When Cheng Tianyuan heard this, he almost fainted! "Other people can get divorced, but your children can do it?"
What's the point?
If divorce is so good, then why did you get married in the first place?
!I just want to get divorced, has anyone thought about my two children? They are still just children in kindergarten!"
Seeing that he was angry, Chen Shuiyu calmed down.
Xue Lingdan's face was sullen, and he was obviously angry.
"Sister Chen, we have known each other for more than thirty years, which is not a short time.
When your family was about to fall apart, I once helped you.
I also helped you when your life was in danger.
Shan You and Xiao Hu Zi met at our place and they became good friends. I was half their matchmaker.
In addition, I am also Xiao Huzi’s god-aunt and can be regarded as their elder.
I think I am somewhat qualified to comment on this matter."
Chen Shuiyu's eyes evaded and he nodded randomly.
Xue Ling slowly said: "Back then, Xiao Huzi and Shan You accidentally slept together after drinking and became pregnant with Xiao Hu.
At first, I thought that they did not have much emotional foundation, and they were only young people in their early twenties and did not have the ability to take care of a family, so I did not support their marriage.
But the parents are traditional people and feel that they have to get married when they are pregnant.
At that time, you thought that Xiao Huzi could make a lot of money at a young age, and you thought he was pretty good, so you agreed to the marriage."
"Over the years, Xiaohuzi has been working hard outside alone, gritting his teeth and holding on despite the hard work.
The courtyard house at the back was earned through hard work, and he also bought the villa on the outskirts of the city.
Including the mansion and luxury cars he bought for you in South Island, they are all in Yoyo's name.
He is a little careless, but he has always shouldered the burden of the family and never shied away from it."
"Shanyou and Xiao Huzi were ignorant at the beginning, then shared weal and woe, and finally gave birth to Mini Tiger. Their relationship became more and more stable, and they were considered a loving couple.
But in the past two or three years, Shan You has left his two children behind to go to the South Island from time to time, sometimes because you were sick, sometimes because of disagreements and temper tantrums."
"Little Huzi has been growing up and maturing. Your Shanyou is obviously older than him, but he is still the same as when he first got married. She is a mother of two children, and she still has tempers and is separated all the time.
He often abandoned his two children and ran away. Xiao Huzi had to make money and take care of his children, and he was very exhausted both mentally and physically.
The young and old couple of Ahu Wang are just like you, they are also elderly people with illnesses, and you are not the only one.
But they were unwilling to leave their children behind and kept guarding the family."
"After Shan You gave birth to the baby, the nanny and Wang Qing helped take care of it.
She has been married for so many years, but she can't cook a meal or a dish, and she has to ask the nanny to take care of the children's clothes.
It’s not an exaggeration to say, ‘Don’t touch the spring water with ten fingers’.
It’s hard for her to take care of her children, but it’s hard for Xiao Huzi to bear such a large family expenses, isn’t it hard for him?”
"Shan You used to have old fans online, and he could still make some extra money, but he gave up later.
She has been married to Xiao Huzi for so many years. How much has she paid for her family and how much has she paid for her children?
Have you ever thought about it?
Have you weighed it carefully?"
Chen Shuiyu remained silent, listening quietly with lowered eyes.
Cheng Tianyuan was so angry that he simply sat on the other side and made tea, not wanting to talk to Chen Shuiyu.
Xue Ling continued in a deep voice: "Divorce is said lightly, but have you really considered Shan You?
Do you think you can find someone better while you are young?
Anyway, divorces abound, so let’s just get married a second time.
Sister Chen, your Shanyou is almost thirty, not eighteen or nineteen.
She does not have a high education or diploma, and she has no financial income. Is it possible that the court will award the two children to a mother who has no financial resources?
Impossible! Moreover, the ones taking care of the children these years have been nannies and Mr. and Mrs. Ahu, not Shan You.
The court will most likely award all the children to Xiaohuzi."
"Divorced, she is a second-married person.
If the child is no longer hers, can she, a mother, endure the pain of missing her child?
Can?
When the couple's property is divided, Xiaohuzi gets half and Shanyou gets half.
Xiao Huzi can make money, he doesn't have to worry about not being able to survive, he can still be a billionaire, live in a mansion and drive a luxury car, and his son is still his.
Where is your Shanyou?"
"Shan Youyi has no financial income and is an advanced mother in her second marriage. Where can she find a young billionaire with good conditions to marry her?
is it possible?
She was not highly educated, had suffered from depression, was past a woman's best child-bearing age, and had a timid temperament.
Nowadays, men with slightly better conditions are all experienced, and they will definitely investigate each other’s background before getting married. How can they possibly want a fragile woman of Shan You’s age?”
Chen Shuiyu was secretly flustered when she heard this. She held her phone and didn't dare to speak, and couldn't find the words to refute.
In the eyes of parents, their children are often the best and the best.
Especially families with daughters are more likely to think that their daughters are treasures and their sons-in-law are pigs who come to take advantage of the cabbage.
Chen Shuiyu and Shanyue both thought that Xiao Huzi was here to support cabbage, and they were always picky about him.
But they never look back to see how outstanding and good their daughters really are.
Living in your own imagination and feeling good about yourself will only harm your daughter in the end.
Xue Ling had a sullen face and said quietly: "I am the aunt who watched Shan You grow up, and I am also Xiao Huzi's aunt.
I love them, both of them feel the same pain.
As a woman, I understand women's disadvantages in this regard.
Xiao Huzi doesn’t have to worry too much about divorce, life will go on as usual anyway, but can Shan You be the same?"
"The money Xiao Huzi has earned over the years has been spent on running the club. Xiaoyun has helped manage the club for many years, with both credit and hard work.
Xiaoyun is getting married, Xiaohuzi helps pay the dowry in advance, and Ahu will definitely return it to his son in the future.
Ahu also has many properties under his name, which will all belong to Xiaohuzi in the future.
As the other half, Shan You only gets a share of the money, so where does he suffer the loss?"
"Everything Xiao Huzi bought after making money was in Shan You's name. He also bought you a car and a house, and promised to provide for you in your retirement and bring you to the imperial capital.
How many men can do what he does?
But you still think Shan You can’t control his finances?
Then why doesn't she go to work at the club?
Go directly to finance?
That way it would be clear, but why didn't she go?
When she asked Xiao Huzi, had Xiao Huzi ever lied to her?
Can you please not be unfair in what you say?
You are all in your seventies, so you have to act with your conscience in mind!"
Chen Shuiyu's eyes were red but she still didn't speak.
Xue Ling said she was tired and felt she had said enough.
"Sister Chen, whether you can get a divorce or not depends on the wishes of the parties involved.
I recorded everything I just said.
I will send these to Shanyou and let her think about it carefully.
People are patient, don't step on other people's bottom lines casually.
Don't let your loved ones disappoint you, otherwise it may be too late to regret.
Remember, if you don’t seek death, you won’t die.”
After saying this, she cut off the video call and sent the recording to Shan You.