Cheng Tianyuan analyzed: "How serious can a husband and wife quarrel be?
You stood by to help, and you also helped your own son - that's your fault.
Xiaohuzi was instigated by you and beat up Shanyou - you are also responsible for this!"
"I...I didn't say I was right either."
Ahu held his head irritably, "Wasn't I angry at that time?
I only have two precious grandchildren, how can I bear to leave one of them in the South Island!"
Cheng Tianyuan's tone softened slightly and he said in a low voice: "We are just discussing it now, and it has not been finalized yet.
If Xiao Huzi refuses, Shan You will naturally not do it rashly.
This matter mainly depends on Xiaohuzi."
Ahu: "Hey!"
She made a sound and said angrily: "Yuyou is also a clueless person! She listens to her parents in everything! She does whatever her parents say! She only thinks about her parents, why doesn't she think about us?
Think about it! My mother raised me as a widow, and I didn’t marry Wang Qing until I was in my thirties.
I have a son named Xiaohuzi.
Finally, I have two grandsons, and I finally don’t need to pass it on to three generations alone—how can I let the little one go to the South Island for adoption?”
Cheng Tianyuan shook his head: "Don't think too much.
Xiao Huzi and Shan You are both still young, and they are planning to have a third child.
The Shanyoshi couple have been ill in recent years, and their only daughter, Shanyou, is married far away here. The two old people are too lonely, so they inevitably want a lively and cute little guy to keep them company, so they made such a request.
.”
"What about me?"
Ahu shook his head: "I can't bear to part with it either! I also want my mini tiger!"
Seeing that he was angry, Cheng Tianyuan couldn't help but remind him: "Calm down, your blood pressure is going to spike again."
Ah Hu collapsed on the sofa, angrily speechless.
Cheng Tianyuan wiped Xiao Xiaohu's mouth and coaxed him to watch TV.
"You, you must have a good attitude.
As the saying goes, children and grandchildren will have their own blessings.
If you are in a hurry here, maybe Shanyou and Xiaohuzi have already reconciled and discussed things well.
When your son and daughter-in-law quarrel, if it is just a small quarrel, you pretend not to hear it.
If the noise is too loud, you have to step forward to persuade them to leave.
When we quarrel, no matter what you say or what I say, no one will give up.
But only one side is pulled away, and if the elders help to coax it, everything will be fine soon.
It would be better for you to help your own son instead of helping him! This is your biggest mistake today."
"Actually, Ah Qing and I also love Youyou."
Ahu muffled: "You also know this."
Cheng Tianyuan nodded: "I know! But at that time, everyone was so angry that they couldn't think calmly.
If you can calm down, there's no point in quarreling, right?"
Ah Hu let out a long sigh.
Cheng Tianyuan said: "My daughter-in-law is no better than my own daughter.
My Xiaoxin is the youngest in the family. She is the most squeamish and loves to act coquettishly, and she has a lot of bad habits.
Although I love her the most and dote on her, I still have to say it when I need to say it, and I still have to scold her when I need to scold her.
Lingling also said that among the children, she is the most worrying.
But Xiaoxiao is different.
We can scold Xiaoxin, but it is difficult to criticize our daughter-in-law, even if the tone is harsher.
Even if our daughter is beaten, she was born and raised by us. If her bones are broken and her tendons are connected, she will grow back and recover as before.
My daughter-in-law is different. It is my duty to love her, but scolding her is too much."
"You rarely scold your children."
Ahu muttered: "How does he look like a little tiger? He has always been angry with me since he was a child!"
Cheng Tianyuan nodded: "Every child is different! Little Huzi has been naughty and mischievous since he was a child, and we are more gentle.
He is angry with you, but he is also filial to you, right?
Our Xiaoxiao is also a good child, diligent, polite and able to endure hardships.
It was so hard to be pregnant with twins, but she gritted her teeth and persevered.
Less than two years after she passed away, she gave birth to two boys and two girls in one go.
She is a great contributor to our family.
For this reason alone, our whole family must love her and love her."
Ahu couldn't help but ask: "If the mother-in-law and the father-in-law came and asked for one or two of them to have their last name - would you agree?
One for them?”
"Let Yangyang and Xiaoxiao make their own decisions."
Cheng Tianyuan chuckled: "Lingling and I really can't care about that much.
When my mother was still alive, she was angry that Xiaoyu didn't follow my surname of "Cheng", and we even had a fuss for several days.
Do you still remember this?"
"Um."
Ahu replied: "Remember."
Cheng Tianyuan continued: "I had the same idea as Lingling at the time.
Let Xue Yang and Xiaoxiao arrange this matter, and we will not interfere.
My mother can't accept it because she is an old-fashioned and old-fashioned person.
Lingling and I have the same idea.
Anyway, no matter what the child's last name is, they are all our grandchildren, there is no difference.
We have four children, one and two each with our last name.
But no matter what their last name is, they are all our children, there is no difference at all.
Brother, times have changed, and so have people’s thoughts and ideas.
Don’t worry too much about what you have or don’t have, the truth is to live a stable life.”
"You said it too easily!"
Ahu said depressedly: "That's because you are open-minded... In fact, you are also very traditional at heart."
Cheng Tianyuan chuckled: "I have changed a lot over the years, partly because Lingling has changed me, and partly because I have grown older and have taken things lightly.
I don’t know why, maybe because I have lived longer and my temperament is much calmer.
Some things that seemed life-and-death in the past now seem to be just trivial things, and you can even smile and not care.
I am indeed old."
As people live a long time, they no longer care about many things.
Sometimes it is the helplessness of being powerless, sometimes it is the calmness of indifference, and it is also the calmness and wisdom accumulated over the years.
Ahu thought for a while and whispered: "What you just said - some people regard bird's nests as treasures, while others regard them as rubbish.
Whether it’s treasure or trash, the most important thing is what the person thinks of it, right?
When you don't care, it doesn't matter.
When you care about it, keep it in your heart.”
A Yuan and Lingling are both open-minded people, so they don't care too much about their grandson's surname and leave it all to their juniors.
He is different from Wang Qing. They care too much, so they worry about gains and losses.
"That's the truth."
Cheng Tianyuan lowered his voice: "Don't take it too seriously, it will make you feel more relaxed.
You can take care of your sons, daughters, and grandchildren, but can you continue to take care of them?
What about great-grandchildren?
In the past, when the ancestors changed their names, they probably thought they were just identifying them and remembering which clan they came from.
Later, there were more people, they lived together, there were intermarriages, and various surnames were given and changed, and everything became chaotic a long time ago.
During our lifetime, it is good enough that our children live well and live a stable and happy life.
Old man, please take everything lightly."
"Alas..." Ahu sighed faintly: "That's all, let them young people make their own decisions.