuan! Cheng Tianyuan sighed softly: "So I always hope that your mother will study hard, no matter how poor or miserable she is, she must
Send your mother to school.
Who would have thought that your mother dropped out of school...and almost failed.
Fortunately, I graduated from a technical secondary school, and with the help of my aunt, I was able to settle in the Imperial Capital and be assigned to work in an employer.
Not being able to go to college is my biggest regret in life. I don’t want my children to have the same regrets as me in the future, so I always strictly require them to complete college studies, or at least graduate from college.
At present, all of them have gone to college, and your eldest cousin has graduated with a master's degree. They have finally lived up to my expectations for them."
Xue Han looked at him with pitiful eyes and whispered: "Uncle, actually... Actually, studying in college is not necessarily good.
Many college students are working for you, and my aunt's group has a lot of top students, but they can't make as much money as you, and they can't be as good as you."
"fool."
Cheng Tianyuan chuckled: "Going to college may not necessarily make you a lot of money, I understand this.
But that is my lifelong dream, and it is a dream that can no longer be fulfilled.
It was my first dream in life, but unfortunately I couldn't realize it.
It’s still the same sentence – my lifelong regret.”
After a pause, he sighed and advised: "Xiaohan, don't go out of your way to do something new in life and give up on what is really important.
For you, the most important things now are your family and your studies.
When you are a student, you must study.
If you drop out of school now, you will regret it for the rest of your life."