Zheng Duoduo has been with Xue Ling for many years and knows her character quite well.
Hearing her say this, it was obvious that the matter had reached a serious level, otherwise she would never have said the word "warning".
He coughed uncomfortably and smiled awkwardly.
“Sister, your future son-in-law loves your daughter, why don’t you want it?
If it were another mother-in-law, she might have to pray to gods and pray in the hope that her son-in-law would love and pamper her daughter!"
Xue Ling: "Hey!"
He let out a cry and smiled helplessly.
"He loves Xiaoxin, so we are naturally happy.
But Xiaoxin is immature and her character is not stable enough. If I give her an overly pampering environment at this moment, I am afraid that her future will be even more difficult.
Duoduo, I believe you should understand my philosophy on educating children."
"Understand, understand!"
Zheng Duoduo nodded hurriedly.
Having been her neighbor for many years and her direct subordinate for many years, I quite agree with her views on education, otherwise her children would not be so outstanding.
"But Sister Ling, you don't have to worry too much."
Zheng Duoduo laughed and said: "Xiaoxin is also a very good girl. Except for her softer personality, everything else is fine!"
Xue Ling shook her head slowly: "As a mother, I don't want her to be too weak.
Women can be soft, but not weak.
If she continues to indulge in her temperament, she will probably become more than weak in the future."
"It's not that serious."
Zheng Duoduo lowered his voice: "Xiaoxin has good academic performance and a gentle temperament.
I didn't find anything wrong... Could it be that I missed something, or are you too sensitive, Sister Ling?"
Xue Ling had no choice but to explain: "You didn't meet her much and didn't have much contact with her, so you missed her transformation over the past six months.
However, you should know about the new ‘Golden House Hidden Beauty’ thing about her a while ago.”
Forehead?
Zheng Duoduo rolled his eyes in embarrassment and then laughed in apology.
"I know I can never hide it from you. After all, you are famous for your fiery eyes!"
Xue Ling glanced at him and snorted, pretending to be angry.
"How old are you, and you still do this in front of me?
I am old, but I am not old and stupid yet! Xinzhi bought her a house and hired a nanny to take care of her three meals a day.
She doesn't even need to wash her clothes, she just has enough food to live her life.
How does she look like a student?
Can Teito University arrange a high-end single dormitory for each student, and have a nanny take care of each student?
ah?"
Just because she doesn't say anything doesn't mean she doesn't know anything.
Although she is busy, she has tried her best to spend time with her family since she retired. She does not know everything about her son and daughter, but she can still have a general understanding.
When that girl came back from school on weekends, she immediately had a huge appetite. She ate and drank and wanted to make up for all the food she had eaten before.
Moreover, on the day she returns home, she will take yesterday's clothes home and wash them together. The reason is that it is not easy to hang the clothes on the balcony to collect dust when she returns home during the holidays.
Ever since Chen Xinzhi bought her a high-end suite and often took her out to have big meals, she didn't like going home on weekends.
Even when I go home, I just hide in my room playing games or reading books, and my appetite is not high at all.
Two weeks later, she began to notice something strange about her daughter and quietly called her dormitory. Her roommate said that she had not been living in the dormitory recently and asked her to call Xiaoxin's cell phone.
Zheng Duoduo laughed and apologized: "Sister, he has stepped back from the brink and abandoned this safe house in time.
After Xiaoxin finished her exam, he had fired the nanny and closed the apartment.
It's just a house he invested in, a small transition.
Don't be angry, he has changed his ways."
Xue Ling stopped and said, "Don't say nice things to him, I still know very well what kind of person Xinzhi is.
He is too doting on Xiaoxin and takes too much care of her.
That girl is still in school, so we can't let her lose her limbs and keep her food inseparable.
She is a girl, and I have lowered my requirements for her, but keeping her under wraps will only spoil her."
"Xiaoxin is a well-measured child."
Zheng Duoduo couldn't help but make the final struggle.
Xue Ling smiled slightly and said: "What else?
If she has no bottom line, how can I agree with her finding a man to fall in love at such a young age?
If it were an ordinary boy, then I would definitely think it was a little girl who was just starting to fall in love, and like her brothers, I would pretend I didn't know.
But she happened to find such a powerful business veteran, so I was even more troubled.
Xiaoxin is my daughter, I still understand her.
Originally, I was worried that she was too delicate, too indulgent of herself, and had no requirements for herself, but now that she has Shinzhi as a great protector, she will be able to let herself go even more."
Zheng Duoduo finally admitted defeat and whispered: "It is true... Tietou occasionally dotes on her too much, which is beyond what Xiaoxin can bear at her age."
"yes."
Xue Ling smiled bitterly: "Xiaoxin's three views are fine, and there won't be any big problems with her values for the time being.
This child Xin Zhi is really good, otherwise we would not trust Xiao Xin to him.
But he still went too far this time.
Duoduo, we are old neighbors, and you should be very clear about my children's views on money and education."
She had already made a lot of money when her children were very young. She owned large shopping malls, a dazzling array of high-end commercial buildings, and large tracts of expensive land in the imperial capital.
She has many business partners or friends who are struggling with the education of their children. Many children only know how to have fun and enjoy themselves, but do not know how to use their parents' resources to create their own wealth, and even destroy the foundation that their parents have worked hard to save for decades.
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There were countless such examples, and she was used to them all.
Of course, there are also some children who are better than their peers. It cannot be said that all second-generation or third-generation rich people are like this.
But she is worried that her children will become prodigal, worried that they will destroy her wealth, and even more worried that they will ruin her life and the future of the family.
"Duo Duo, it is easier to conquer a country than to defend it.
I have semi-retired, and those who will take over are my descendants or trusted descendants, such as you.
If I don't educate you all well, how will you be able to hold on to this industry in the future?
The ancients said: When a family is ruined and divorced, there is no word for luxury; when a person is ruined and divorced, there is no word for ease; and when people are displeased and divorced, there is no word for arrogance.
Xiaoxin already has two of them, how can I not worry?
Um?"
After Zheng Duoduo heard this, he breathed a sigh of relief and nodded solemnly.
"Sister, I understand.
Don't worry, I will tell Xin Zhi."
Xue Ling chuckled: "No need to say more, just give a rough outline.
Xin Zhi is a very smart person who knows everything he needs.
I didn't want to tell him directly because I was concerned about his face.
He was originally helping me love my daughter, but instead I complained about him.
And I’m afraid that if I say something too harshly, I might hurt my feelings.”
"understood."
Zheng Duoduo smiled with crooked eyebrows: "When you say that, I know how to control it appropriately."