After all, Xue Ling was of an older generation and whispered: "Most parents do it for the good of their children.
The starting point is good, but the method may not be right, and the final outcome may not be satisfactory.”
Some things and some feelings are difficult to determine whether they are right or wrong.
She has experienced many people and things in her two lives, and she understands this truth very well.
Different people, different positions, different emotional experiences, and different perspectives can still have a variety of views on the same thing.
No matter how good the parents’ intentions are, it may not necessarily be good for their children.
But most parents in the world love their children so much that they even worry about the next generation until they die.
They also have their own difficulties and helplessness, which their children may not understand.
Of course, the ideas of one generation are completely different from those of the next.
After all, parents are relatively old gingers, and their views on things are more sophisticated and far-sighted than their immature children.
In short, as long as the word "love" is involved, whether it is family affection or love, it is difficult to distinguish right from wrong.
"Madam, I understand what you mean."
Ah Chao walked around the steering wheel and explained: "As a father, I can fight tooth and nail for my daughter - really! I can understand my parents to some extent, maybe a little."
But after all these years, I still resent them a little."
"Will it still happen now?"
Xue Ling couldn't help but ask.
Ah Chao nodded and whispered: "I was really persistent at that time, very persistent.
I told them that even if I made the wrong choice, give me a chance to regret it myself, so that I can truly have no regrets.
But they just wouldn't listen, no matter what they said.
That incident is like a scar on my heart...it will never heal."
Xue Ling squinted his eyes and looked at the dark night outside the window, and said warmly: "Time can heal all scars.
Don’t remember the scars, otherwise the old wounds will still hurt from time to time.”
"well!"
Ah Chao smiled bitterly: "It has indeed gotten better over the years. Time is indeed a good medicine."
Xue Ling chuckled: "Yes, time is indeed a good medicine.
Ah Chao, everyone moves forward, no one can go back to the past.
Since I am determined to live a good life with my wife, let the past go.
This is a relief for you, right?"
"Um."
Ah Chao whispered: "I am pretty good to my wife.
Apart from being a little lazy, there's nothing wrong with her.
She takes good care of her daughter and the house is in good order, so that's enough.
I didn't dare to tell her a word about the past.
That was just the past and had nothing to do with her.
I only blame my parents and don't dare to anger anyone."
Xue Ling couldn't help but ask: "Do your parents regret it?"
"Those years when I was single, they were really anxious and regretful."
Ah Chao frowned and replied: "Later I got married and had a daughter, and they seemed to have forgotten everything.
I didn’t say it with my mouth, but I remembered it in my heart.”
"Is it possible to hold a grudge for the rest of your life?"
Xue Ling laughed dumbly.
Ah Chao shook his head: "I don't know.
Anyway, I still complain about them now, and I guess I will still complain about them in the next few decades."
The car became quiet.
Suddenly, Xue Ling asked without thinking: "Achao, what do you think of this young man Lin Qingzhi?"
"He?"
Ah Chao laughed and replied: "I am an old emperor, I have never eaten pork and I have seen pigs running away.
I have heard the name of the Lin family for a long time, but it's a pity that I only heard about it. I have no qualifications to deal with such a young master, and I have no chance to get close.
Following you, my wife, over the years, I have met many important people.
This young master Qing is very low-key, and I was lucky enough to meet him only when he came into contact with the third young master."
Xue Ling asked again: "What do you think... of him?"
"Ouch!"
Ah Chao burst out laughing: "Madam, how am I qualified to comment on such a condescending young man! He doesn't look like a mortal like us! Any more words would be blasphemous!"
Xue Ling laughed: "Is it that exaggerated?"
"Yes, I have!"
Ah Chao told the truth: "He looks like the kind of otherworldly person.
It is said that the Lin family's wealth is countless, and no one can estimate the exact extent of their wealth.
After all, he is from an old noble family, so who can tell how much is hidden in his family's vault?"
"Um."
Xue Ling nodded: "He is indeed a very elegant and refined young man. It is indeed rare for him to have such magnanimity at such a young age."
Ah Chao hurriedly echoed: "More than a hundred years ago, we would all have to kneel down and kowtow when we met! Haha! Someone on the Internet said that seeing Young Master Qing's appearance, the ancient nobles and princes finally had an appearance that they could look up to!
"
"Online?"
Xue Ling couldn't help but ask: "Has he still appeared online?"
As far as she knew, the Lin family had always been very secretive and low-key, and rarely appeared in the upper class circles of the imperial capital.
Only the respected elders of the older generation have the opportunity to interact with the Lin family of the older generation.
In the past ten years, the Lin family has not appeared in the media in the imperial capital.
Ah Chao replied: "Someone secretly took a photo of him. It's a profile of a certain figure. He looks very elegant - the sense of déjà vu of an ancient scholar.
Before, Xiao Huang and I picked up Third Young Master and had contact with Young Master Qing's bodyguard.
We were afraid of accidentally offending Mr. Qing, so we planned to check his information online. Unexpectedly, there were just a few candid photos and nothing else.
His bodyguard said that his young master doesn’t like the gaudy online style.
As long as it goes a little too far, the lawyers will publicize it."
Xue Ling smiled slightly: "There is a reason why the Lin family has been able to stand firm for more than a hundred years despite the ups and downs."
"Uh-huh."
Ah Chao lowered his voice: "Everyone in the imperial capital knew the Lin family before.
The imperial capital has changed a lot now, and there are many more outsiders than us locals.
How do outsiders know how deep the Lin family's heritage is - whether it's worth hundreds of billions?
I guess it’s more than that.”
Xue Ling chuckled: "Other people's wealth may shrink or change.
Their family owns a lot of real estate, most of which are antiques, the value of which cannot be estimated.
On the contrary, it will continue to appreciate.
Not to mention outsiders, even their own family probably can't estimate it."
After a pause, Xue Ling asked funnyly: "I asked you how he is evaluated in your bodyguard circle. You couldn't come up with a suitable adjective for a long time, and you just kept saying how rich and powerful the Lin family is - I know this.
You don’t need to emphasize it.”
"Hahaha!"
Ah Chao explained: "The Lin family is definitely a well-regarded family in the industry, and the remuneration they give is extremely high! It's just that they don't hire people casually, and the conditions are very high, so not many people can go."
Xue Ling became interested for a moment and asked curiously: "What are the conditions?"