What does "shooting oneself in the foot" mean? That should be it.
Everyone laughed! Cheng Tianyuan glanced at his beloved wife dotingly and hurriedly helped her out.
"Dad, Mom, the situation is different.
There is a huge gap between the views on marriage a few decades ago and the views on marriage today.
I was very poor at that time, and my family owed a lot of debt. Ling Ling didn't mind it at all. The day after my wedding, she accompanied me to the county town to make money.
Like you, we just want to build a happy and loving family and live a good life.
Today’s young people have no shortage of food and clothing, and their thinking is obviously much more complicated.”
"yes!"
Xue Ling interfaced: "As people's hearts become more complex, they become more wary. It is reasonable to be more prepared and wary about the choice of marriage, and to be more afraid.
Like our eldest son, he lacks everything and does not think marriage is a necessity for him.
So unless he meets a girl who really makes his heart beat, he will not nod to get married.
But he is already in his thirties and has long passed the budding period of youthful vigor, so he cannot be easily moved."
"so what?"
Dad Xue said with a smile: "Analysis, analysis, your eldest son will have no choice but to remain single unless Yue Lao suddenly appears and sends him a fairy who can make him fall in love!"
Everyone laughed again.
Xue's mother couldn't help but said: "If you urge him, it will be good after all. He must have an idea in mind and know that his family expects him to start a family soon."
"Need not."
Xue Ling shook his head: "He knows it well."
Mother Xue looked at her son-in-law on the side and warned: "Ayuan, your wife is unreliable.
Mom knows that in your heart you also hope that Ranran will get married soon, right?"
Cheng Tianyuan was slightly stunned, not daring to refuse his mother-in-law's ardent wish.
"...Okay, I'll give it a try when I get the chance."
"What does it mean to have a chance?"
Ahu asked funnyly: "He lives at home every day, so you still have to make an appointment to meet and chat with him?"
Cheng Tianyuan secretly glared at him and warned him not to cause trouble.
Ahu had no choice but to suppress his laughter.
Father Xue is a person who likes to inquire deeply. He looked at his daughter and asked: "What if - I mean 'if', if the eldest or the third child does not plan to get married and remains single, what will you parents do?"
?”
The second child, Xue Yang, got pregnant first and then got married. He married the girl of his choice and gave birth to two sets of lovely twins in two years.
My family is happy and my career is booming. I am now married and established.
The fourth child is a delicate girl, good-looking, good at studies, and born with great luck. She has met a good man who loves her like a treasure.
Now she has opened her own studio and is already earning a lot of money before she graduates. She is surrounded by a fiancé who will marry her as soon as she graduates. No need to guess, she knows that she will be very happy.
But the eldest brother has been emotionally frustrated in the past, and he is also a veteran at his age. If unfortunately he really cannot meet a girl who makes his heart beat, can we bear to let him stay single?
There is also the third child, who is so well-behaved that they feel reassured. He does nothing but study and paint. He has never even dated a girlfriend in his early twenties.
Other families are worried about their children secretly falling in love during junior high school and high school, but this family has never worried about it, because currently only the fourth child is dating in high school, and everything else is very slow.
It is human nature for parents to worry if they are too careful.
But the third child seemed to be apathetic and could only think about painting, which had to be worrying! Xue Ling was slightly stunned when his father asked him this question.
She couldn't help but think of Laosan and Lin Qingzhi, and she felt secretly nervous.
"I... still want to ignore it.
To me, it’s good that they can be healthy and happy, and that I feel happy and fulfilled. Sometimes I really can’t force myself too much.
Marriage is very important, very, very important.
But young people may not necessarily think the same as we think."
"It's over."
Mother Xue smiled bitterly and sighed: "You are quite open-minded."
Xue Ling chuckled and apologized: "I can't help it! If I can persuade you, I will definitely give some advice, but I can't intervene.
When a child grows up, he has the right to choose his own happiness. Sometimes we really can't control it and we can't control it."
"I can't control it, so I don't care."
Cheng Tianyuan smiled softly and said, "They have grown up, and sometimes they really can't be controlled."
Wang Qing didn't believe it at all and asked with an angry smile: "Are you serious?
Don’t regret it then! It’s easy to say it now, but when you’re forty, it won’t matter if you can still be as relaxed as you are now!”
Ah Hu stopped and said: "Don't listen to them, they are just chatting and can't do anything.
These kids are all so good, so I'm not afraid that they won't find a partner, they have confidence in Ranran, so they dare to say this."
Xue Ling chuckled and did not comment.
Cheng Tianyuan thought it was just a chat and didn't take it seriously at all.
Unexpectedly, Xue Ling suddenly said: "The third child may not want to get married and wants to be an 'unmarried person'."
ah?
?
!! Everyone was startled and stared at her one after another.
"What?
Who do you think is unmarried?"
"The third child?
Don't want to get married?
What did he say?"
"impossible?
Why is he not getting married?"
Seeing that all of them were so frightened, Xue Ling secretly broke into a cold sweat.
Even if they are not married, if they know the true orientation of the third child, it will really be a storm! It seems very necessary to vaccinate them first, so as not to be unable to bear it for a while.
.
"That...this is what the third child said himself."
Xue Ling's eyes moved slightly and he whispered: "Of course, he hasn't made a final decision yet.
He said that he didn’t want to find a lovely girl to be with for the rest of his life.”
"What?
!The third child really said that?
!”
"Isn't it?
We are talking about the boss now, why did he suddenly become the third boss?"
"How old is he?
! He won’t get married until he graduates next year?
Damn it! He was poisoned by the wrong ideas of the younger generation!"
"When did you say that?
How come I don’t know! Did that guy really say that?
!ah?"
Xue Ling didn't dare to stay any longer and quickly stood up.
"Okay, okay, don't ask or talk.
This is true, he did plan this.
I haven’t persuaded him yet, but I feel that he is still young and may change a few more times, so I’m holding back for the time being.”
After saying that, she also hurriedly ran away.
Father Xue shouted: "That's not okay! You don't care, but we have to!"
Xue's mother scolded: "How can you be a mother like you! If you can't control it, just leave it alone!"
Cheng Tianyuan froze on the spot, unable to react.
"The third child...does he want to stay married?
real?"
Ahu pushed him and stopped.
"Don't worry, the third child is probably just talking.
Nowadays, there are so many young people who want to be DINK without marriage. They are probably bewitched by their peers.
The third child is still young. When one day he falls in love and finds the one he loves, he might immediately take her and get married! Don’t worry!"