Xue Ling held her hand and whispered: "Auntie was also young and had her youth, so she knows your girlish thoughts.
In fact, there is nothing wrong with you falling in love, it’s just that you used the wrong method and the time was a little too early."
"real?"
Xue Han's eyes lit up and he asked in surprise: "Auntie, do you really think so?
!”
Xue Ling nodded: "Of course it's true, what should I do to lie to you?
Several of your cousins fell in love. When did I stop them?
Who was blocked?"
"……nothing."
Xue Han muttered: "Even Sister Xin, you are willing for her to fall in love."
Xue Ling smiled: "Yes, because we all know that you are starting to grow up, understand love, know how to love another person, and share your feelings with others.
This is human nature and an emotional experience that everyone must go through, so we will not stop it."
"Then why is my dad blocking me like crazy?"
Xue Han muttered: "You saw his furious look last night and how furious he was just now."
Xue Ling explained seriously: "Because you are still too young, too young."
"I'm almost fifteen!"
Xue Han defended: "Some of my classmates have boyfriends when they are twelve or thirteen years old, and I am the latest among them!"
Xue Ling secretly couldn't laugh or cry, and said: "Our legal age for marriage is twenty.
How many years do you think you have until you are twenty?
What are you in such a hurry for?
Fruits from the tree must be picked when they are just ripe for the best texture and flavor.
Pick the fruit when it is green and astringent. It tastes astringent and sour. Can you eat it?
If you don't pick the fruit when it is ripe, it will soon rot and fall to the ground, and you will get nothing in the end.
This shows how important timing is! Your cousins all fell in love after the age of eighteen, and it did not affect their studies, so your uncle and I will not stop it, and we should not stop it. "
Xue Han seemed to understand but not understand, and looked at her thoughtfully.
"Aunt...you...did you really love your uncle before?"
Xue Ling raised his eyebrows and asked funnyly: "Why do you ask so suddenly?
If I didn't love him, how could I marry him, give him children, and live with him for more than thirty years?"
"But -" Xue Han faltered: "Uncle, he is not as good at making money as you are. You have such a big group, and his business cannot compare with yours."
Xue Ling shook his head: "Actually, your uncle's business ability is better than mine. It's just that for the sake of the family and taking care of the elderly and children, he had to sacrifice most of his working time on the family, so his business is not as good as mine.
If he goes to make money and I go to make money, then the elderly and children in the family will have no time to take care of it, so what is the point of us making money?
He knows that I like to do business, so he puts his focus on family so that I can work hard without any worries.
He sacrificed part of his career for the sake of his family. It was not until I retired that he could devote himself to work.
Without his silent efforts over the years, taking several children to and from school, taking care of the family and outside, how would I have the time and energy to make a lot of money?
I am deeply touched that he can do this for me. I have never felt that there is anything to compare with him. In terms of sacrificing for my family, I can't compare to him."
When Xue Han heard what she said, he suddenly came to his senses.
"Yeah...why didn't I think of this?
You put it like that, but I think my uncle is great.
In contrast, many men should not be able to do it, right?
Many boys care about face and don’t like girls who are better than them.”
Xue Ling's eyes flashed slightly and he whispered: "Fool, if that person really loves you, why would he care about face?
The more he cares about you and the more he thinks he is great, the more he loves himself, the more he will love you.
If your uncle had cared about face issues, we might have often quarreled or even gotten divorced, because I am a very career-minded person.
But he loves me deeply and is willing to sacrifice his own career to support me in pursuing my dreams.
Because of this, he has won the respect of me and my parents, and deserves my deep love for the rest of my life."
After hearing this, Xue Han's eyes dodge a few times.
"...Yes, uncle is really good."
Xue Ling stopped and said warmly: "Okay, don't think too much.
The most important thing for you now is not to argue with your father or mother, but to find ways to gain their support.
You have to remember that your parents are not unwilling to fall in love with you, but they are worried that you will pick the fruit when it is still green and taste the bitter fruit in the end.
What parent doesn’t want his daughter or son to find true love, get married and start a family?
Right?
The main reason why they are so opposed now is that you are too young, you are still a student, and you have not done your studies well.
Think about it, if you study hard and improve your studies, what excuse can your parents have to stop you?
I am getting older every year and my studies are getting better and better every year, so they have no reason to stop me!"
Xue Han was moved and murmured: "That seems to be the truth.
Just now my dad kept yelling, saying that I must study and that I can't fall in love and delay my studies.
I have to prove to him that falling in love can actually improve my studies, and see how he objects!"
"yes!"
Xue Ling smiled: "You are a smart child, you can understand everything with just one click.
If you can do a good job in your studies, you can provide conditions and rewards for your parents, right?"
"Um."
Xue Han nodded heavily: "Aunt, I understand."
Xue Ling smiled and said: "Very good, clean up and go have breakfast quickly.
If you don’t go eat, you’ll probably be late.”
"Hey!"
Xue Han hurriedly turned around to get her school bag, "Oops! Auntie, we don't have enough time. It takes more than twenty minutes to drive to No. 4 Middle School. If I go there after eating, I might be late! If you are late for early reading, the teacher will definitely make you stand."
"It's okay, I took breakfast and had it in the car."
Xue Ling said: "I'll drive you there, let's go."
At this moment, Xue Heng walked in with a calm expression, carrying a snack box and a water bottle in his hands.
"Have you packed it up?
I'm a bit pressed for time, so I brought you a few steamed buns and dumplings from the big kitchen, as well as your favorite corn juice.
Let's eat in the car, don't be late."
Xue Han looked at him in disbelief, with slightly red eyes: "...Thank you, Dad."
"Let's go."
Xue Heng smiled slightly: "I'll drive."
Xue Ling winked at Xue Han and leaned close to her ear.
"Your parents are the people who love you the most and love you the most, there is no need to question them at all.
Remember, no matter what happens, you can't hurt your parents, and don't make the people who love you the most sad, do you understand?
Otherwise, you are the stupidest little leaky cotton-padded jacket."
Xue Han blushed and nodded slightly: "I understand."
After a while, Xue Ling watched his father and daughter drive away, then turned to the big kitchen to have breakfast.