Ahu sneered: "Tolerate once, twice or three times - you can't let others tolerate them all the time, right?
Others will not be able to bear it, will be tired, and will be bored!"
Cheng Tianyuan couldn't help but ask: "It's not a big deal this time, why is it so serious again?"
"It's not all about money!"
Ahu angrily explained: “My daughter is getting married, why don’t we prepare some dowry for her?
Isn’t it natural?
She has helped Huzi take care of the club for many years, and she has both merit and hard work. Why should the elder brother give her a little more dowry?
!”
Cheng Tianyuan nodded slowly and asked, "Little Huzi, do you agree?"
Don't be too exaggerated.
It’s hard for young people to make money now, and the financial pressure is very high.”
Ahu told the truth: "Xiaohuzi agreed at first, but Shanyou's family jumped out to object, and he was caught in the middle and couldn't make up his mind!"
Cheng Tianyuan raised his eyebrows and asked: "How much?"
"I said, a house and a car are enough."
Ahu emphasized: "The young man Xiao Yun is looking for is from an ordinary family. It takes a lot of effort to buy a good house! I don't want Xiao Yun'er to be complained by the elders as soon as she walks in, saying that they have to pay a lot of money to marry her."
Empty the wallets of two generations to buy a house.
Her car has been used for several years and it is almost time to replace it, so why not take this opportunity to replace it too.
It's her dowry, and her husband's family doesn't dare to misuse it."
After a pause, he added: "The dowry is richer because I don't want her husband's family to bully her in the future.
I married my daughter to make her happy, not to earn any bride price! I won’t accept any bride price, and I will also prepare a generous dowry for her!”
"fine."
Cheng Tianyuan finally understood and asked in a low voice: "Have you explained to Shanyue and the others that you are just giving Xiao Huzi a cushion for the time being, and will you pay him back in the future?"
"Yes, I have!"
Ahu said excitedly: "I said it all! I said that the lease is not full yet, and when the time is almost up, I will sell two stores or a few houses and return them to Xiaohuzi.
But they - they said it was not necessary! They said it was not easy for Xiao Huzi to start a new business now, it was the time when he was short of money.
He also said that it was just a slap in the face to make someone fat, which was totally unnecessary.
It’s time to invest well now, and when you have money later, you can give your sister as much as you want!”
Cheng Tianyuan nodded: "There is some truth."
"But -" Ah Hu stared and said loudly: "You can't say that! Xiao Yun'er is getting married now, so of course she has to buy her dowry now to make it glamorous! Marriage is a major event in life, when will you make up for it if you miss it?
ah?
Besides, investment is risky. Who knew that guy would make a sure profit if he continued doing it?
right?
If he loses money, will he be out of luck in the future?
I love my son, but I love my daughter even more! If they force us again, I will give all the real estate in the provincial capital to Xiao Yun'er! Xiao Huzi has no share! Let alone their daughter!
"
"Calm down."
Cheng Tianyuan lowered his voice: "What are you doing like this?
Is the picture happy for a moment?
You have pleased and coaxed your daughter, but what about your son?
If you do this, will he be able to feel balanced?
Can you feel better?
They are all your darlings, do you want him to resent you?"
Forehead?
Ahu was speechless for a moment and closed his mouth in embarrassment.
Cheng Tianyuan reminded again: "Don't forget that the children born after Xiao Yun'er gets married will bear the surname of her husband's family and are the grandchildren of other people's families.
You and Wang Qing both live here with Xiaohuzi, and he provides you with three meals a day. He will be responsible for any illnesses you may have.
When you are angry, you just want your daughter to be well. If you offend your son, what will you two do?
Go back to the provincial capital and be alone?
Wouldn’t it be just as lonely when you go back to your hometown?”
After hearing this, Ah Hu finally calmed down a little.
"...Actually, Huzi is more responsible than before and has made a lot of achievements in recent years.
I know he also loves Xiao Yun'er and wants to prepare a dowry for his sister."
Cheng Tianyuan reminded again: "You have to care about your daughter's happiness, but could it be that you don't care about your son's happiness?
Can you bear it?
If the quarrel goes too far, the two of us will no longer be able to live together, and the two little ones will be the worst off."
Ahu suddenly woke up a lot and then let out a long sigh.
Cheng Tianyuan whispered: "Everyone has advantages and disadvantages.
If you have many advantages, others will generally use the term "good person" to praise you.
Those with more shortcomings are classified as ‘bad people’.
In fact, good guys and bad guys cannot be defined.
When a family gets along, some people have to give more and be more tolerant, otherwise they will care about everything and live a stable life."
"But Shanyue and his wife are getting more and more weird!"
Ahu said in a dissatisfied voice: "Shanyou has never had her own ideas. She always listens to her parents on everything! Look! It's been so many days since I left, and there's no sign of turning back! Are we going to live another day like this?"
"
Cheng Tianyuan also felt it was inappropriate and said, "I'll let Lingling talk about Shan You later."
They are already parents, how can they just ignore their children and walk away just because of a conflict?
In the past, when I was unhappy, I would run back to my parents' house, but now when I am unhappy, I would run back with my parents.
He is already in his thirties, not a three-year-old child, so why does he still have no sense of responsibility at all! A-Hu angrily said: "When I get angry, I leave the child and run away! If the two children were not taken care of by me and A-Qing, just
How can you rely on a nanny! How can you rely on a nanny if you don’t have a master to watch over you?
Nowadays, there are a lot of news reports on TV and the Internet about nannies abusing children. Every time I see it, I am frightened! She just threw her hands to the nanny and ran away! What mother can be so cruel!"
"Calm down."
Cheng Tianyuan analyzed: "Shan You is not mature enough, has a weak sense of responsibility, and is not very capable, but she is not a cruel person."
"well!"
Ahu whispered depressedly: "But she is not a good daughter-in-law, nor is she a good mother.
For Xiao Huzi, she is not a good wife either.
I don’t expect her to help make money to support the family, I just hope she can stop making trouble all day long, causing this and this, causing the family to have no peace.”
Cheng Tianyuan was thoughtful and nodded in agreement.
"Shan Younao has indeed returned to her parents' home quite a lot in the past few years.
However, last year the Shanyue couple fell ill, and it was right for her to take care of them."
Ahu said angrily: "I didn't say no! It's necessary to be filial to your parents, but you can't just listen to her parents in everything - that's stupid filial piety! There are seniors and juniors in this family, and no one is so relaxed!
Why do their families always have to rely on others to tolerate them?
There is a limit to human patience! If this family breaks up, what will their family gain?
If she leaves Xiao Huzi, can she still rely on herself?
We’ve been married for several years, and she can’t even cook a meal! Don’t take yourself too seriously, the world would turn the same without anyone else!”
Cheng Tianyuan glanced at his friend and pushed the small plate.
"Don't be angry, eat some peanuts.
It's baked with salt, so it won't get too hot."
Ah Hu grabbed a handful and did not forget to remind: "Remember to ask my sister-in-law to help persuade me."