Ahu patted his arm and whispered: "Pay more attention to the child from now on, it will be fine.
He is still young and has plenty of opportunities."
"Alas..." Chen Min smiled bitterly and sighed: "I'm already in my early twenties, so it's a little late."
Ahu "Ha!"
He made a sound and said: "The brat in my family finally stabilized after getting married.
He was the master of heaven and earth before, but if Ayuan and sister-in-law hadn't helped me suppress him, that kid would have ended up as a second-rate guy in no corner."
Cheng Tianyuan didn't think so, explaining: "Little Huzi is just a little skinny. He likes to play rather than read. There is no big shortcoming.
The worst thing is probably that the environment at home is too good, he spends money lavishly, and he likes to show off.
Others are just minor problems. As long as the time comes, the person matures and the personality is more stable, many of them can be corrected over time."
"Why!"
Ah Hu stopped and said, "If you hadn't been so strict at that time and my sister-in-law had found an opportunity to help him with his career, he definitely wouldn't have been able to change.
People must know how hard it is to make money, then they will know that money is hard to come by, and they must spend it sparingly and not spend it carelessly."
Chen Min couldn't help but feel envious and said: "He is making so much money now, married a beautiful wife, and has two such lovely children.
Brother, what else are you dissatisfied with?"
Ahu laughed loudly: "Satisfied! I'm quite satisfied!"
He touched his swollen beer belly with emotion and admiration.
"I thought he was only in his twenties, he could have his own career, and he could buy such a big courtyard house to live in the imperial capital, with a wife and son to warm him.
Compared with people of his age, he is considered top-notch.
I think when we were at his age, we were still like idiots.
I went to learn to drive, and you were selling things to people at a supply and marketing cooperative, and you only had a few cents in your pocket to spend all day long.
Thinking about it this way, that boy is really not a bad boy!"
All three of them laughed.
Go around the corridor, come to the back garden, and go straight to the back door.
Cheng Tianyuan walked ahead and led the way, looking back from time to time.
"Amin, take advantage of this trip to come to the imperial capital and give your child a change of environment.
Xiao Huzi is no longer the brat he was a few years ago, especially in the past two years, his temper has become much calmer.
I suggest that it is better to let Xiao Huzi take Xiao Chen with him and let him see a broader world, and maybe his worldview and values can undergo major changes or changes."
Ahu also echoed: "That's right! We are all old antiques, and our thinking has long been unable to keep up with this society.
Today's young people are all about the Internet. If they have a computer or a mobile phone, they can know everything about the world.
We are no longer good, we have long been out of touch.
We don’t understand any of their trendy words.
After all, young people have to be led by young people in order to be able to lead them."
"oh oh."
Chen Min smiled sheepishly and hesitated: "I'm just afraid of causing trouble to you...Xiao Huzi has a family and a career, and is very busy every day. I'm afraid it will affect his work or something."
"What are you afraid of?
!”
Ahu said cheerfully: "I'll go back and tell him to go! That brat can't do anything else, but his arrogance is almost the same as when I was young.
I am upright, and he is also upright.
Isn’t it right to take care of your little cousin and your own relatives?”
Chen Min still didn't dare to agree and whispered: "Xiao Huzi is very busy, and his career is now very big.
He has always cared about and cared for his cousin, which has always touched me.
But that kid Ah Hao is so hopeless that he might not even dare to follow Xiao Huzi—" "Don't think nonsense!"
Ahu interrupted angrily: "How can you talk to a child like this?
He is still young and still studying. How can we judge that he has no future?
He has no future now and will definitely do so in the future.
You say you are a parent and you just blame your child! Even if you really don’t dare, you still have to encourage him!”
Cheng Tianyuan nodded: "Yes, you have to encourage your children appropriately.
Xiaohao is now facing an academic and emotional crisis, and his body and mind have long been exhausted. You parents must change your perspective. Instead of getting angry and blaming, you must first encourage and help your children to come out of it."
"well!"
Chen Min sighed in embarrassment: "I don't dare to tell my wife at home... If she knew that the boy jumped into the river, she would probably have to jump into the river too."
Ahu pouted: "What's so difficult about this?
If you don’t tell me and we don’t tell you, how could my sister-in-law know?”
Chen Min scratched his short gray hair, feeling helpless and sad.
“When I was a son, I always thought about my family, taking care of my parents and sisters.
Ever since I had a son, I have always felt that their generation is doing so well.
We have food, drink, shelter, a car to ride on when we go out, and money in our pockets to spend.
They don't need to take care of the parents above, and they don't need to earn money, they just need to study well.
But they get depressed at every turn, and are about to jump into the river as soon as they turn around! I don’t know if their life is going too well, or what?
It’s already so good, what else do they want?”
After hearing this, Ah Hu giggled.
“I’ve thought about this too, but I can’t think of the reason at all.
That's right! It was so difficult for us at that time and it was not easy for us to even have a full meal. How could we still survive well?
Why is it that in this generation of young people, we are so fragile and inexperienced!"
Cheng Tianyuan thought calmly and concluded: "It is probably caused by the general environment."
Chen Min smiled wryly: "I also have my own problems.
Neither my wife nor I know how to teach children.
Take a look, your children are all very good, especially A Yuan’s four children. Each one is better than the other, each has its own strengths, and their reading scores are also very good.
What I envy the most is that they have good temperaments, are confident, sunny, and generous.
On the day Yangyang got married, I saw that the brothers and sisters got along well with each other, knew how to socialize and receive guests, and talked very well.
While I was secretly watching, I was secretly envious."
"It also has a lot of shortcomings."
Cheng Tianyuan said: "Don't just look at other people's strengths and focus on your own shortcomings."
Ahu nodded hurriedly: "That's right! The four children of Ayuan's family are all the best among people, you can't compare with them.
In addition, they also have some small shortcomings, but you haven’t been in contact with them for a long time, so you didn’t notice them.”
"Every individual has shortcomings."
Chen Mindao: "No one is perfect.
However, A Yuan's children are indeed outstanding and have few shortcomings. The key is to make their parents worry less.
Unlike Xiaohao and Xiaohuzi, one is so dull that he can't even speak, and the other is so naughty and restless - both are insecure guys!"
Cheng Tianyuan laughed dumbly, motioned to Ah Hu to open the door, turned around and sat down on the wooden pile at the door of the courtyard.
“Didn’t I just say everything?
Don't always envy others blindly. Others may not be as good as you envy them.
We are all parents, so we should feel the same way.
Those in my family also give me and Ling Ling a lot of worry and worry - really."