It's just that I envy you, you envy him, and he is most likely envious of me, going around in circles, it's just the human heart that is at work.
Zheng Xiaoyi understood and began to feel relieved.
"Sister, then don't mention it to him.
I don't have much confidence in myself, but I still have a lot of confidence in him.
Ah Huan is not that kind of man, he will not give the other party a chance."
Xue Ling laughed dumbly: "Of course there is no need to mention it, our Xue family are all devoted lovers."
"All?"
Zheng Xiaoyi thought for a while and whispered: "It seems to be true... The Xue family members I know all seem to have a strong sense of responsibility and are serious people. I have never heard of anyone having an affair or becoming a mistress."
Xue Ling shook his head: "No, really not.
The Xue family are all people with a strong sense of family responsibility. They will not abandon the family easily and put the family at the center of everything.
Look at A Heng, even if he is divorced, he will not go out to mess around with men and women and indulge in feelings. He still regards family as the center of his life.
Of course, there are no absolutes in the world, and neither are people."
Another example is Uncle Zhilan. Even though he was madly in love with his childhood sweetheart, he got married. Even if he reunited with his beautiful first love many years later, he could still suppress his feelings and eventually return to his family and spend the rest of his life with his wife.
Zheng Xiaoyi: "Ah!"
He made a sound and asked out of curiosity: “Sister, what’s going on with Brother Aheng and Sister Afang now?
Can the two of them remarry?
At this age, and my daughter is already so old, I wonder what they are still fussing over?"
They have often lived together over the years, but they always sleep in separate rooms and eat three meals together with their daughter.
Once Cheng Tianfang felt uncomfortable, Xue Heng would immediately take care of her and never avoid anything.
In recent years, Cheng Tianfang has not been in good health and has been living in a nursing home every day.
While Xue Heng arranged for doctors to treat her, he also shuttled her back and forth. He would accompany her and take care of her when he had time, just like an ordinary old couple.
Since the two of them are so close, why not remarry and be together?
"Can not go back."
Xue Ling told the truth: "If they could remarry, would they wait until now?
The feelings are gone long ago, only family affection remains.
After all, they are a loving couple and have a daughter together. Now they can only take care of each other in the name of relatives and give their daughter a relatively complete home.
In fact, they are now family members who support each other, and it doesn't matter whether they remarry or not."
Zheng Xiaoyi couldn't help but sigh: "I used to pity Brother A Heng."
"It's in the past."
Xue Ling lowered his voice: "Time can heal all scars, including the most painful and difficult ones.
Ah Fang learned a lesson from her willfulness and paid a heavy price.
Fortunately, Ah Heng got over it in the end and chose to forgive her."
She almost lost everything, even her life.
Fortunately, she has regained hope. She will have her daughter and her ex-husband Ah Heng for the rest of her life, so she will not be sad for the rest of her life.
Zheng Xiaoyi was silent for a moment and whispered: "The Xue family all have a very tolerant heart, really.
My mother-in-law and father-in-law were always very kind to Cheng Tianfang and never resented or insulted her.
For a while, I even suspected that my father-in-law encouraged Brother Aheng and Sister Afang to remarry."
"A Heng refused."
Xue Ling explained: "He took care of Ah Fang, and in order to teach the rebellious Xiao Han well, he began to contact Ah Fang. In the end, the two reached an agreement to give his daughter a complete home and moved back together.
The two spent more time with their daughter, the family atmosphere gradually softened, and Xiaohan finally passed the rebellious period smoothly.
No, all three of them are doing fine now."
"It's pretty good."
Zheng Xiaoyi lowered his eyes: "In fact, there is no need to remarry like this. It is not much different from an old married couple."
Xue Ling smiled slightly: "Uncle Zhilan said, why care so much, why bother about whether you have a good name or not, and whether you have remarried or not.
Isn't it wrong for two people to keep each other company and take care of each other as relatives?
There are too many square boxes in the world, and when you get older, you can see through everything.
As long as you live a comfortable life, it's none of other people's business if you don't break the law or violate morals."
"real?"
Zheng Xiaoyi chuckled, "Did my father-in-law say that?"
Xue Ling nodded: "He said it himself."
Zheng Xiaoyi gave a thumbs up: "I admire you!"
"When you get to his age, you will probably be more tolerant than him."
Xue Ling laughed and said, "I'm not good at it yet. There are too many things that I care about, so naturally there are too many square boxes."
Zheng Xiaoyi shook his head firmly: "Impossible.
Sister, you are not an ordinary person.
You don’t need to be my dad’s age to be wiser and more thoughtful than him.”
Xue Ling's heart moved slightly, and she couldn't help but think of Lao San and Lin Qingzhi.
She smiled lowly and bitterly: "Not yet, I'm not at that level yet."
Zheng Xiaoyi patted her shoulder: "Even if we can't reach it now, we will reach it in the future - not far away!"
Xue Ling smiled bitterly: "I hope so."
Zheng Xiaoyi was not a very perceptive person, so he did not notice anything. He raised his head and looked at the dim night sky, squinting his eyes and sighing with emotion.
"Sister, life flies so fast! In a blink of an eye, my children have grown up...and I have also entered middle age.
In a blink of an eye, even my little brother who is so many years younger than me has become a father! Maybe next time I have time to feel this way, we are already gray-haired."
Xue Ling smiled slightly: "Life is indeed very, very fast."
Even though she has lived two lives and experienced countless things in the world, she still can't help but feel this way.
“When I was young, I was ignorant until I was seven or eight years old. Later, I only studied and studied every day. My life was monotonous and boring.
By the time I realized the importance of studying, I had already left school.
I have just learned how to be a mother, but my children have grown up. There is no time to correct my mistakes, and most of my experiences will become regrets.
Before you have time to realize that you have grown up and matured, when you take a closer look at yourself in the mirror, you are already gray-haired."
Zheng Xiaoyi narrowed his eyes and smiled, murmuring: "Yes, I feel the same way."
"That's all."
Xue Ling said warmly: "The only thing you can do is cherish every day and try not to leave too many regrets. That's all."
Zheng Xiaoyi leaned on her shoulder and asked: "Sister, do you think you have any big regrets in this life?
What is it?"
"There are a lot of small regrets, but no big regrets for the time being."
Xue Ling told the truth.
In this life, she has filled up her biggest regret in her previous life, which is her greatest satisfaction.
Zheng Xiaoyi asked again like a chat: "Is there anything particularly satisfying?
What is the most satisfying thing?”
"have."
Xue Ling replied: "Marry A Yuan and form a big happy family with him."
Zheng Xiaoyi chuckled and joked: "Wow~~~Sister, this is the rhythm of spreading dog food!"