Chen Shuiyutian replied shamelessly: "Many people agree! Lingling, people go to higher places and water flows to lower places. This has been the truth since ancient times."
Xue Ling remained indifferent and did not speak.
Chen Shuiyu continued: "We only have a daughter, Youyou, so naturally we have to make more plans for her.
Lingling, you are different from us.
Your family is not short of money and has no worries about the future, but we are old and don't have much money around us, so the only one we can rely on in the future is Youyou."
Wang Qing couldn't listen anymore and interrupted: "Is your family short of food and clothing?
Or are you so poor that you can only eat chaff and drink water?”
Chen Shuiyu was getting older and his ears were not as good as before. He didn't recognize Wang Qing's voice and thought it was Xue Ling who was talking to him.
"No shortage.
But who doesn’t go to higher places, right?
Lingling, you eat delicacies from the mountains and seas every day, how can you understand the discomfort and aggrievement of those who cannot eat them every day.
Youyou has been with Xiao Huzi for so many years and gave birth to two sons for him, but what did she gain?
We are married far away, and we are not used to living in the imperial capital. When we need someone, there is no one, when we need money, we have no money, and we have nothing, so what else can we want?"
Wang Qing snorted and asked: "You want money but don't have any?"
Houses and cars don’t count as money – so what does?”
"It's just one or two small villas, what's the money?"
Chen Shuiyu said disgustedly: "The car is just an ordinary type, what kind of luxury car is it?
Forget it.
We live in a courtyard in the imperial capital, with my parents and my younger sister. There is simply not enough room to live there.
There is a villa in the suburbs, but it's so far away that I can't live there.
These are secondary, the most important thing is that Xiao Huzi has not made much money in these years, and he is timid in exploring his career. He can't see anyone all day long, but he doesn't make much money."
“We want daughters here but no daughters, and we want money but no money.
Youyou is guarding an empty house in the imperial capital. She wants a man but doesn’t have one, and wants money but has no money to spend.
She is still young and beautiful, how can she spend her whole life guarding a useless man who can't see the future! I have long been disgusted with the little tiger. If her father hadn't always said to be patient for the sake of the two children, I would have long ago
I want to break up with their family!"
"At our age, if we can't rely on our daughters, how can we rely on our grandchildren! We are having a hard time, and Shan You is also having a hard time, so why bother having each other suffer.
A person's life is only so long. If he doesn't plan for the future well, he will become old in a few years.
Especially us women, who have been young and beautiful for at most twenty years, there will be no shop like this after passing this village."
Wang Qing was so angry that she covered her chest, her breath was unstable, and she couldn't even speak.
"Too...too shameless..." Xue Ling hurriedly patted her on the back and kept cheering her up.
Chen Shuiyu chatted a few more words on the phone.
Xue Ling frowned and asked, "When Shan You and Xiao Huzi got pregnant before they were married, they had no relationship foundation.
What did I advise you at that time?
I say that a marriage without an emotional foundation is likely to be unstable.
If both people are mature and stable types, and both are not in their twenties, but in their thirties, then there should be no problem.
But both of them are too young and do not have a deep emotional foundation. I am afraid that they will not be able to withstand the trivialities of family and other temptations in the future.
But you didn’t think it mattered at the time! You personally agreed to the marriage."
Chen Shuiyu argued: "Yes, that's true.
We thought the marriage was a good idea at the beginning, otherwise we wouldn't have agreed.
But the facts prove that the original choice was wrong! If you make a mistake, you should correct it. You can't just keep making mistakes forever.
Come back and find the shore!"
"What's wrong?"
Xue Ling asked: "Little Huzi works hard to make money to provide Shanyou and the two children with a stable and prosperous life. Isn't this enough?"
"well!"
Chen Shuiyu sighed: “What does ‘enough’ mean?
In my mind, that is far from enough.
Yuyou was doing it for the children at first, but later her relationship with Xiao Huzi was okay.
But as time went by, she began to find that Xiao Huzi had too many shortcomings and found that he could not give her the life she wanted, so she lived a very depressed life."
Xue Ling frowned and asked, "Feeling depressed?
Shan You really said that?"
"yes!"
Chen Shuiyu said angrily: "Little Huzi has been away from home for three days. He has to sleep in the club for more than ten days a month. Every time he comes back, it's midnight.
Youyou is still young. She pursues romance and loves poetry and painting. After all, she is an artist.
But Xiao Huzi didn't care about her feelings at all. He only made money for himself. He didn't make much but loved to show off his wealth.
In the final analysis, this is the life that Youyou pursues, and Xiaohuzi simply cannot give it to you!"
"You are almost thirty years old and you are still so unrealistic?"
Xue Ling smiled helplessly: "Although the princess dream is good and worth pursuing, it must also be consistent with reality, right?"
No princess destiny, but a princess disease! No matter how good the princess dream is, it must be possible to realize it. It cannot be pinned on unrealism, especially on others.
If you don’t pursue your dreams hard, if you don’t work hard, if you don’t want to make your dreams come true with your own hands, you just place your hopes on others.
This is not forcing others to do something difficult, so what is it?
Xiao Huzi tried his best and was as forbearing as possible, but in the end he still couldn't meet the requirements of Shanyou's princess dream. Even with the blessing of his two sons, reality was still no match for the illusion of the princess dream.
Who is to blame?
Should she blame her parents for not raising her well, or should she blame herself for pampering herself too much and only thinking about her own princess dream, without caring about others?
Alas! Now there is no point in blaming anyone.
Chen Shuiyu answered confidently: "If he can't do it like a little tiger, there are other men who can do it.
The divorce rate among young people today is extremely high. If they live well, they will live together, and if they live poorly, they will divorce.
We should not be too traditional and rigid, and should support our children in pursuing their own happiness.
If the first marriage doesn't work, we can't let her hang from a tree for the rest of her life."
Xue Ling: "..." Wang Qing covered her chest, her face turning white and blue with anger.
"You...what do you think of marriage?
If everyone thought like you, how many families would be intact in the world?
If you have money, you'll be a couple, but if you don't, you'll be strangers."
Chen Shuiyuhu asked: "Lingling, what's wrong with you?
Why does your voice sound weird?
You, don't be angry.
You have always been the most reasonable and considerate.
Youyou has been worried that you will not forgive her, so she feels uneasy all day long and secretly sheds tears.
She is...now pregnant with the child.
The doctor told her not to have too many mood swings or negative emotions."
"I'm fine."
Xue Ling said coldly: "This marriage belongs to Xiaohuzi and Shanyou, as well as your two families, and has little to do with me.
I just hope that Xiao Huzi and the two children are well, and that Shanyou is also well."
Chen Shuiyu hurriedly warned: "The two children are only temporarily looked after by their family. You live close to each other and are relatives. You, please help and take care of them."
When Youyou gets better, she will definitely visit her two children."
"There's no need for her to come and see!"
Wang Qing got excited and yelled: "Shameless woman! Get away as far as you can! Stop coming to my door to embarrass yourself!"