Xue Ling encouraged: "If you are afraid of being too noisy, you can raise one or two kittens.
You don’t need to take it out for a walk, and it doesn’t take much energy to take care of. It’s very suitable for singles like you.”
He Miaomiao nodded in approval: "When I pass by the pet store, I will go and have a look."
Xue Ling was a little dumbfounded when he heard this: "What?
Are you in such a hurry?"
"Urgent!"
He Miaomiao smiled bitterly: "I don't really like going home now.
The place is spacious, with front and back yards, people walking upstairs and downstairs, and everything is quiet."
"Didn't you hire a nanny?"
Xue Ling asked doubtfully: "I remember you told me before that you hired a nanny to clean and cook, right?"
He Miaomiao sighed: "Yes, you didn't remember.
She is my aunt. Her children used to go to college. She had nothing to do at home, so she came to help me take care of the breakfast and dinner of the house and the children.
Two years ago, her child graduated and got married, so she was asked to help take care of her grandson.
Although I can't bear to leave her, I can't force her to stay.
Now the housekeeping company is responsible for the hygiene at home, once every three days.
I often don’t have time to cook, so I either eat something at work or order takeout, or I check out which store is still open on the way back from get off work and go in to fill my stomach.”
Xue Ling felt secretly distressed when he heard it, and stepped forward.
"You and I have known each other for more than ten or twenty years. Although most of the negotiations are on official matters, privately we are considered good friends.
I'll just step on the line today.
If you have the right person, let's work together.
The young couple comes to keep company.
When you were young, what you pursued was love and marriage.
But we are getting older day by day, and now we just hope that we can have more companions around us to take care of each other and keep each other company.
The so-called ‘wife, old companion’ is actually nothing more than seeking a ‘companion’.”
When Lawyer He heard this, he sighed helplessly: "...It's not that I haven't thought about it, but many people have advised me so.
I just can’t find it! My child grew up in a broken family and is much more sensitive and strong than other children.
He told me that if I find someone I like, I should consider it, but no matter which angle I look at, I feel like I can’t find someone I like.”
"Maybe it has something to do with your career."
Xue Ling couldn't help sighing: "You have seen too many joys and sorrows, too many evil and unexamined human natures."
"right."
He Miaomiao chuckled: "If you watch too much, people will inevitably become calmer, and they will become more and more unmotivated and lose interest at all.
When I arranged for my children to go abroad, I was very happy and excited.
But when the child left, everything around me suddenly became empty.
I suddenly felt a little scared.
When you wake up in the dead of night, there is no need to look around to see if your child has kicked the quilt, but you are tossing and turning and unable to fall asleep.
The storm came, lightning flashed and thundered. I ran to the front yard to turn off the lights, ran upstairs to close the windows, worked hard for a while and then went to bed. Suddenly I couldn't sleep anymore, and I shed tears unconsciously... If anyone can help
I'll give it a try, even if it's just a question of concern, that's fine."
Xue Ling heard waves of distress and whispered: "Let's try raising a pet first.
People, keep looking."
"Still looking for it?"
He Miaomiao smiled bitterly: "I've been looking for him for most of my life, why are you still looking for me?
If I could have found it, I would have found it long ago.”
Xue Ling asked back: "I can find you for most of my life, is it possible that I still have a few years left?"
You should also have plans to retire early, right?
Unless you go abroad to spend time with your children, or your children come back to live with you, you will still be alone at home."
"When I was young, I always hoped to find someone."
He Miaomiao explained: "The more I searched, the more disappointed I became, and the more I searched, the less energetic I became. However, I was very calm and would rather go short than waste, so the chances would only become slimmer and slimmer.
In a situation like mine, I have no interest in and don't like finding little fresh meat to squander my money and status.
I’m looking for a mature man with a successful career, but they don’t want me because they prefer sweet, cute, silly girls.”
Xue Ling chuckled dumbly.
"I look forward to my children coming back after graduation."
He Miaomiao frowned slightly: "But he doesn't seem to have such plans.
He didn't like the imperial capital, and he didn't want to have too much interaction with the people from his father's side, so he always wanted to stay abroad.
I will continue to persuade him, hoping that he can come back to accompany me, so that I can accompany him and continue to depend on each other."
Xue Ling nodded: "He loves you very much and has been growing up by your side. He will think about you."
At this moment, Cheng Huanchong came in with a water glass and handed each of them a glass.
Xue Ling thanked her and said in a warm voice: "Ask if the coffee has been brewed in the kitchen. If you haven't prepared it yet, don't do it. Auntie, she doesn't want to drink coffee today."
"good."
Cheng Huanchong turned around and went out.
He Miaomiao looked at the handsome back of the third child and couldn't help but squint her eyes and sigh.
"Mr. Xue, you are the happiest big boss I have ever seen, bar none."
Xue Ling was stunned for a moment, then laughed dumbly.
"How can I see it?
I may be considered a pretty lucky person, but 'the happiest' seems to be too much of a reputation."
He Miaomiao smiled slightly and said firmly: "Really, I didn't lie to you, nor did I mean to flatter you.
First of all, the relationship between your family members is excellent, and the family atmosphere feels relaxed and comfortable.
Look at your children, not only do they look good and have excellent academic performance, but the self-confidence and sunshine that are unconsciously revealed in their eyebrows make me very envious.
I am just a child and can provide him with quite good material conditions, but I cannot give him a complete family and a warm environment for his growth.
In addition, the ex-husband has reorganized the family, which has a great psychological impact on the children, and most of them are negative.
The child studies very well, but his eyebrows and eyes rarely relax, and he always gives people a melancholy and dull feeling.
Some people say that young people are mature, but I know that is not the case."
Speaking of this, she let out a long sigh: "It wasn't until later that I learned that children who grow up in a happy and warm family, even if their material conditions are poor and the environment is poor, their psychological quality will be better, and their children will be more confident and sunny.
This is something I can’t make up for with anything else.”
"OK OK."
Xue Ling smiled bitterly and stopped: "Don't say it, the so-called 'happiest' turns out to be compared with you, so I'd better not give it up.
The reference objects and standards are not set well, and the results are not satisfactory and cannot be trusted.
In fact, it is really not easy to maintain a family, especially a big family like ours.
The simplest sentence sums it up - no effort, no gain.
If you want a warm and happy family, especially a big family, you have to spend more material and spiritual efforts."
He Miaomiao smiled and said: "I didn't mean to use my own home as a reference. I accidentally showed my envy! Haha!"
Xue Ling laughed.
After a while, the third child stepped in and sat next to He Miaomiao.