Xue Yang felt extremely uneasy and didn't know where to place his eyes.
"Our family has always been large, including many brothers.
Naturally, it is impossible for me to only have one child... I told Xiaoxiao before that when the economy gets better and we have more free time, we can have one or two more babies.
I hope to be like your parents - have four children."
He grew up in a big and lively family since he was a child. He has grandparents behind him, brothers and sisters around him. He never has to worry about loneliness, let alone no one else to shoulder the responsibility of something.
Because no matter what happens, everyone will work together to get through it.
From childhood to adulthood, the atmosphere at home has been harmonious, with old and young loving each other.
The old people help each other, take care of each other, and have deep feelings.
My parents love each other as deep as the ocean, and they almost never quarrel. No matter what happens at home, they always discuss it and support this huge family side by side.
People who grow up in such a big family will naturally love their family and want to strive for their own big family. They hope that their children and grandchildren can enjoy the excitement and sense of community brought by a big family like him.
"It's just..." Xue Yang faltered: "Now is really not the time..." Cheng Tianyuan glared at him and asked: "Then when is the time?
ah?"
Xue Yang shrank his neck and whispered: "At least wait until my economic conditions are more stable and I have more free time.
After Xiaoxiao finds a job, she still has to adapt to the job and wait until her job becomes more stable.
Also, Xiaoyu can go to elementary school now and is more sensible. It will definitely be much easier for us to have children when the time comes."
"impossible."
Cheng Tianyuan and Xue Ling said in unison.
Xue Yang: "..." Cheng Huanran poked the back of his brother's head and whispered: "Listen to your parents' explanation first."
Xue Ling smiled, with obvious tiredness in the corners of his eyes.
"Yangyang, Xiaoxiao, among the children in the family, you are the only one who is married and has a family, and has raised a pair of children. The others have not officially entered the marriage hall yet.
Mom and your dad are both experienced, so I have to tell you a few facts so that you can understand."
Wang Xiaoxiao nodded obediently: "Mom, tell me."
Xue Ling looked at his eldest son and smiled bitterly: "In my opinion, we have never had any leisure time since we gave birth to our eldest son.
Before I was pregnant with my eldest son, our family's financial situation was very poor. Your father and I had to work two jobs, and we were busy during the day and at night.
Those days were very bitter, but also very sweet.
When I was pregnant with Ranran, my family's financial situation was a little better, so we opened a store in cooperation with Ahu and others. I also wholesaled some second-hand goods from my grandpa's clothing factory.
After the birth of Ran, we continued to work hard on our careers while working hard to raise the baby.
Then the second child was born, followed a few years later by the third child and Xiaoxin.
However, he is now thirty-two, and today, the third child, Xiaoxin, and the others are all in their third year of college, and your dad and I don’t seem to have a few leisurely days to spare.”
Others were stunned.
Cheng Tianyuan sighed helplessly: "Raising a child doesn't happen overnight, it takes countless days and nights.
When he was young, you thought it would be easier for you when he went to kindergarten.
Later, when you go to kindergarten, you will find that there are still a lot of things to be busy with.
You think it will be better when he goes to elementary school, but in fact, no matter whether he goes to elementary school, junior high school, high school, or even graduate school, there will never be a day when his parents don't worry about it."
"yes!"
Xue Ling said with a smile: "Yangyang, you are almost twenty-seven. You are already married and have become the father of two children. Your father and I are still worrying about your second child.
What I want to say is - as long as you become parents and elders, you will probably never have to worry about anything in your life."
Xue Yang and Wang Xiaoxiao: "..."
From nothing to something.
In my opinion, as long as you are enterprising, you can never settle down at any time, especially before the age of fifty.
I used to be busy with children and career, but now I am busy with old people and babies.
I never felt like I could relax."
"yes!"
Cheng Tianyuan smiled bitterly: "Who doesn't live a busy life while working hard to make money and take care of the children?
The so-called waiting for when you can be free and when it will be suitable is that you are overthinking it."
Cheng Huanran couldn't help but add: "If you work in a company, the next ten years will be very difficult.
Xiaoxiao and Yangyang, you both graduated from college a few years later than ordinary people because of competitions and training.
It will take at least seven or eight years for your careers to stabilize.
By then you will no longer be young, and Xiaoxiao will also enter the category of advanced maternal age."
"How many years did your Aunt Xue Cong wait? Your cousin received thousands of injections before she finally gave birth to little one."
Xue Ling couldn't help but feel distressed when she thought about it: "I almost couldn't save it at first, and I slept in the incubator for more than a month.
He was too young when he was born, so he was named this way.
That child is prone to illness and is physically weaker than ordinary children. These are all because your cousin gave birth to him at an advanced age."
Cheng Huanran echoed: "So, if you don't want to give birth, then it's a different matter.
If you still want to have a second or third child, you might as well have them while you are young and strong."
"Yes, I think so too."
Xue Ling chuckled: "The economic problems you are worried about are not a problem for the time being.
In addition, instead of letting Xiaoxiao have one child and wait for two or three years, which is intermittently unable to stabilize, it is better to simply take advantage of the opportunity to give birth and wait until the three of them grow up and go to kindergarten together, and then Xiaoxiao can consider going to work.
By then, all the property that Yangyang inherited should be divided. This alone will be enough for Xiaoxiao to be busy, and there is no need to look for any work outside.
Managing your husband's wealth well is much more important than other jobs, and you should earn more."
Rather than leaving it to outsiders to take care of in the future, it is better to teach your daughter-in-law to take care of their family's property.
It’s not that we can’t afford to raise several children, nor that there are no other ways to find employment. Our company and group are well-known, so why worry about economic problems and future employment! “That way… it seems right.”
Xue Yang pushed his daughter-in-law in his arms and whispered: "Honey, I want to start a business now, and I will have to rely on you to take care of my family business in the future.
If you don’t want to do other work, I’ll be in charge of you from now on.”
Wang Xiaoxiao was extremely hesitant, sobbing and sniffing.
"I...I didn't think about it that much.
I just feel...I'm afraid of dragging you down, and I'm also afraid of dragging down my parents.
In fact, I couldn't bear to abort the child at all...I was very confused and worried."
She is a person who loves children very much. She wants to love other people's children, let alone her own flesh and blood.
"Since you can't bear to leave, just stay."
Xue Ling smiled: "Anyway, you will graduate in two or three months. At that time, you will hire a nanny or nanny to help you at home and bring up the three of them together. You will make plans slowly. There is no need to worry too much."
So much worry.
Life is long and there are too many turning points and problems. Let’s take them one by one and solve them one by one. Just face it with a steady state of mind.”