After hearing this, Ahu and Chen Min both looked sad.
"Are you still worried about a son-in-law like that?
It can't be too good, can it?
What else do you want?
Is it really possible to order one?
Ha ha!"
"That's right! He's talented, handsome, rich, and knows his roots. He even bought a house under your noses, isn't it just so that you can safely marry your daughter to him?"
Cheng Tianyuan stopped: "None of these.
To be honest, this kid Shinzhi is really outstanding.
He has been very self-disciplined and independent since he was a child. He is sensible, polite and strong, has strong learning ability and perseverance. He is considered to be one of the best men in a million.
I have lived for most of my life and have accumulated less than half of what he has.
His conditions are impeccable.
Because of this, I am worried that the distance between Xiaoxin and him is too great, which will affect the stability of the marriage in the future."
"What do you mean?"
Ahu was confused for a while and asked: "The conditions are too good?
The gap is too big?
Isn't that the case?
Xiaoxin is also great!"
Cheng Tianyuan smiled bitterly: "Xiaoxin can match him in appearance and academics, but nothing else is enough."
Chen Min thought for a while and asked: "What do you mean... Xiaoxin is too naive and may suffer a disadvantage in terms of temperament."
"That's one thing."
Cheng Tianyuan explained: “The other aspect is ability.
Xiaoxin is a child who has been protected too well by us. She has a weak temperament and loves to be pretentious, and she doesn’t understand the ways of the world, etc.
Not to mention that she majored in history and will not be able to take care of the property we gave her in the future, so she will be very passive."
Ahu laughed and shook his head: "I think you have an old father mentality, just like me! I also think that no brat can be worthy of my daughter, either here or there!"
"no the same."
Cheng Tianyuan argued: "I think the new one is quite satisfactory."
Chen Min's daughter is still young and has never had such concerns, so she has no experience at all.
"Then...are you satisfied, right?
Still not satisfied?"
Ahu was slightly stunned, tilted his head and thought for a moment, then laughed.
Cheng Tianyuan also smiled and shook his head: "I don't know."
Ahu added hot water to them and lay lazily on the sofa.
"I see, actually A Yuan and I are still the same.
It's nothing more than worrying that my daughter will not live well after she gets married.
It's okay for a son to fall down, but it's completely different for a daughter.
As a girl, you have to protect her better. I hope she will not be wronged in her husband's family and live a happy life."
Cheng Tianyuan thought further and shook his head: "It's more than that, it's far from enough.
Like our little Xin, she has become more and more delicate as she is raised, especially in the past two years.
I always feel like she is going to be spoiled by Shinzhi.
I am very conflicted. I hope she can be pampered and cared for, but I am afraid that she will be spoiled and manipulated by my son-in-law, and her life will get worse in the future."
"What a contradiction!"
Ahu laughed heartily: "I want my son-in-law to take care of her, but I am afraid that she will be spoiled and have no autonomy in the marriage in the future."
Cheng Tianyuan whispered worriedly: "If she had already graduated and found a job, and Xin Zhi appeared again, maybe I wouldn't have to worry so much.
By then, her character had been developed.
Having experience in college and employment will make her more mature and her character more stable."
"Why!"
Chen Min joked: "You didn't drink tonight, why do you seem drunk?
Things have already happened, and you are still talking about this?
'What if' and the like, aren't they all nonsense?"
"Yes! Nonsense!"
Ahu added.
Cheng Tianyuan didn't care at all, and commented to himself: "I also think it's nonsense. After all, the facts are facts. The only solution now is to find ways to remedy it."
"It's not that serious, is it?"
Ahu asked funnyly: "Brother, are you thinking too much?
I think Xiaoxin is pretty cool!"
Cheng Tianyuan shook his head helplessly and explained: "In the past, when her brothers went to college, they took the bus to and from school by themselves, and their food, drink, housing and transportation were similar to those of ordinary students.
Her third brother is similar now, except that the third brother has been drawing comics online for several years and receives royalties every month, so his life is better off than her two brothers.
However, the third child still adheres to a simple student life style and has no habit of spending money.
Xiaoxin used to be driven in and out by a driver, but now she is picked up and dropped off by a new driver after school.
The mobile phone was given by Xinzhi, as was the schoolbag, and even the clothes and shoes were custom-made for her by Xinzhi.
Even the writing pens were given by Shinzhi.
She relies on Xinzhi for everything now, even when she buys things online and registers an account, she uses Xinzhi.
Originally, her independence ability was skewed, and she was the worst among the four.
Since Xin Zhi came, she has almost lost her ability to be independent and relies on him to solve even the smallest problems."
"This... seems to be a bit exaggerated."
Ahu muttered: "It seems that being too dependent is not good.
First of all, it’s too tiring to come to Xinzhi, and secondly, Xiaoxin will be like a doll from now on, only responsible for being pretty.”
Cheng Tianyuan lowered his voice: "He seems to be enjoying himself very much. He also hired an assistant to arrange Xiaoxin's daily life, so he shouldn't be too tired.
It's just that he was too considerate and treated Xiaoxin like a 'little baby', which made me very worried.
Xiaoxin is becoming more and more squeamish and her hands-on ability is getting worse, which makes me secretly more worried."
Chen Min couldn't help but ask: "Where is my sister-in-law?"
My sister-in-law has always been very strict with her children, so she shouldn’t agree to this situation, right?
Girls do need care, but they can’t rely too much on others. Not to mention the lack of independence, they may develop a lot of that...that...what young people say...whatever!"
"Princess disease."
Cheng Tianyuan took over.
Chen Min suddenly realized: "Yes, yes! That's the word!"
Ahu chuckled and said, "You two are quite funny! You even used young people's words!"
Cheng Tianyuan shook the water in the water glass and sighed: "Everything is too much, and I think the hidden dangers are quite big.
Xiaoxin's 'princess disease' has become more and more serious recently, but I was the only one to notice it. Everyone else was busy and no one noticed it at all."
Chen Min asked: “Where is my sister-in-law?
Didn't you ask her opinion?"
"did not ask."
Cheng Tianyuan explained: "A while ago she was busy with Er Er's wedding, and recently she was busy with the construction of Ah Huan's new nursing home in the suburbs.
She was too busy and must not have noticed the situation of the fourth child.
I hesitated in my heart whether to ask her for help, but I was also afraid that she would severely punish Xiaoxin."
Ahu looked at him and whispered: "What are you afraid of?
Even if my sister-in-law punishes Xiaoxin, she can at most just say something and punish her for copying her homework.
Xiaoxin is also her darling, how can she be willing to punish her severely?"
"Will do."
Cheng Tianyuan said: "I have been married to her for so many years, how can I not understand her?
If she knew that Xiaoxin couldn't even live in the dormitory, and even asked Xinzhi to buy and arrange a pair of socks, she might have yelled."
"What?"
Ahu frowned and asked, "Can't you live in the dormitory?